Re: Nick Viall - Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - Thread #7

[julychild]

Radio host: So Josh, who's the biggest douche on the show?
Josh: I think you know who that is. I don't even say that name.
Andi: Does it rhyme with the body part?


Classy as ever.

Hey, this post by Elan goes great with your quote,mindless...

[beader]

Elan, very appropriate for this last ette and her honey. I guess Josh can justify his words because of his deep luuuuv for MeAndi. Very sad for Josh.

[Guest]

What exactly did Josh say that was offensive? That he doesn't want to say the name of who he thinks was the douche in the house? or did he say something else?

[ThankMeLater]

I find it funny that those of you who dislike "meandi"  love to listen to all her interviews

[beader]

You're right.  He didn't say anything too bad.  That was MeAndi.  But Josh doesn't seem to mind her saying crude things.

I haven't listened to a single one of her interviews and don't intend to start.   Actually, I'm sorry I even commented on a previous post.

[quietpal]

It's not necessarily offensive, it just seems like their answers indicate that they still have some growing up to do. To me their answers sound foolish. I don't care how many hosts keep asking them about Nick, the wise choice would be to not keep stoking the fire. Maybe when asked how about just deflecting and saying something like "that's in the past and we choose not to talk about it" or "we're focusing on us and our future". That way you don't give the host any more leverage.
Back to Nick since this is his thread. I'm glad he's moved on and is supporting some good causes and he chooses not to say anything negative about them. That is being wise.

[Sable]

Radio host: So Josh, who's the biggest douche on the show?
Josh: I think you know who that is. I don't even say that name.
Andi: Does it rhyme with the body part?


Classy as ever.

The douchiest guy was named Mulva?    (Seinfeld throwback)

IMO, anyone can make a mistake and say something mean in the heat of the moment.  But when a person makes a habit out of saying mean things and we see a pattern, that just proves that the person is mean-spirited.

Nick dodged one great big giant bullet.  No, he dodged a torpedo.    

So agree w/you! Nick hasn't given an interview since a few days past ATFR, and in all his interviews he said nice things about Andi and Josh and wished them well. Nick also posted on Sean's blog (at Sean's request) and he also wished Andi and Josh well once again. Andi and Josh have not been as gracious in their interviews and take every little chance they can to make potshots at Nick. I hope they know that the nasty things that they say about Nick does not reflect negatively upon him, but it does reflect negatively upon them. I am sure that all parties are still having trouble moving on, but the way to do that is to not make nasty comments about the other party publicly and/or in interviews. I know Andi and Josh are probably asked about it in interviews, but they could have said 'no comment' or we don't wish to discuss that subject any longer. Honestly, Josh's answer was better than Andi's. Andi's was really tacky, crude and in poor taste.

I also agree w/some posts that I have seen around here and elsewhere on the internet that this season of The Bachelorette has been all about Nick. It was all Nick during the season w/the editing and now after the finale it is still all about Nick. Love or hate Nick, he sure has ignited some interesting discussions and those discussions have almost overtaken Andi and Josh as a couple. Maybe Andi is upset that Nick has stolen some of her thunder?

[bleuberry]

BREAKING: Josh and Andi don't like Nick.

[Guest]

I understand what people are saying about Nick taking the high road after the ATFR debacle, I just don't buy it, personally. He needed to save face and he is saying and doing the right things now, but that doesn't excuse his behavior during filming and immediately after.
I'm curious if the Nick fans have ever really tried see things from Andi's standpoint? She admitted she cared about Nick, and that he was definitely her #2, but that her feelings were stronger for Josh. Post filming, she saw for the first time some very unbecoming qualities about Nick with his snarky ITM's and interactions with some of the guys while the season played out on TV. Not to mention how he single handedly ruined any chance for a surprise ending by confirming RS"s spoilers with the plane videos all while bashing Josh as well as Andi. And then there was the deleted scene about "predicting Josh's future" where he mocked Josh again. Have you all forgotten he did and said these things? Nick was not the person Andi thought he was and she was likely very repulsed by some of his cockiness while watching the season back. Now throw in that he tries to see her post filming to "let her know how he is feeling" when he clearly states his goal is for her to change her mind since he doesn't "think Josh is a good fit for her". This was very disrespectful of both Josh and Andi and their relationship. He may have needed clarity or closure , but it appeared his goal was to break them up. I would probably appear fairly cold toward a guy who did this as well. I thought all things considered, Andi handled it with a great deal of class.

[Sprite]

I understand what people are saying about Nick taking the high road after the ATFR debacle, I just don't buy it, personally. He needed to save face and he is saying and doing the right things now, but that doesn't excuse his behavior during filming and immediately after.
I'm curious if the Nick fans have ever really tried see things from Andi's standpoint? She admitted she cared about Nick, and that he was definitely her #2, but that her feelings were stronger for Josh.  Post filming, she saw for the first time some very unbecoming qualities about Nick with his snarky ITM's and interactions with some of the guys while the season played out on TV. Not to mention how he single handedly ruined any chance for a surprise ending by confirming RS"s spoilers with the plane videos all while bashing Josh as well as Andi. And then there was the deleted scene about "predicting Josh's future" where he mocked Josh again. Have you all forgotten he did and said these things? Nick was not the person Andi thought he was and she was likely very repulsed by some of his cockiness while watching the season back. Now throw in that he tries to see her post filming to "let her know how he is feeling" when he clearly states his goal is for her to change her mind since he doesn't "think Josh is a good fit for her". This was very disrespectful of both Josh and Andi and their relationship. He may have needed clarity or closure , but it appeared his goal was to break them up. I would probably appear fairly cold toward a guy who did this as well. I thought all things considered, Andi handled it with a great deal of class.

Has Andi attempted to see things from Nick's point of view? From JPab's? Doesn't look like it.

If her rudeness had been only once with Nick, I may have given her some slack, but she has shown a pattern of behaviour starting with JPab and then Eric and finally Nick...where she is rude if things don't go her way. The continuation of favouring negative tweets about Nick post show and now this most recent interview just continues to showcase her pattern of bitchiness. IMO If she is so happy, then concentrate on that. Tell people that is all in the past and we have moved on. By repeatedly taking digs at Nick, she is just showing how much it is all getting to her. Unfortunately for Andi and her great love, the Nick show has over shadowed them.

As for Nick, I am sure that he has also awakened to the reality of the real Andi and also seen a few things he may not admire. Regarding the post show stuff, like much of this show, I am sure was well orchestrated and encouraged by the producers. Like you said, at least Nick is trying now. Can't say the same for Andi.

[unknown82]

Radio host: So Josh, who's the biggest douche on the show?
Josh: I think you know who that is. I don't even say that name.
Andi: Does it rhyme with the body part?

Ugh....Andi needs to stop ... this and the "so he didn't bash his head in"

  

  Is this girl really happy? I am beginning to think she is not.... I mean, how petty can she get? It is very sad to see but I am not surprised because it is Meandi we are talking about here. I can't really expect anything but this childish behavior from her. Does she think she is still in high school? Let it go Meandi, let it go!  

[happygolucky]

I came to check the new development on this thread, seeing there isn't much new, aside from the parts I ignore, I leave for a hiatus so that I can responsibly and with maturity finish my work

When you do things yourself and then criticize others doing it, makes you a hypocrite.

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