Chris Soules - Whitney Bischoff - Bachelor 19 - Discussion

DTWS has been on for many years and there have only been a few of the dancing partners that got romantically involved (that I am aware of) I think Whitney is a strong woman and I don't think there will be jealousy involved here - there may be other issues they need to work out but I don't think she will worry about Witney.

see2love wrote:
Good post. i dont however believe that Whitney is really in love with Chris to be honest.  She may have played the part and acted that way but it was all strategic planning and manipulations on her part.
I will keep saying I wish them well because I honestly do, but I didnot see a love story between Whitney and chris on my TV and i am yet to see it post show.

If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

GuardianAngel wrote:I'm thinking DWTS is a great start to a new relationship coming off this crazy show. There will be challenges ahead of them, which already they have gotten through some of them. Settling in a new apartment, job changes for Whitney, dealing with the media and hours of practising per day. There will be dancing that requires a lot of emotion, sexiness and touching.

This will give them an opportunity to test the strength of their new relationship. Whitney appears to be extremely confident and IMO I don't think she's the type to give up easily. Your fiance is on DWTS, who would not be supportive of such an opportunity to live in L.A attend the shows and experience all that there is in meeting other stars.

I don't think this will create any problems for these two at all. I maybe wrong, but Whitney appears quite comfortable in the changes in their lives. I think we'll see a very happy couple each week.

Just to clarify, this is a General Discussion thread, just like other General discussion threads for other former couples, in the Former Couples Category.

JMO, but I do think that both leads that went on the show have admitted that it created problems for their relationship(Jake/Vienna, Sean/Catherine). Obviously, I think those two examples speak to the fact that if you have a strong foundation, built on respect and trust, you can get through it and it might even make your relationship stronger. If you don't have that strong foundation, it's just going to destroy it more quickly. I just think that practicing 12 hours/day and being too tired and busy to spend any quality time with your partner would create problems for ANY new relationship. Especially one where they have only been able to see each other approximately 1x/week for the last 3.5 months. Add to that the crazy amount of fame and attention that Chris will experience because of DWTS's bigger audience. I don't fault Chris for doing DWTS. Many leads, including ones that gotten married, have said that they would have done it if it had been offered to them. I just think that it will be test their relationship.

Sorry, I meant problems as in breaking up. There will be issues, Sean and Cat got through them, Jake and Vienna not so much.

I believe DWTS isn't going to make or break someone. If they are truly inlove, as S/C were/are, and not Jake/Vienna, they will resolve whatever issues they have like adults.

IDK, maybe because I'm older, but if it was me, I'd be very happy and supportive. I'd find things to do on my own, I wouldn't have any problems living in L.A while my rich farmer fiance is on a famous show called DWTS.

I think Whitney's maturity level knows she is living a pretty good life right now, not to mention the life that's waiting for them together. I don't think she'd want to have relationship problems because Chris is too tired after practising. IDK, of course I could be wrong, but that's my speculation.

GuardianAngel wrote:Sorry, I meant problems as in breaking up. There will be issues, Sean and Cat got through them, Jake and Vienna not so much.

I believe DWTS isn't going to make or break someone. If they are truly inlove, as S/C were/are, and not Jake/Vienna, they will resolve whatever issues they have like adults.

IDK, maybe because I'm older, but if it was me, I'd be very happy and supportive. I'd find things to do on my own, I wouldn't have any problems living in L.A while my rich farmer fiance is on a famous show called DWTS.

I think Whitney's maturity level knows she is living a pretty good life right now, not to mention the life that's waiting for them together. I don't think she'd want to have relationship problems because Chris is too tired after practising. IDK, of course I could be wrong, but that's my speculation.

Completely agree!

FLChica wrote:

see2love wrote:
Good post. i dont however believe that Whitney is really in love with Chris to be honest.  She may have played the part and acted that way but it was all strategic planning and manipulations on her part.
I will keep saying I wish them well because I honestly do, but I didnot see a love story between Whitney and chris on my TV and i am yet to see it post show.

If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

She wanted Chris and got him but i am unconvinced she really is in love with Chris. IMO. 
I always got the vibe she had a "Whitney" she portrayed on the show as opposed to her normal sels and the fact that she had a journal to record who is going home and when and who has dates while on the show validates my theory that she had a stretegy. Why not just be open and see where your connection takes you? Wha did she care about how may people were left and how many were leaving at each rose ceremony? 
She wanted him from the get go, used the playbook to get him but i dont believe she really loves the person Chris is. 
I know others have a different opinion and i respect all opinions.

FLChica wrote:

see2love wrote:
Good post. i dont however believe that Whitney is really in love with Chris to be honest.  She may have played the part and acted that way but it was all strategic planning and manipulations on her part.
I will keep saying I wish them well because I honestly do, but I didnot see a love story between Whitney and chris on my TV and i am yet to see it post show.

If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

Sorry I can't resist this answer: B A C O N
All the free bacon her little heart desires.  Pork chops, ham and sausage.
Corn. Corn fritters, corn bread, corn puddin, corn souffle, corn muffins, popcorn and caramel corn, pickled corn.
Can you tell it's getting on to dinner time on the east coast? :sourgrapes:

Kashathediva wrote:

FLChica wrote:

see2love wrote:
Good post. i dont however believe that Whitney is really in love with Chris to be honest.  She may have played the part and acted that way but it was all strategic planning and manipulations on her part.
I will keep saying I wish them well because I honestly do, but I didnot see a love story between Whitney and chris on my TV and i am yet to see it post show.

If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

Sorry I can't resist this answer: B A C O N
All the free bacon her little heart desires.  Pork chops, ham and sausage.
Corn. Corn fritters, corn bread, corn puddin, corn souffle, corn muffins, popcorn and caramel corn, pickled corn.
Can you tell it's getting on to dinner time on the east coast? :sourgrapes:

Holy cow Kasha! That is friggin' hilarious! (All said in my best Whitney voice.)

Kasha

Kashathediva wrote:

FLChica wrote:

see2love wrote:
Good post. i dont however believe that Whitney is really in love with Chris to be honest.  She may have played the part and acted that way but it was all strategic planning and manipulations on her part.
I will keep saying I wish them well because I honestly do, but I didnot see a love story between Whitney and chris on my TV and i am yet to see it post show.

If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

Sorry I can't resist this answer: B A C O N
All the free bacon her little heart desires.  Pork chops, ham and sausage.
Corn. Corn fritters, corn bread, corn puddin, corn souffle, corn muffins, popcorn and caramel corn, pickled corn.
Can you tell it's getting on to dinner time on the east coast? :sourgrapes:

That is enough for me to move to a farm actually. 

FLChica wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

FLChica wrote:
If I'm understanding this correctly, Whitney doesn't love Chris and schemed /manipulated while on the show. Why do you think she did that? If she doesn't want Chris, what does she want?

Sorry I can't resist this answer: B A C O N
All the free bacon her little heart desires.  Pork chops, ham and sausage.
Corn. Corn fritters, corn bread, corn puddin, corn souffle, corn muffins, popcorn and caramel corn, pickled corn.
Can you tell it's getting on to dinner time on the east coast? :sourgrapes:

Holy cow Kasha! That is friggin' hilarious! (All said in my best Whitney voice.)

Love this post...holy cow is right...oh my gosh...the girls gonna have a feast.

mindless wrote:Sorry, but I don't know how anyone can watch this and think these two are in love. It can't be that they're over the honeymoon phase, since according to Whitney they haven't spent much time together at all. He put his arm around for a minute, while claiming he's got no regrets, but it dropped soon enough. Awkward.

Awkward!     They looked totally annoyed with one another and I am sensing that Whitney is mighty upset about what happened during the show, even though she didn't watch it, which methinks she did but won't admit it.  Jmoaa.