Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

umngirl wrote:

bleuberry wrote:I've read a few times that Andi is getting smaller, and I honestly don't remember her looking different. Pics anyone? She always seemed pretty slim to me:

Not the best pics, but I think she looks better with a little more weight on her. Again, this is JMO.

It's just my opinion, but I don't see a difference. In the bikini shot I think she looks slim, but it looks like she just has a little bit of bloating going on. Maybe it's a "food baby" or it was just that time of the month. In the dress picture, I still think she looks slim and fit, but that dress is flowy. If it was straight down like the black one she's wearing tonight it would show how slim she is.

^Like I said, not the best pictures. I definitely think she's lost weight from when she was first on the show til now. And IMO, she looked better before. I hope she doesn't get any tinier because that would be even worse.

luvlady345 wrote:Ok, this is my take let's say this was you and you husband's brother GF was on FB or twitter and liking and favoring tweets that wasn't positive about you, wouldn't you want your husband to somehow defend you?  Josh is doing what any man who loves someone would do, stand by her......  I am willing to bet if Andi was favoring not so nice tweets about Kacie, Aaron would be pissed as well, so I get it.....  

Don't disagree. I guess I wish they could solve it by actually having a conversation instead. Josh is making it conspicuous to me because he has always posted things to his mom for mother's day, etc. So to not post for her birthday is unfortunately notable. I also as a girlfriend/wife have never had the desire to cause a rift in my in-laws family. I actually broke up with a very long term boyfriend when he started talking about rings and his mother and I hated each other. I couldn't put him through a lifetime of that, it wouldn't be fair to him and it caused tension for us. I have since then avoided situations where I could not get along with my SO's family. To me family is too important to drive a wedge through it. I admired the Murray family dynamic and how much love they had for each other so I hope they can work it out. Also, you probably don't read my posts, but I did say that Kacie's liking anti-Andi stuff was dumb and stupid. So I don't think it is all Andi's fault either.

Ash2214 wrote:

umngirl wrote:

bleuberry wrote:I've read a few times that Andi is getting smaller, and I honestly don't remember her looking different. Pics anyone? She always seemed pretty slim to me:

Not the best pics, but I think she looks better with a little more weight on her. Again, this is JMO.

It's just my opinion, but I don't see a difference. In the bikini shot I think she looks slim, but it looks like she just has a little bit of bloating going on. Maybe it's a "food baby" or it was just that time of the month. In the dress picture, I still think she looks slim and fit, but that dress is flowy. If it was straight down like the black one she's wearing tonight it would show how slim she is.

I think she has lost a bit of weight and still looks really good. There were a few times early in the bachelorette where she was not quite as slim. She looked really good both ways. I do think she is endanger of going from slim and beautiful to skinny and skeletal if she loses too much more. But in getting ready for weddings a lot of women lose as much as they can. In Andi's case I don't think she needs to lose anything. She has always had a great body.

BohemianNika wrote:Ohhh, don't you just love a good Twittergate

I know exactly what happened. Well, maybe not exactly, but I'm pretty sure this might have happened. Ok, to be honest, I know nothing, but here goes my theory.

It all started with Aaron eating all of Josh's cookies  - and we all know how serious Josh is about his food. To make things even worse, Aaron posted a selfie on twitter showing him eating those unfortunate cookies. Can you imagine Josh's shock?!? His little brother stole his favorite snack and is bragging about it on SM! I'm not gonna lie to you, there were men tears - many of them Josh would remember this betrayal every time he saw  Aaron post on SM.  When Josh ran out of all the tissue boxes in the state of Georgia, he knew there was only one solution. He had to commit the biggest crime there is - unfollow his own brother! Things were slowly getting back to normal, when MM decided to update her facebook with a familiar picture. "Bloody hell, how could you mother??? You knew those cookies were mine!   "

Seems legit, right

I love this so much. Now we have a name for all this..... "cookie gate!" Bohemian, you are the best.

stuckinsc wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:Ok, this is my take let's say this was you and you husband's brother GF was on FB or twitter and liking and favoring tweets that wasn't positive about you, wouldn't you want your husband to somehow defend you?  Josh is doing what any man who loves someone would do, stand by her......  I am willing to bet if Andi was favoring not so nice tweets about Kacie, Aaron would be pissed as well, so I get it.....  

Don't disagree.  I guess I wish they could solve it by actually having a conversation instead.  Josh is making it conspicuous to me because he has always posted things to his mom for mother's day, etc.  So to not post for her birthday is unfortunately notable.  I also as a girlfriend/wife have never had the desire to cause a rift in my in-laws family.  I actually broke up with a very long term boyfriend when he started talking about rings and his mother and I hated each other.  I couldn't put him through a lifetime of that, it wouldn't be fair to him and it caused tension for us.  I have since then avoided situations where I could not get along with my SO's family.  To me family is too important to drive a wedge through it.  I admired the Murray family dynamic and how much love they had for each other so I hope they can work it out.  Also, you probably don't read my posts, but I did say that Kacie's liking anti-Andi stuff was dumb and stupid.  So I don't think it is all Andi's fault either.

You will be proud of me I did read what you said about Kacie..... I just think it was silly for Kacie to do but Aaron evidently stood by her and Josh is standing by Andi so I guess they are at a crossroads now...But this too shall pass like it does in most families......

Maybe she's just adjusting back to her pre TV body, I went through her IG quickly and even pre Bachelor, she was pretty slim. If I were her I'd just maintain and stay active.

Forgot all about this episode but she posted it a year or so ago . She looks about that size to me now, though it seems to change depending on the fit of the outfit and angle of the photo.

Please tell me that this is photo shopped and not their real bodies. MEandI's bloomers are having a slight wardrobe malfunction. Someone really screwed up.

It must be or Andi has the most uneven space between her thighs of any woman alive. Sad since the pic had three gorgeous, fit people, why the need to photoshop?

Also hate what she did cutting of the detail on that dress to make it too short. I am glad that Andi seems to have realized that even though she has great legs, she doesn't need to show us all of them all the time.

So slight topic change or question. Josh has said he very much wants children soon and Andi wants them at some point.

I want to ask the parents on this board. What do you teach your child to do when someone insults them or might do something mean. Do you teach them that you should remove them from your life and not speak to them? Or do you do what my parents taught me to do, try to find out why and work it out with them. If it can't be worked out, then sure avoid them, but don't give up without trying to work out some sort of resolution.

I wonder if Josh is going to tell his children to just cut anyone who says or does something that might not be nice out of their life without trying to resolve it. It seems that is how he responded to Kacie favoriting/liking something not nice about Andi or maybe too nice to her and therefore mean to Andi. Just seems like a bit of an overreaction. Which has then grown in scope from there.

Is this how we are really raising kids these days. I have people I don't always like around me and I am sure there are people who don't like me. But we still have to interact and function, we can't just cut each other out of our lives and not interact.

Laudergirl wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Before this thread takes a turn---

This is a discussion thread. Positive and negative comments are allowed regarding cast/show per discussion topic. That is how discussions are.
Fan threads are for positive thoughts only. This is not a fan thread.

For what it's worth--I don't like MEandI and it has nothing to do with who she is with. Josh is ok, but I think he has rocks for brains.  I keep hoping he wakes up and smells the coffee(or rotten egg in his case). 
Carry on.

Just curious, Kasha, do you feel this way because he ended up with Andi and your not a fan, or because you think he's a dumb jock in general? Although he used a lot of sports analogies during the show, there were many ITM's and post show interviews where he came across very articulate.  I know it's all just opinion, and maybe you prefer much more intellectual men, but I think Josh is plenty smart, and I don't think Andi, whether you like her or not, would fall so hard for a guy that wasn't intelligent, no matter how good looking he was.

Posted by Grace8136: relalou
"I think we all have way too much time on our hands and so are writing scenarios created entirely in our own imagination and based upon the smallest crumb of observation (an apparent "unfriend" or "unfollow" in SM).  We don't have access to any of their private communications as brothers/family, which is surely how they do most of their communicating.  If someone doesn't like Josh then he is now failing as a brother; if they don't like Andi then she is the cause of that failure; if he WAS with his family more then Andi would be mad because he hadn't cut the cord, etc.  Seems to me they are a new young couple, living a busy life and learning to love each other's families.  More than that is pure speculation and/or personal bias. IMO"

I couldn't agree more with this! Great post!

I didn't write it. The quoting was messed up back a few. I think they're immature nit-wits for unfollowing each other and feeding the speculation!

grace8136 wrote:

Laudergirl wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Before this thread takes a turn---

This is a discussion thread. Positive and negative comments are allowed regarding cast/show per discussion topic. That is how discussions are.
Fan threads are for positive thoughts only. This is not a fan thread.

For what it's worth--I don't like MEandI and it has nothing to do with who she is with. Josh is ok, but I think he has rocks for brains.  I keep hoping he wakes up and smells the coffee(or rotten egg in his case). 
Carry on.

Just curious, Kasha, do you feel this way because he ended up with Andi and your not a fan, or because you think he's a dumb jock in general? Although he used a lot of sports analogies during the show, there were many ITM's and post show interviews where he came across very articulate.  I know it's all just opinion, and maybe you prefer much more intellectual men, but I think Josh is plenty smart, and I don't think Andi, whether you like her or not, would fall so hard for a guy that wasn't intelligent, no matter how good looking he was.

Posted by Grace8136: relalou
"I think we all have way too much time on our hands and so are writing scenarios created entirely in our own imagination and based upon the smallest crumb of observation (an apparent "unfriend" or "unfollow" in SM).  We don't have access to any of their private communications as brothers/family, which is surely how they do most of their communicating.  If someone doesn't like Josh then he is now failing as a brother; if they don't like Andi then she is the cause of that failure; if he WAS with his family more then Andi would be mad because he hadn't cut the cord, etc.  Seems to me they are a new young couple, living a busy life and learning to love each other's families.  More than that is pure speculation and/or personal bias. IMO"

I couldn't agree more with this! Great post!

I didn't write it. The quoting was messed up back a few. I think they're immature nit-wits for unfollowing each other and feeding the speculation!

Bohemia had the post of the day yesterday, but you just totally took today. And did it in so few words. I think you need to give me lessons.