Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #5

When becca talk to C on the bed she's telling him. She wants to be married and have kids. And I think this in the regards to the kids part. About having kids in a year or two just not rt now. She isn't telling C that she dosent want to be with him. She telling him IMO she wants to enjoy of being love and not rushing things. That when she gets married that she wants to enjoy the married life first. The kids are the YET part not the marriage. She wants the marriage. Becca say tell me if I'm rong please. That she's in love with Chris.. I don't see Becca as a Back peddling. I just don't see it. She dosent seem the type of person IMO

Hopefully wrote:When becca talk to C on the bed she's telling him. She wants to be married and have kids. And I think this in the regards to the kids part. About having kids in a year or two just not rt now. She isn't telling C that she dosent want to be with him. She telling him IMO she wants to enjoy of being love and not rushing things. That when she gets married that she wants to enjoy the married life first. The kids are the YET part not the marriage. She wants the marriage. Becca say tell me if I'm rong please. That she's in love with Chris.. I don't see Becca as a Back peddling. I just don't see it. She dosent seem the type of person IMO

But Chris says "Why can't you just tell me that?" So Becca was not referring to marrying him and having kids with him, or he wouldn't have asked her to tell him... jmo

See there the wanna part agin.

Did anyone notice Chris's mum touching Becca's hair?

And there was a splice and dice during the conversation Becca had with Chris.

In the preview, when Becca is crying talking to Chris's mom, it looks like she's holding Becca's hand. Remember how sweet Chris's mom was to Andi? She actually told Andi (a woman she just met) ILY. It was so sweet! She must be the sweetest mom ever!

sophienette wrote:I agree Pia,

I think a lot of people (posters, viewers...) seems to think Chris cannot make his own decisions and needs to be led, bullied even by his family, by Whitney, by...

He handled Britt, Kelsey, Ashley I etc... very well. Why in the world would he propose to Whitney, if he did, if he wasnt 10)% in love with her and wanting to make it work? To please his mum? really? That is not giving him much credit!

My point was that by Becca leaving (speculating), the choice was taken away from him. I really believe Chris was gaga over Becca but she wasn't ready. Since he also has connection with Whitney he decided that he could work with that. (not a knock on Whitney) jmo

Becca want to enjoy of being in love for the first time. This is a new for her.Becca wants to she needs him to be slow,And I think that he is willing to do so. He knows this first of having the feelings. Like Becca said she only wants to get married once. ANd I think C is is starting to see that this is true love. What he has been waiting for. See the smile on there faces. He listens to every word she says like a little kid and the sponge thing. JMO. Like Chris had said in the past about Becca he see on the same page.

Because the love story has been so strong this season between C and B, I think they are preparing viewers for next week. They have to justify the ending ahead of time or it will be totally unbelievable to viewers.

concerned36 wrote:The GMA sneak peeks better explain her leaving in the car, she's not heartbroken because she wasn't in love. I'm sure she's sad for what could have been, but she's okay. She was okay when she met her family, too. Relief to be off the show? and back to "normal" life? :Nod:

I didn't gather that from watching that.

And lets not forget Becca's VO " my heart is all in 100%. In the season preview, wasnt there also a VO "i have never felt love like this before" or something like that?

concerned36 wrote:Because the love story has been so strong this season between C and B, I think they are preparing viewers for next week. They have to justify the ending ahead of time or it will be totally unbelievable to viewers.

I have no horses in the race this season. But I do not see a strong love story. JMO, of course.

The "choice taken away from him" I think now means that Chris's mom told Chris what Becca said, or probably even Becca told him she's not in love with him. He couldn't take a chance proposing to a woman who could say no.