Re: Nick Viall Bachelorette 10 - Fan Forum - Updates - Discussion - Thread #9

[SueSt]

Didn't do a side by side comparison, but there may be new information vs. the link I posted earlier today in this extended E interview with Ali:

http://chicago.viewsmix.com/2014/08/01/celebrity-chicago-resident-nick-viall/

[MonicaJM2001]

Cecilia wrote:
http://survivorbitch.com/tag/the-bachelorette-2/
Great read and ripe for a tantalizing SC.




Catdwoman50 wrote:
https://twitter.com/jason_mesnick/status/494895450667761666
Wonderful as well!

There are a few things I find perplexing post-show.

1. Andi & Nick both admitted to having sex on at least the FS date.  He framed it in the context of "intimacy" and it was that aspect that moved it out of the "wham bam thank you mam" realm.
Regardless, both publicly admit to intercourse while they are sitting on the same couch at ATFR yet there isn't much media attention on the fact that she did this not long before accepting a proposal.  I don't care what "the show" allows but I think it's fairly safe to say that the Vialls are pretty happy there son survived a 2 1/2 month relationship, despite the wretched heartbreak, because if he had proposed instead EVERYONE would know his fiancé slept with another guy less than a week before. This way, Nick is single and no doubt has slept with other women so she is just one more in his history. He likely isn't embarrassed about having slept with any of them because he wasn't planning to get engaged to someone else a week later.  Real life!  

2. OMG is J really ok with this as a part of his love story that will always be available online for his children's viewing pleasure? Not exactly a hand-drawn fairytale.  I never really took a liking to J. but she did it and has said she did on ATFR and in an interview with him standing right beside her.  Have some respect for your fiancé and his family! Ok, she said it once, but to repeat it again?  He wasn't that appealing to me but still, he's just a normal guy with lots of good traits and his fiancé should stop talking about this and Nick in general. She's starting to implode.  Just because Nick's letter mentioned something along the lines of "if you ever think of me" doesn't mean she has to keep thinking and responding to him.  She's the one that needs to put her "big girl panties on" and act like someone who is planning a wedding not a public execution of her former lover. Again, he's single and she's just someone who he used to date and is trying to move on from.  A free agent.  There's no woman currently cuddling with Nick on the couch who has to live with this public tiff.

3. It doesn't matter how many women like what Nick has to offer.  The pool is large enough for him to explore as he sees fit.  He obviously now knows he doesn't want a woman who turns on a dime when they wake up in the morning. It's all good.
The media should stop scrutinizing him. I don't think he cares at all how many people think his feelings were genuine.  It's basically irrelevant to his daily life at this point as he is done with the show. He knows what's true and strangers don't matter. If he wants to go on a date with someone tomorrow, he can. 6 months from now, his call.  He's single.  Obviously being in love with A., in Marcus's case, wasn't that hard to get over for some reason.  Same with Chris who thinks being the next Bach sounds like a good deal.  Who knows what Nick will do.
Too much focus and digging around for dirty laundry in Nick's case.  Why is it a sin to fall in love and want to have a heart to heart talk about it?  It's about respect and incumbent on the one who initiated the break up to be adult about it. She chose to not allow him privacy so "touché".  She wanted a public break up talk and she got it.  Real break ups can be messy.
My my, does she fear he might become the next Bach?  .  I don't want him to be but maybe his kisses really are magical.     Shouldn't be any concern of hers.  She had her chance.  Move over and Staap blasting the guy you broke up with in an attempt to discredit him.  She's just helping Nick get over her even faster! This isn't middle school. She needs to focus on her current man and meaning behind the ring on her finger.

4.  Nick, his family, and some friends have all met Andi.  If she deceived him then she deceived them as well ... including 9 year old Bella.  If Andi deceived herself, that is even rockier road that would no longer concern them because she's ENGAGED to a different man.  To them, just a girl Nick dated for 2 1/2 months. It could have been worse.  I do still think she was a much softer version of herself with him so I actually don't buy that she was faking but she made a different choice nonetheless.

5. Why are rag mags continuing to trying to discredit Nick?  Why was a Bach producer spotted at his NYC interview after which Ali, a Bach nation veteran, begins recanting positive Nick comments?  What is the purpose of stretching this story out?  Is there a final act yet to come or is it all just filler for the network until the next great storyline (laboratory venture) is storyboarded for viewer amusement?  Silly, silly, silly. Let intelligent, successful, not afraid of his emotions, eloquent, tenacious, sometimes sweet, sensual Nick #livelikeEric and find his future wife on his own terms and in his own time.     I still   Nick because he's a rebel ... deliciously so.

  This is a great post and I completely agree on all 5 points!!!! I am not mad at Sharleen's blog where she indicates Nick needs to get over it and move on but I think she may need to give her good friend Andi the same advice.

[Guest]

http://survivorbitch.com/tag/the-bachelorette-2/

i just had a chance to read this blog...(i know im late..). Very spot on and awesome!...so awesome that i need to snatch the Unicorn comment in my siggy...

This blog give me a feeling of: Nick should count his lucky stars! .. 

[SueSt]

I am not mad at Sharleen's blog where she indicates Nick needs to get over it and move on but I think she may need to give her good friend Andi the same advice.

 

[emad0722]

does anyone have a link to Ali's backflip comments???

[isittrue]

I am sure that Ali did speak to Andi since I saw a tweet from Ali on Andi's website gushingly congratulating her on her engagement. As far as the sources, would not be surprised if Andi's good friends (Kelly, Kat and Christy perhaps) and Andi herself were the sources.

[notarose]

So JJ arrived in Chicago before Nick did yesterday. That makes me think all these  media tours were scheduled later because of Nick's controversial ATFR. Media loves drama and controversies, and requested Nick. Has there ever a F2 on GMA?

Plus we analyzed how little luggage he had for the number of days he ended up being down there.  I think maybe Molly was on GMA of course she was with Jason by that time.  (someone said Clair - but I did not watch that season so she might have been on it)

Yeah, definitely wasn't planned in advance before ATFR, it was all because of his "controversial" comment. Also, do you think TPTB lent him that jacket and a shirt for GMA, he did undress and leave it with the producer.

Do you think they filmed that last bit?  

[happygolucky]

NR  :rollingl: I'm still trying to go through all the SC from previous interviews, so that I can post them and I keep getting distracted.
Sue - I thought so too, but then I think I remember that the jacket was grey (dark) at GMA and black at ATFR (or maybe it was all because of the lights ... beside I can't watch ATFR anymore)
Boy, that scene of "sliding doors" is on repeat!

BTW - any new links of the interviews? - Access Hollywood that Cecile was saying seeing it last night?

[notarose]

NR  :rollingl: I'm still trying to go through all the SC from previous interviews, so that I can post them and I keep getting distracted.
Sue - I thought so too, but then I think I remember that the jacket was grey (dark) at GMA and black at ATFR (or maybe it was all because of the lights ... beside I can't watch ATFR anymore)
Boy, that scene of "sliding doors" is on repeat!

BTW - any new links of the interviews? - Access Hollywood that Cecile was saying seeing it last night?

   love the sliding door!
http://www.wetpaint.com/the-bachelorette/gallery/2014-08-01-nick-good-morning-america-photos#2

I think 2 of the pics from the above might new.

[nutty1]

What sliding doors?

[happygolucky]

NR - I know you only look for an excuse that I bring it here J/K
'sliding doors'

[SueSt]

NR - I know you only look for an excuse that I bring it here J/K
'sliding doors'

This just makes me laugh... particularly the porno music that accompanies...   

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