Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #3

[aviej]

Well I for one know what it is like to be friends with an ex. Some exes you can be friends with and hang out like usual as Michelle and Graham. Other exes you have to be friends from a distance because the two of you in a room, let's just say fireworks would happen. There is a saying where I'm from "old fire sticks catch fast".

[Guest]

Hi guys, checking back to see if anything has happened. The picture is absolutely gorgeous, just gorgeous. When modelling some photoshoots are smiley and cute, and some photoshoots are sexy and serious and this is one of those, that's what the camera wanted.

This break up must be really hard on them, b/c they lived together for 8 months which is the same as being married in all honesty particularly if you're engaged. If they had just dated and seen each other on weekends it would be easier. I have no idea why they split or who's idea it was. None. I don't know when it started. I do know fame is crazy and must be stressful and difficult at times.

I think Hy and Patti have been most prudent, they are waiting to see what happens before they say anything. I don't know about you guys, but I "broke up" with my now husband twice the first year and got back together after 2 weeks I think it was. You know, couples fight but if you love each other you can't help but get back together ha ha. It's really common but in their case it is so public.


I don't think they'll be able to be friends, some couples can do it, but Andi and Josh have too much chemistry I don't think it would work. I've been able to be buddy to some of my ex-boyfriends but only the one's I wasn't that attracted to.

Well they're adults, and whatever their choice may be they need to make it and no one else. Hopefully they will follow their hearts.

[Maggenzm]

Well I for one know what it is like to be friends with an ex. Some exes you can be friends with and hang out like usual as Michelle and Graham. Other exes you have to be friends from a distance because the two of you in a room, let's just say fireworks would happen. There is a saying where I'm from "old fire sticks catch fast".

ITA, no way they will be close friends.

[Maggenzm]

Hi guys, checking back to see if anything has happened. The picture is absolutely gorgeous, just gorgeous. When modelling some photoshoots are smiley and cute, and some photoshoots are sexy and serious and this is one of those, that's what the camera wanted.

This break up must be really hard on them, b/c they lived together for 8 months which is the same as being married in all honesty particularly if you're engaged. If they had just dated and seen each other on weekends it would be easier. I have no idea why they split or who's idea it was. None. I don't know when it started.  I do know fame is crazy and must be stressful and difficult at times.  

I think Hy and Patti have been most prudent, they are waiting to see what happens before they say anything. I don't know about you guys, but I "broke up" with my now husband twice the first year and got back together after 2 weeks I think it was. You know, couples fight but if you love each other you can't help but get back together ha ha. It's really common but in their case it is so public.


I don't think they'll be able to be friends, some couples can do it, but Andi and Josh have too much chemistry I don't think it would work. I've been able to be buddy to some of my ex-boyfriends but only the one's I wasn't that attracted to.

Well they're adults, and whatever their choice may be they need to make it and no one else. Hopefully they will follow their hearts.

Agree with the bolded. sometimes, all what you need is time.

[AnandaMarie]

Hi guys, checking back to see if anything has happened. The picture is absolutely gorgeous, just gorgeous. When modelling some photoshoots are smiley and cute, and some photoshoots are sexy and serious and this is one of those, that's what the camera wanted.

This break up must be really hard on them, b/c they lived together for 8 months which is the same as being married in all honesty particularly if you're engaged. If they had just dated and seen each other on weekends it would be easier. I have no idea why they split or who's idea it was. None. I don't know when it started.  I do know fame is crazy and must be stressful and difficult at times.  

I think Hy and Patti have been most prudent, they are waiting to see what happens before they say anything. I don't know about you guys, but I "broke up" with my now husband twice the first year and got back together after 2 weeks I think it was. You know, couples fight but if you love each other you can't help but get back together ha ha. It's really common but in their case it is so public.


I don't think they'll be able to be friends, some couples can do it, but Andi and Josh have too much chemistry I don't think it would work. I've been able to be buddy to some of my ex-boyfriends but only the one's I wasn't that attracted to.

Well they're adults, and whatever their choice may be they need to make it and no one else. Hopefully they will follow their hearts.

Agree with the bolded. sometimes, all what you need is time.

I agree with the bolded too. I think that time apart will hopefully make them realize how much they love and miss each other and hopefully will help them get back together. Maybe the need to realize what they lost in order to appreciate it and make it work.
Also, I don't agree with anyone who says that they were definitely broken up when Andi went to Mexico. They could have been but we don't know for sure. Maybe she just needed some time alone. I think sometimes we all do - and not only with a significant other. I think that sometimes people may get on your nerves or you may just be confused and need time to think and to realize how much you love them.
I agree with aviej when she said that it is ultimately Andi and Josh's decision. I think that parents need to realize that whether or not they approve of a relationship or marriage, that it is their child's choice. Josh is the one who has to live with Andi if they get married, not MM. I think MM is a good parent and I can only hope that she will encourage Josh to follow his heart and make whatever decisions that make him happy regardless of whether she approves or not.
I still think that they can get back together.

[Guest]

Pure speculation on my part, just voicing some thoughts.
For the last 8 months, perhaps longer, fans would ask for IG photos, tweets, fb posts or photos feeding their fan love of the couple. Miraculously, MM would come through or even more ironic JODI would come through. (perhaps a little bird whispered in their ears? Nah!):Nod: Perhaps.
Big coincidence. Not --imoaa.
Now the couple comes out with a joint statement indicating they have broken up and are moving on and wishing each other well.
MM comes out and says such a day later.
I can't help, but think all she is doing is letting their fans know one more time, "Thank you. The couple tried, but much to their disappointment they are moving on. Thank you for your support, now it's really time to support them and let them move on."
This is how I take her statement. Just me.

I completely agree with your perspective Kasha. MM was just being consistent.

As far as the speculation about Josh and Andi having their first breakup when she went to Mexico, I really don't think so. I'm pretty sure someone on this forum posted a tweet from a person who saw her and Josh out to dinner at Hal's Steakhouse the night before she went on her girl trip. someone tweeted back asking how they looked and the person replied very happy. That doesn't sound like a break up to me.

[nannymargie]

I come to the conclusion that we need someone to start taking notes and record everything we find so we can go back and check our facts.  I forgot about that tweet.

[nannymargie]

I changed my avi today from happier times for good luck.

[nannymargie]

MM posted a pic of Her, Josh, Aaron, Stephanie and Chandler eating out tonite.

[Linds911]

I changed my avi today from happier times for good luck.  

[aviej]

Lauren Goodhart Murray is with Tricia Lee Hinson Whitmer and 4 others at Prime - Steaks, Sushi, Seafood.



Is all of the posting pics really necessary though? To me it's rubbing salt into Andi's wound, could be wrong. Not even Aaron looks very happy.

[ThankMeLater]

It's a family pic...how is it rubbing salt into Andi's wounds?..

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