Re: Juan Pablo & Nikki Ferrell Facebook - Twitter Updates - Fan Forum -Discussion - Thread #7

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Nov 11, 2014 9:57 pm

livlafluv1 wrote:]Maybe living it was enough for her?! I hope she benefited from the experience in ways that go beyond what the audience has been shown.
IMO perhaps CT had an agenda other than the most obvious one. Just a thought:no idea:

Good point.

by stuckinsc Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:15 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:
livlafluv1 wrote:]Maybe living it was enough for her?! I hope she benefited from the experience in ways that go beyond what the audience has been shown.
IMO perhaps CT had an agenda other than the most obvious one. Just a thought:no idea:

Good point.

The only thing I would say to that, is that if you ignore something you can't learn from it.

by Carolina2020 Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:22 pm

avoice wrote:
glazedover wrote:Is this now the JPG Fan thread? Because I strongly disagree with the characterization that Nikki is to blame for their breakup.Her behavior on CT, IMO, had to do with how she felt That JPG did not care enough for her, not just the words ILY. Also, when it's convenient for a particular faction to defend their favorite, it's all about the edit, but now Nikki can't catch a break. This is a thread for Nikki fans too, I thought.

I agree. And it is the edit's fault. I remember vividly when I was interviewed for almost two hours and it ended up being 6 minutes on the news. It was telecast with a strong bias. Not that it was derogatory since it was about major awards, BUT they pulled things out of my past that was said by me but out of context. And those comments were put back to back with other comments I said, out of context. They told their own backstory of my life and not my story as I see it. It was not my truth. Ever since I've had tremendous grace for all those in the media. I don't think badly of either Nikki nor JPG.

I agree also. Evel said in his recap that Nikki got a really bad edit. Cicely said there were times that statements she made about Treach were used as if about other cast members i.e. Chris. It appears that CT took a lot of liberty with conversations. There are many things in our lives that if put on film and taken out of context could make us look bad. I miss Nikki and JP together. I wish them both happiness. If he is not feeling it then she needed to move on regardless of why.

by chinita Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:28 pm

The funny thing is JPG said CT did good for them otherwise they would have broken up long ago. I think it turned out the other way around. Maybe if they didn't go, they are still together?

by soccerm3m Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:44 pm

I think it did do them good until the show started airing and Nikki got slammed in SM. I think they made a breakthrough in that one episode but that did not happen until episode 8. They were hardly on in episode 9.

I recall she told DrJenn that she did not want to fail in relationship because she did not want to hear people tell her see he was a d*****bag. Dr Jenn told her F*** what other people think. Dr Jenn said JP is a good guy and Nikki said he is. After she posted that IG posting about wasting time on
People....lots of people commented that she did right thing dumping him. I wonder what is more important to her...him or all those comments.

by stuckinsc Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:51 pm

soccerm3m wrote:I think it did do them good until the show started airing and Nikki got slammed in SM. I think they made a breakthrough in that one episode but that did not happen until episode 8. They were hardly on in episode 9.

I recall she told DrJenn that she did not want to fail in relationship because she did not want to hear people tell her see he was a d*****bag. Dr Jenn told her F*** what other people think. Dr Jenn said JP is a good guy and Nikki said he is. After she posted that IG posting about wasting time on
People....lots of people commented that she did right thing dumping him. I wonder what is more important to her...him or all those comments.

I think it is better that they are separate. Nikki wants that be around all the time thing. I think she wants a Josh and Andi relationship, that won't be a JPG thing. He is not going to be around all the time and his focus is as much on Camila as anything else.

JPG needs a woman he can trust with his daughter and also someone who shows her love in little ways.

I wish them both luck finding what they want.

Sometimes you just have to give up on something if it doesn't work for you.

I prefer JPG and am disappointed that Nikki seems to not have learned from this situation. She has a great basis, but it would be good to learn from the bad with the good. None of us is perfect, but if you don't try to grow and learn then you are just stuck.

by soccerm3m Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:53 pm

http://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/nikki-ferrell-confirms-it-s-over-what-really-happened-between-her-and-juan-pablo-after-the-bachelor-45899

by chinita Tue Nov 11, 2014 11:17 pm

soccerm3m wrote:I think it did do them good until the show started airing and Nikki got slammed in SM. I think they made a breakthrough in that one episode but that did not happen until episode 8. They were hardly on in episode 9.

I recall she told DrJenn that she did not want to fail in relationship because she did not want to hear people tell her see he was a d*****bag. Dr Jenn told her F*** what other people think. Dr Jenn said JP is a good guy and Nikki said he is. After she posted that IG posting about wasting time on
People....lots of people commented that she did right thing dumping him. I wonder what is more important to her...him or all those comments.

Exactly my thought soccerm3m I wonder if she's happier now that people is at her side than not being with JPG A Spanish quote: "You know you are in love when you see things, when other people can't see"

by chinita Tue Nov 11, 2014 11:20 pm

soccerm3m wrote:http://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/nikki-ferrell-confirms-it-s-over-what-really-happened-between-her-and-juan-pablo-after-the-bachelor-45899

The link doesn't open fro me. I think she did the interview at "the pool after dark"

by soccerm3m Tue Nov 11, 2014 11:26 pm

Why hasn't she gotten rid of that IG post if she thinks she should not have posted it?

by whit90 Tue Nov 11, 2014 11:30 pm

soccerm3m wrote:Why hasn't she gotten rid of that IG post if she thinks she should not have posted it?

Very good question and to me it sounds like he was really the one that ended things. But glad she wants to keep things private. I think he will do the same IMO they probably still respect one another .

by umngirl Tue Nov 11, 2014 11:33 pm

soccerm3m wrote:Why hasn't she gotten rid of that IG post if she thinks she should not have posted it?

Probably because it's already on the internet and taking it down won't matter. It's over and done with. Better to just move on. IMO, that would be the same and her going through and deleting all the pictures that have him in them.

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