Chris Soules - Whitney Bischoff - Bachelor 19 - Discussion

As far as voicing inconsistencies during the show and post show, this goes on every single season. Every single one.
I am not going to go too far back in my memory, but we have heard mains say: I knew from the first night, or our first date or when I saw _______ get out of the limo and then say how conflicted they were on the FRC date. I just ignore that kind of stuff.
It's white noise. More white noise, body language--unless it is so over the top(like back banging step one mastering skill in Heimlich 101).
Watch what the couple does and how they act while doing it --away from the camera.

Kashathediva wrote:As far as voicing inconsistencies during the show and post show, this goes on every single season. Every single one.
I am not going to go too far back in my memory, but we have heard mains say: I knew from the first night, or our first date or when I saw _______ get out of the limo and then say how conflicted they were on the FRC date. I just ignore that kind of stuff.
It's white noise. More white noise, body language--unless it is so over the top(like back banging step one mastering skill in Heimlich 101).
Watch what the couple does and how they act while doing it --away from the camera.

Every. Single. One.

Viewers were in an uproar over Des & Chris season until JPG got them off the hook.  Viewers ripped JPG & Nikki until MeandI hit the screen. Viewers ripped MeandI until Chris took her place. Viewers will slam Chris & Whitney until BrittKaitlyn get started.

FRC/ATFR Chris chose and proposed to Whitney. They're engaged.

Becca did not love Chris (she stated this). She appears to have NO Regrets. She's not broken hearted or pining for him.

Becca appears to be happy and seems to be moving along just fine. She and Whitney became friends and both stated that fact. Becca in her IG wrote that she will block any negative comments.

That's what I love most about this crazy, loopy, upside down, unexpected twister of a show. It's produced reality...

But the real in that reality is that they move on and friendships are made

Show is over and on to the next expected produced madness

You know, I'm definitely not arguing that these two will be together forever or that they're each other's true love or whatever. It's just that after two seasons of less than mature behaviour, these two are a breath of fresh air. I just find them to be nice and likeable people, so I'm cheering them on. I did enjoy watching their story, too.

Kashathediva wrote:As far as voicing inconsistencies during the show and post show, this goes on every single season. Every single one.
I am not going to go too far back in my memory, but we have heard mains say: I knew from the first night, or our first date or when I saw _______ get out of the limo and then say how conflicted they were on the FRC date. I just ignore that kind of stuff.
It's white noise. More white noise, body language--unless it is so over the top(like back banging step one mastering skill in Heimlich 101).
Watch what the couple does and how they act while doing it --away from the camera.

You make a great point. Becca and Chris away from the cameras were different... making out in parking lot. ;) But, she was not in love with him. Not so sure Chris was as sure but he made his final decision.

Unfortunately "people' will be watching especially with him doing DWTS. JMO

bleuberry wrote:You know, I'm definitely not arguing that these two will be together forever or that they're each other's true love or whatever. It's just that after two seasons of less than mature behaviour, these two are a breath of fresh air. I just find them to be nice and likeable people, so I'm cheering them on. I did enjoy watching their story, too.

As Per Chris .. When he proposed .. He wanted the world to know that he loved Whitney :cutesmile!: :bigsmile:

^^^ I have no doubt he loved whit but imo he loved Becca too. Even his dad thought so. ;)

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ I have no doubt he loved whit but imo he loved Becca too.  Even his dad thought so.  ;)

Sometimes what you want is not what you need. I compare Chris/Des/Brooks to Chris/Whitney/Becca

I see your point but in no way do I compare Chris to Des. I love whit and wish her well. I think their relationship is strained and imo there is a reason(s) why.

lurker11 wrote:They were out to dinner last night with another couple, and they responded to fans on insta saying Chris and whitney are happy and solid. So I'm taking that over tabloid sources

Jmo, but I doubt that their friends would say online "their body language and chemistry was just off... that relationship is on its last legs". Even the girls on Michelle's spreecast, after saying that he was smitten by Becca and still seemed to feel that way at the AFRC, said that they think that whit/chris will last. No one close to either of them is going to betray their confidence and tell the world about any potential problems.

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bleuberry wrote:You know, I'm definitely not arguing that these two will be together forever or that they're each other's true love or whatever. It's just that after two seasons of less than mature behaviour, these two are a breath of fresh air. I just find them to be nice and likeable people, so I'm cheering them on. I did enjoy watching their story, too.

Agreed! I was caught up in the Chris and Becca story the last few weeks, but without a doubt find Chris and Whitney nice, classy, realistic people. I wish them luck and will be happy to check in for updates on them unlike the last 2 couples who I was totally uninterested in. I think Chris was truly conflicted and did the best he could and probably made the best decision for a man in his 30s ready to marry to make. I hope he and Whit give it a real try, and both seem the mature and logical types to move on with class if it's not working.