Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* Updates - Discussion - Thread #11

[Jeepers]

Short and sweet.....

Nick .. Bitter frog .. Ribbit ribbit

Josh .. Handsome prince

[Judiful]

In one interview, he wouldn't answer if he knew beforehand, he said it was too personal to answer.

And I just read another interview where Josh said that he wasn't watching Andi and Nick backstage, so he really came out there last night, not knowing that Nick had just called her out. That makes me sad for him.

   Somewhere I read that Josh said Andi was honest and up front with him about everything prior to the finale , and I hope it's true... I just wish the talk would die down..it's been so vile.  

[Judiful]

Short and sweet.....

Nick .. Bitter frog .. Ribbit ribbit

Josh .. Handsome prince

  Perfect ...Need a hug button for you ....  

[Guest]

In one interview, he wouldn't answer if he knew beforehand, he said it was too personal to answer.

And I just read another interview where Josh said that he wasn't watching Andi and Nick backstage, so he really came out there last night, not knowing that Nick had just called her out. That makes me sad for him.

They talked about it and he knew but unlike Nick, he is not going to throw Andi under the bus and reveal any previous sex conversations they had.  After watching today, I am 100% convinced she told him on either on their FS date or post show, that she slept w Nick.   :cutesmile!:  Their relationship started at the engagement and he knew it.  It has only grown and is stronger today.  

I don't think she said a word about it in the FS, because remember how upset she was with JP when he brought up his FS date with Clare while he was on the FS overnight with Andi.

[Linds911]

I don't have a hard time squaring the circle with the ring conversation AND the sex in the fantasy suites because of what Andi said in her interview.  You would have a conversation about the kind of ring you would want in the real world with someone with whom you were about to be engaged.  For a lot of people, you would have sex before an engagement in the real world.  I think Andi was trying to figure out which relationship she wanted and she compartmentalized the two during the process.  So, she tried to do the kinds of things that she would do in a relationship where someone was about to propose with BOTH Nick and Josh.  I think she felt that going through that complete process was the only way she would know for sure that she had made the best decision possible for herself.  I don't think she was diminishing either relationship at the time, and in fact, I think it's a testament for how much more she felt for Josh that he surpassed a very real relationship with Nick.  

This. Why I don't feel upset with Andi. She went with what she had to do. Also believe that she told Josh way before in private, which he mentioned in an interview, he just wasn't expecting Nick to air it out in public. They are putting it all behind them and going forward with being engaged!

[Alanna]

Josh said Andi is always honest with him and told him everything. No way is he that great of an actor if he's really horribly hurt and blind sided by her sleeping with Nick.

[Admin]

I've created a Fan Forum Category and will be organizing some threads. Do we need this one open since there is a Andi and Josh Fan thread?

Or do we want to keep a Josh Fan Thread separate?

[Guest]

I want a separate one if possible.

[Guest]

 And, I put good in quotes because I know there are some that think sex with multiple people in the same week is wrong, no matter the circumstance.  I'd never judge someone else's value system if that's the case.

Well as a forty something year old woman, I must just be getting old, because I would think that most people would feel that having sex with multiple people in the same week was wrong. I don't think going on a tv show would change your values, no matter the situation. I'm not trying to judge Andi, just confused by her actions and not really buying that Josh could care less.

[melanie1]

I think Andi fought her feeling for Josh the whole time and at the end she realized she loved him all along.

This. I love. This is exactly on point. And thus, I think a talent should make us a fanvid to the tune of 'CANT FIGHT THIS FEELING' by REO Speedwagon.

TOTALLY AGREE!

I think the whole time ABC somewhat altered what we saw with Josh/Andi, Nick/Andi... Yes we saw the cute, tender and romantic moments with Jodi, but ABC emphasized way too much on her doubts with Josh, and played up sterotype of him being an athlete nevermind that being 7 years ago... We never really heard her doubts with the othe men. I think ABC wanted to mislead the audience somewhat.

But back to the point. I think she definitley fought it the whole time because she of their longterm future. She took it serious. With Nick, I feel like she was just in the moment with him, didn't think about the reality of it all till that morning of when it came down to it.

[MAB348]

  

 And, I put good in quotes because I know there are some that think sex with multiple people in the same week is wrong, no matter the circumstance.  I'd never judge someone else's value system if that's the case.

Well as a forty something year old woman, I must just be getting old, because I would think that most people would feel that having sex with multiple people in the same week was wrong. I don't think going on a tv show would change your values, no matter the situation. I'm not trying to judge Andi, just confused by her actions and not really buying that Josh could care less.

  I am Andi's age, 27. And, you are not old fashioned. My husband and I waited until we were married (Sean's approach). So, maybe my morals are different. But, when I am in love with someone I do not do something that they could jeopardize the relationship later (such as sleep with someone else after so many great dates and meeting parents and being told by the guy I truly love that he loves me).

[SafronSahara]

Short and sweet.....

Nick .. Bitter frog .. Ribbit ribbit

Josh .. Handsome prince

      

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