Bachelor 19 - Chris Soules - Episode - 11 - LCD - FRC - ATFR #2 *Spoilers - Sleuthing*- Discussion

umngirl wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

StacyNor wrote:
What do you mean had no choice?

IDK if it's in a contract thing, as in if they are asked they have to? I'm just guessing and responding to questions why would he accept if he wanted to get back to Iowa after the show.

Pretty positive it's a choice and not something they have to do if offered. I don't blame him for taking the chance but I hope he understands what he could do to his relationship.

I actually thinking he is hoping the time delaying any permanent move will help him feel more confident in it. I would feel better if Whitney wasn't going to LA. I can't imagine it will be lots of fun for her that Chris will come home every night exhausted and talking all about time with a Witney who isn't her. I think staying in Chicago would have been better for her. Stay with your support system and his sisters who love her.

He shouldn't have proposed and let her go on to be the next Bachelorette IMO. It would have been great for her and it would have been better than the Britt/Kaitlyn fiasco.

Neil lane article saying Chris was "giddy" talking about whitney and picking the ring.
http://stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/2015/03/10/whitney-bischoff-neil-lane-engagement-ring-chris-soules-exclusive/?xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

^ I guess they forgot to tell Neil about the he was torn until the last minute script.

stuckinsc wrote:

umngirl wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

IDK if it's in a contract thing, as in if they are asked they have to? I'm just guessing and responding to questions why would he accept if he wanted to get back to Iowa after the show.

Pretty positive it's a choice and not something they have to do if offered. I don't blame him for taking the chance but I hope he understands what he could do to his relationship.

I actually thinking he is hoping the time delaying any permanent move will help him feel more confident in it.  I would feel better if Whitney wasn't going to LA.  I can't imagine it will be lots of fun for her that Chris will come home every night exhausted and talking all about time with a Witney who isn't her.  I think staying in Chicago would have been better for her.  Stay with your support system and his sisters who love her.

That and the threat of possibly seeing Becca (or any of the other girls) somewhere in Southern CA along the way... no good.

Half of this season's cast seems to be in California, so I am sure Whitney will be just fine.

hmbach wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

umngirl wrote:

Pretty positive it's a choice and not something they have to do if offered. I don't blame him for taking the chance but I hope he understands what he could do to his relationship.

I actually thinking he is hoping the time delaying any permanent move will help him feel more confident in it.  I would feel better if Whitney wasn't going to LA.  I can't imagine it will be lots of fun for her that Chris will come home every night exhausted and talking all about time with a Witney who isn't her.  I think staying in Chicago would have been better for her.  Stay with your support system and his sisters who love her.

That and the threat of possibly seeing Becca (or any of the other girls) somewhere in Southern CA along the way... no good.

I don't think that Becca will go anywhere near these two unless invited. She has been incredibly respectful and supportive of their relationship. Whitney is Chris's fiance and unless Whitney invites her to be near them I don't expect Becca to go anywhere close.

lurker11 wrote:Neil lane article saying Chris was "giddy" talking about whitney and picking the ring.
http://stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/2015/03/10/whitney-bischoff-neil-lane-engagement-ring-chris-soules-exclusive/?xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

Giddy in an "infomercial kind of way" seems like to me in that clip.

iamreal2u wrote:I think they have been "living together" ( She probably has been at his home every weekend) for the last 4 months.  She knows that he leaves the toilet seat up. To me they are looking like the old married couple who occasionally crack the dry jokes.  Their problem is letting everyone get caught up, and having the spotlight on them again.  I see Chris trying to say the right things and not going against what we saw on the final show.  TPTB love him because he dances to their drums.  I also see that neither is still not comfortable in front of cameras.  

Totally agree !!

stuckinsc wrote:

hmbach wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

I actually thinking he is hoping the time delaying any permanent move will help him feel more confident in it.  I would feel better if Whitney wasn't going to LA.  I can't imagine it will be lots of fun for her that Chris will come home every night exhausted and talking all about time with a Witney who isn't her.  I think staying in Chicago would have been better for her.  Stay with your support system and his sisters who love her.

That and the threat of possibly seeing Becca (or any of the other girls) somewhere in Southern CA along the way... no good.

I don't think that Becca will go anywhere near these two unless invited.  She has been incredibly respectful and supportive of their relationship.  Whitney is Chris's fiance and unless Whitney invites her to be near them I don't expect Becca to go anywhere close.  

I agree.

KB_Mom wrote:^ I guess they forgot to tell Neil about the he was torn until the last minute script.

I guess they did. :Nod:

Chris admires Whitney, is impressed with her but had intentions of finding a nice, sweet girl like he thought Jade was at first that would live in Arlington and that his family would like. Becca was next choice for that role and she'd like the outdoors and other things he likes. He recognizes how strong-willed Whitney is and that is wearing on him and will be more of a struggle. In other words, I think he's still conflicted but the comments here and there that suggest they are comfortable together can make one think that as his awe with Whitney calms down they made end up with a very good relationship. He is not 100% in emotionally and with his heart but his brain is trying to be.