Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #2
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Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #2
mamahamme- Posts : 286
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mamahamme wrote:I notice josh hasn't changed his picture with Andi for his advocate sight. She's still there with his arms aroud her.
I know Josh has been busy with Advocare this weekend. But I am glad they are deleting things too fast. This shows me that they are not rushing to completely break it off. Or one is waiting to see what the other one is going to do. If they completely take their pictures off that will break my heart.
nannymargie- Posts : 4734
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mamahamme wrote:Its sad that Andi was born and raised in Atlanta, josh moved to Atlanta a yr ago and yet it feels she is the one who is being punished not him. It just feels weird.
The Murrays are Georgia royalty. Atlanta is huge urban sprawl, so she could be from one part of ATL, but not know most of it and she left ATL and GA for both her undergrad and her law school. So less of a tie there in many minds. Though, I think she will have her defenders as well.
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The proposal read as false to me, just OTT and not real.Diana wrote:I only saw the proposal but how can a girl doubt that?
In retrospect, the doubts Andi expressed about Josh throughout the season (whether she could trust him/their connection/how perfect it all seemed) now clearly seem like a smokescreen for her deeper concerns....
Andi had everything she said wanted with Josh but her gut was telling her something wasn’t right, so she kept questioning it. But her hesitations couldn’t uncover the truth because the pull towards her dream was so strong. And I’ve had this experience in my life too where I was pulled towards a life choice and felt a great hesitation, but went for it anyway. Hindsight is always 20/20 and as painful as a mistake can be, sometimes you actually have to experience the wrong choice to get beyond it.
I feel for Andi. She tried so hard to make it work, and in the process turned her life upside down (she gave up her job, turned toward celebrity) to convince herself that it could work. But she could not overcome the fact that it wasn’t right.
And of course, I feel for Josh too, since I don’t believe he had any dilemma about the fantasy Andi sold him about what their life would be…
SueSt- Posts : 3842
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SueSt wrote:The proposal read as false to me, just OTT and not real.Diana wrote:I only saw the proposal but how can a girl doubt that?
I agree. She may be from Georgia, but she doesn't always sound like Vivien Leigh in Gone with the Wind. It just felt like she was putting on an act rather than speaking from her heart.
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As for Andi doubting Josh and the relationship, clearly her woman's intuition was right on the money, otherwise they wouldn't have lasted a hot second after the show. Josh is a great guy and I'm sure he was being genuine when he said all those things about her, but he had no idea what he was saying imo, and Andi was right to doubt and doubt and doubt in retrospect.
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Sometime you have to fall apart only to realize you need to be together!
nannymargie- Posts : 4734
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aviej wrote:Why was Andi right to doubt him and his sincerity? What evidence do we have that he has not lived up to everything he said on the show? He was and is pretty clear on what he's looking for and that hasn't changed post show neither has his personality or priorities changed. Maybe the image that Andi presented on the show wasn't a true reflection on who she is in reality. Because IMO, Andi got to know Josh a lot more than he got to know her so she knew what she was getting into Josh didn't have such a clear insight. I believe when in the HTD if Josh hadn't gotten the nod from him family he never would have gone further with the show. I personally think that Andi is the one who changed, she wanted to be such a good Bachelorette that somewhere along the lines she lost herself in the process and became more "plastic" than real, IMO. I still believe that Josh and Andi would have had lasting love if Hollywood was not in the equation. Sometimes fame just changes people, and in this case I think for the worse.
I agree aviej, The Josh we saw on the show seems to be the same Josh we see now. He was ready to get married and start a family. I think in the beginning Andi wanted it also. But for some reason it looked like she was pushing that back some. Which is fine if they both wanted that. Maybe this will make Andi see what's really important and realize it was Josh and a family all along. If she is truly not ready for that then Josh is the wrong man for her because he is truly ready for that and told her that all along. Josh just wants a normal life and family. He not after fame.
nannymargie- Posts : 4734
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I'm glad Andi didn't choose Nick, but thinking they'd be miserable together over-thinking everything... in hindsight maybe that's exactly what she needed. Someone who can relate. Nick seems pretty mature to me and I don't think his thinker tendencies are a bad thing when he's in a good place. Might've helped to expand Andi's thoughts as well instead of them just going around in circles.
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What is a cerebral connection anyway? You don't hear people say I married someone with a cerebral connection. You always hear people say I married my best friend.
Sometime you have to fall apart only to realize you need to be together!
nannymargie- Posts : 4734
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Let's not forget that according to RS, Andi dated someone starting once she got back from filming Juan Pablo's season up until she left filming for the bachelorette. This guy just happened to be a very, very wealthy real estate person down in ATL. That's makes it two relationships she broke off to go on the two shows, so if we're going to talk about trust issues..
I think it's going to take a very special breed of man to make it last with Andi. Not anything wrong about that, but that's my opinion. No guy from the show was going to be it.
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