Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* Updates - Discussion - Thread #11

[bamagal]

Folks, we are "beating a dead horse" !  If the couple involved have moved on from this, perhaps it is time that we also refocus on the two people and their love story.  Dissecting Andi's actions, and questioning her morality only give Nick the reaction that he wanted.  I will always believe that this revelation was a calculated PR plan from the inception -- to undermine the happiness and take the spotlight off Josh and Andi.  It was not an act of love -- it was an act of revenge!

[luvlady345]

Folks, we are "beating a dead horse" !  If the couple involved have moved on from this, perhaps it is time that we also refocus on the two people and their love story.  Dissecting Andi's actions, and questioning her morality only give Nick the reaction that he wanted.  I will always believe that this revelation was a calculated PR plan from the inception -- to undermine the happiness and take the spotlight off Josh and Andi.  It was not an act of love -- it was an act of revenge!

PREACH!!!!!! That's why I am shaking my head, Nick is getting what he desire from some.....This has been over for 2 1/2 months Josh said Andi told him EVERYTHING they seem extremely happy Josh is not that great of an actor, we all called that something had changed after their FS because of Josh's demeanor the man can't lie Andi had basically told him that he was the one and it showed because of Josh's confidence..... I see the same happy/confident Josh that knew that Andi loved him and had chosen him now an it's more than ever.. So I am not going to dwell on Andi's or Josh's pass relationships, I am going to celebrate and love of this couple because they truly are in love an amazing together.......

[soccermom333]

Folks, we are "beating a dead horse" !  If the couple involved have moved on from this, perhaps it is time that we also refocus on the two people and their love story.  Dissecting Andi's actions, and questioning her morality only give Nick the reaction that he wanted.  I will always believe that this revelation was a calculated PR plan from the inception -- to undermine the happiness and take the spotlight off Josh and Andi.  It was not an act of love -- it was an act of revenge!

Amen sista!! I know in a week this will die down for sure. Josh and andi and their families have moved on for sure!

[pumpkinnoodle]

Folks, we are "beating a dead horse" !  If the couple involved have moved on from this, perhaps it is time that we also refocus on the two people and their love story.  Dissecting Andi's actions, and questioning her morality only give Nick the reaction that he wanted.  I will always believe that this revelation was a calculated PR plan from the inception -- to undermine the happiness and take the spotlight off Josh and Andi.  It was not an act of love -- it was an act of revenge!

Ditto a thousand times!!!!!!            You summed it up in a nutshell! Just build a bridge and "get over it", tuey have and it is their lives!!

[laurentx]

Am trying to move past this but after 2 days I'm still alittle ticked off:

The production company focused too much on Nick's departure and left 7 minutes for proposal. Then, adding insult to injury - they focused almost entirely on Nick during ATFR, giving him 45 minutes of air time between the recorded piece and onstage sulking. We had 2 short segments of Jodi. In the past they have focused more on the couple.

I don't doubt Josh and Andi have moved on from her past relationship that ended almost 3 months ago, but for their families and all of us it what happened the other night is still raw. I just feel badly for the Murray's especially - they are so proud of their son and were beyond excited about the finale, but it had to have been a huge letdown overall.

I do understand ABC has a show to produce and has to keep it fresh to retain their viewers, but I felt like they went way overboard using Nick's heartbreak and bitterness at the expense of their couple. I know Jodi can move past this but hope if they agree to sign on for the wedding, they force ABC into a huge payday.

[Guest]

Folks, we are "beating a dead horse" !  If the couple involved have moved on from this, perhaps it is time that we also refocus on the two people and their love story.  Dissecting Andi's actions, and questioning her morality only give Nick the reaction that he wanted.  I will always believe that this revelation was a calculated PR plan from the inception -- to undermine the happiness and take the spotlight off Josh and Andi.  It was not an act of love -- it was an act of revenge!

Thank you bamagal!!    

[pander3575]

Am trying to move past this but after 2 days I'm still alittle ticked off:

The production company focused too much on Nick's departure and left 7 minutes for proposal. Then, adding insult to injury - they focused almost entirely on Nick during ATFR, giving him 45 minutes of air time between the recorded piece and onstage sulking.  We had 2 short segments of Jodi. In the past they have focused more on the couple.

I don't doubt Josh and Andi have moved on from her past relationship that ended almost 3 months ago, but for their families and all of us it what happened the other night is still raw.  I just feel badly for the Murray's especially - they are so proud of their son and were beyond excited about the finale, but it had to have been a huge letdown overall.

I do understand ABC has a show to produce and has to keep it fresh to retain their viewers, but I felt like they went way overboard using Nick's heartbreak and bitterness at the expense of their couple.  I know Jodi can move past this but hope if they agree to sign on for the wedding, they force ABC into a huge payday.

I think Mama Murray summed it up very nicely. She said something about she knew Nick was hurting and that they would pray for him and that Josh was focused on when he put the ring on Andi's finger and their future. Isn't that what we want too? To see their beautiful love story unfold in the future at least that is what I want. I don't know why Nick did what he did and I really don't care whether Andi had sex with Nick or not. As long as Josh and Andi can put it behind them so can I. Next week it will all be in the past and we can start with a very slimy BIP.   

[GuardianAngel]

I think Mama Murray summed it up very nicely.  She said something about she knew Nick was hurting and that they would pray for him and that Josh was focused on when he put the ring on Andi's finger and their future.  Isn't that what we want too?  To see their beautiful love story unfold in the future at least that is what I want.  I don't know why Nick did what he did and I really don't care whether Andi had sex with Nick or not.  As long as Josh and Andi can put it behind them so can I.  Next week it will all be in the past and we can start with a very slimy BIP.   

Well said. Everytime I read your posts, I look at your avi, which is so sweet and calm, as are your posts!

[Relalou]

I think Mama Murray summed it up very nicely.  She said something about she knew Nick was hurting and that they would pray for him and that Josh was focused on when he put the ring on Andi's finger and their future.  Isn't that what we want too?  To see their beautiful love story unfold in the future at least that is what I want.  I don't know why Nick did what he did and I really don't care whether Andi had sex with Nick or not.  As long as Josh and Andi can put it behind them so can I.  Next week it will all be in the past and we can start with a very slimy BIP.   

Well said. Everytime I read your posts, I look at your avi, which is so sweet and calm, as are your posts!

Nicely put and a good reminder! Thank you

[Guest]

Am trying to move past this but after 2 days I'm still alittle ticked off:

The production company focused too much on Nick's departure and left 7 minutes for proposal. Then, adding insult to injury - they focused almost entirely on Nick during ATFR, giving him 45 minutes of air time between the recorded piece and onstage sulking.  We had 2 short segments of Jodi. In the past they have focused more on the couple.

I don't doubt Josh and Andi have moved on from her past relationship that ended almost 3 months ago, but for their families and all of us it what happened the other night is still raw.  I just feel badly for the Murray's especially - they are so proud of their son and were beyond excited about the finale, but it had to have been a huge letdown overall.

I do understand ABC has a show to produce and has to keep it fresh to retain their viewers, but I felt like they went way overboard using Nick's heartbreak and bitterness at the expense of their couple.  I know Jodi can move past this but hope if they agree to sign on for the wedding, they force ABC into a huge payday.

Right. IA The entire season seemed to be about Nick, at least with the editing, and now it's all about Nick post-show. This all leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

[Guest]

I may be beating a dead horse, but I've made sure to respect Jodi fans by voicing my opinions only in Josh's fan thread, not the Jodi threads. I hope Jodi fans can respect that there are some of us who are not "over" Monday night and the shenanigans of Nick. Some have moved on from it and can celebrate the couple, and others are not quite there yet.

I will always be #Josh and hope the best for him. He deserves it.

[dw_a_mom]

I'm sorry that the veil has been lifted and so many people are having their enjoyment of the season dampened.  

Yeah, I guess I wanted Josh to pull it back down so I could go back to happily ignoring some of the realities of this show, and simply celebrate the couple that is Josh and Andi.

They ARE adorable together. There is a lot of yin and yang there. I don't want to see anything else from them than THEM.

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