Re: Chris Soules - Whitney Bischoff - Bachelor 19 - Discussion

by cindebugg Fri Mar 13, 2015 3:09 pm

stuckinsc wrote:
bleuberry wrote:Are we just not used to the women not watching? Have there been others?

Nikki did not watch. Cat watched but said she viewed his actions as okay as he wasn't hers yet. Back beyond that I don't remember. Oops, Emily watched and started believing the spoilers about Chantal. Got to love Emily, the woman who inspired the dodged a bullet gang!

I don't care if Whitney watched, but to not watch and then claim you don't have secrets from one another is odd. Personally, I don't think the season is that bad to watch. She knows about the kissing and even with Becca he never said he loved her.

If I was Whitney the after show stuff would bug me more. My fiancé touching Jade as much as possible on WTA, the extra long hug and hanging on every word from Becca at AFTR. Not just saying that even if Becca had said ILY. Then making it clear in every interview that his family strongly influenced his choice. I would be mad at Chris for still saying things that make it seem like he wasn't sure or all in. That is what I find disrespectful to Whitney. She is your fiancé, stop talking about your connection with the other woman. Sean May have said ILY, but he spent every interview and AFTR talking about his love for Cat. I wish Chris would learn some lessons from Sean.

Oh and the dating game it was Chris who likes Whitney's ass best and they both know it.

The question was, What is Whitney's favorite part of Chris' body?

by stuckinsc Fri Mar 13, 2015 3:30 pm

cindebugg wrote:

The question was, What is Whitney's favorite part of Chris' body?

Thank you for letting me know I fixed it.

Also of all the couples to bring up Brad and Emily or Emily and Jef would be the last I would want to compare my happy couple to. But Jef actually said he didn't care who Emily kissed since he had kissed a few women too. I do think he objected to her sexting someone else especially while on vacation with his family.

by cindebugg Fri Mar 13, 2015 4:04 pm

stuckinsc wrote:
cindebugg wrote:

The question was, What is Whitney's favorite part of Chris' body?

Thank you for letting me know I fixed it.

Also of all the couples to bring up Brad and Emily or Emily and Jef would be the last I would want to compare my happy couple to. But Jef actually said he didn't care who Emily kissed since he had kissed a few women too. I do think he objected to her sexting someone else especially while on vacation with his family.

I wasn't comparing them to Chris and Whitney. Just using them as an example of how the edit does nothing to protect the final relationship. Jef may have said that but when You're at your own viewing party and every time Arie and Emily come on screen you bolt to another room people are going to notice. I'm sure the texting went over like a turd in a punch bowl but that really didn't have anything to do with TBette as far as I know.

by timfan Fri Mar 13, 2015 4:56 pm

What I find kind of strange chris still is not following Whitney on twitter he added his dance partner witney but not his fiance also he follows some of the other girls from his season Carly britt just find it odd

by lurker11 Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:08 pm

Based on the live stream video, I think twitter is a massive part of his relationship with Witney C. and probably a complete non factor in his relationship with Whitney B. so I'm honestly not surprised he followed Witney C first.

by Guest Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:39 pm

stuckinsc wrote:
bleuberry wrote:Are we just not used to the women not watching? Have there been others?

Nikki did not watch. Cat watched but said she viewed his actions as okay as he wasn't hers yet. Back beyond that I don't remember. Oops, Emily watched and started believing the spoilers about Chantal. Got to love Emily, the woman who inspired the dodged a bullet gang!

I don't care if Whitney watched, but to not watch and then claim you don't have secrets from one another is odd. Personally, I don't think the season is that bad to watch. She knows about the kissing and even with Becca he never said he loved her.

If I was Whitney the after show stuff would bug me more. My fiancé touching Jade as much as possible on WTA, the extra long hug and hanging on every word from Becca at AFTR. Not just saying that even if Becca had said ILY. Then making it clear in every interview that his family strongly influenced his choice. I would be mad at Chris for still saying things that make it seem like he wasn't sure or all in. That is what I find disrespectful to Whitney. She is your fiancé, stop talking about your connection with the other woman. Sean May have said ILY, but he spent every interview and AFTR talking about his love for Cat. I wish Chris would learn some lessons from Sean.

I think that IS possible, since I know that Chris didn't watch any of Des/Brooks scenes, but it never seemed like there were any secrets between them. It seemed like he did know, at the time of the AFRC, how into Brooks she was and how he was her first choice. I can understand that he knows that, but just doesn't want to watch his finance in love with one of his best friends. With Whitney, however, I got the feeling that she didn't know how strongly Chris felt for the other women. I think that it could have been Britt, if it hadn't been for her outburst, Jade, if it hadn't been for Playboy, and most certainly Becca, if she had loved him. I think that Whitney did hear about some things, because their body language and chemistry seemed much better at the People photoshoot/interview, which was only a few days earlier. She also didn't seem as smitten as she was during the show. JMO!

by Lucas15 Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:40 pm

Why does he have to follow Whitney on Twitter? - he lives with her ...

by KB_Mom Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:42 pm

^ And it's not like she's a twitter junkie and is going to make some big announcement on twitter that he'd only find out by following her.

by Kashathediva Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:43 pm

Lucas15 wrote:Why does he have to follow Whitney on Twitter? - he lives with her ...

Isn't this the truth! It's bad enough we have turned into a society of texters. It takes me 10 secs to say something and 10 times that to type it. laugh out loud

by KB_Mom Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:45 pm

^ My kids will actually text me when we are all home and they are just in a different room. giggling

by Lucas15 Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:56 pm

chasingpavements wrote:With Whitney, however, I got the feeling that she didn't know how strongly Chris felt for the other women.

And I got the feeling that she knew exactly because she said she knows that Chris gives 100% to anything he does - just like she does.

The way I look at this issue is that if the lead tells F1 what went on (as I think they should) and F1 chooses to watch the entire show it sort of signals a distrust about what they were told. If they choose not to watch it signals that they believe what they were told and feel no need to watch. And unlike us - who only see the edited version of the show - IMO tells F1 the truth (or should). If you know the truth, why is there any reason to see the edited story line?

by albean99 Fri Mar 13, 2015 7:20 pm

I was upset when my dh followed me on Twitter. I felt he didn't need to know who I followed, etc. Luckily he doesn't actually do anything there. giggling

I did watch the interview, Mindless, and saw a couple who's serious & mature about their relationship and doen't feel the need to prove it to others. Yes I do think they're in love. Will it last? No idea. Time will tell. I can like a couple, wish them the best, and then pretty much move on.

I thought Whitney and any f1 should avoid watching the season and stay off SM & any articles, especially the comments. Why put yourself through that? I have trouble enough when I'm on some of those forums where they let them treat other members badly. speechless

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