Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #5

concerned36 wrote:The GMA sneak peeks better explain her leaving in the car, she's not heartbroken because she wasn't in love. I'm sure she's sad for what could have been, but she's okay. She was okay when she met her family, too. Relief to be off the show? and back to "normal" life? :Nod:

Is this what she said, or is this your opinion?

See you are rt on target there.

nutty1 wrote:

concerned36 wrote:The GMA sneak peeks better explain her leaving in the car, she's not heartbroken because she wasn't in love. I'm sure she's sad for what could have been, but she's okay. She was okay when she met her family, too. Relief to be off the show? and back to "normal" life? :Nod:

I didn't gather that from watching that.

There are pics the family posted of her with them in the hotel room when she was on the way to her grandmother's funeral. Folks were saying she looked happy, as if she got the ring. I just meant that she could look happy to be off the show. To me, she looked peaceful, not like ecstatic.

Is it just me that I just can't picture Becca wearing a hoody (or any kind sport-comfy attire) on the last day of shooting ... even if it is only for the road (back home) ... I mean she dressed up many times before (we've only seen her in sweet-pants, onesies behind the scenes) ... and she also wore much less make-up for very "important" dates with Chris.

Question about the spoiler/scoop from the magazine for those who believe it:

those who believe the reason for Chris to choose Whit was the fact that F2 wasn't all-in/ready and she walked away, and those who believe that Chris still harbors feelings for F2, because she was the one who he wanted ...

if it turns out that Becca is F1 ... do you still believe in the reasons for him making that decision?

Pia1 wrote:

sophienette wrote:I agree Pia,

I think a lot of people (posters, viewers...) seems to think Chris cannot make his own decisions and needs to be led, bullied even by his family, by Whitney, by...

He handled Britt, Kelsey, Ashley I etc... very well. Why in the world would he propose to Whitney, if he did, if he wasnt 10)% in love with her and wanting to make it work? To please his mum? really? That is not giving him much credit!

My point was that by Becca leaving (speculating), the choice was taken away from him. I really believe Chris was gaga over Becca but she wasn't ready. Since he also has connection with Whitney he decided that he could work with that. (not a knock on Whitney) jmo

Yes, I agree with this!

I think the Lead always needs to justify their actions, thus the 'I'm falling in love with all of them' line.

As for Chris H saying they didn't know, I don't buy that for a second.

Unnamed sources in a magazine can be made up by writer on what they suppose happens. Just keep remembering Becca's voice saying something like "My heart is in 100%" as Chris is closing the drapes to their fantasy suite. I think she says this later after talking with his mom and realizing how she would feel to lose him, she is in love. She finally gives him the encouragement to follow his heart and soul, he can't let her go. He told the guys "I know how I feel when I am with Becca". Whitney may be sure thing but he will be patient for Becca. IMO the shocker is in spite of everything Chris will be brave and take his chances with Becca, she may not be ready to get married right away but she wants to get married and have children. Reminds me of Marcus during BIP when Dylan told him Lacey is already spoken for so don't waste your rose but what did he do? He made the bold move of giving his rose to her anyway and now they are happily engaged. At least we only have 1 more week till all is revealed......

Luv I'm behind this100% all the way. I really think his going take that chance as well. I'm still behind Becca to the very end. ;) It's Becca and Chris there love story. IMO . Sorry to the Whitney fans but Istill dont see it.

albean99 wrote:After watching that I'm even more sure he doesn't pick Becca. She's nowhere near ready plus she's not even in love. She really would do so much better in a real life situation than on this show. She's actually being realistic but doesn't work in this case.

You worded this way better than I did in the LCD thread but this is basically what I was trying to say.

Also IMO, I don't Chris's Family OR Whitney "bullied" Chris into picking Whitney.

Does anyone have the specific dates of Chriss dates with Becca and the date of the FRC? Im thinking that time period was only like 6 weeks?

Hopefully wrote:Luv I'm behind  this100% all the way.  I really think his going take that chance as well. I'm still behind Becca to the very end. ;) It's Becca and Chris there love story. IMO . Sorry to the Whitney fans but Istill dont see it.

Bless your heart!  I am officially now living vicariously through you because I really really want it to be true!
Even the face all of the overwhelming evidence you still remain hopeful (pun intended) of a Becca F1.
I love your optimism!

Chrisbecca wrote:Does anyone have the specific dates of Chriss dates with Becca and the date of the FRC?  Im thinking that time period was only like 6 weeks?

The FRC was November 22 and their first day was about a month before that. They had 2 back to back 1-1 dates. So maybe the first date, horseback riding, was around October 20, and the 2nd date was in the loft apt on October 27. Then HTD on October 30, her b'day. They you have to consider their next date was around 2 weeks later in Bali. So they dated one week (3 dates), then two weeks later had 2 dates in 1 week. Doesn't it seem crazy to think of getting engaged after basically 2 weeks of dating? Total of 5 dates?