Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 10 - Men Tell All - July 21/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion 2

Alanna wrote:Me too. I think Nick is a nice guy but his sm and general demeanor on it post show make me think he's really bitter. I wouldn't be surprised if he brings up stuff like the fs if they got intimate and other awkward, uncomfortable topics to put her on the spot. We'll see.

I respectfully disagree. Beyond the Plane Video, which really could have been MUCH worse, I really haven't seen Nick as being bitter. I expect he will be PC and ask the standard "When did you know?" question, wish Andi well and move on. Nick is in sales and aware enough that he has nothing to gain by expressing anything negative.

I can not see Nick saying anything that would make him less than a gentleman during the ATFR. JMOAA, but the way he treats female family members speaks volumes.

Alanna wrote:

Cecilia wrote:

Litta123 wrote:Does anyone find it odd/interesting that Nick S was somewhat disparaging to Andi? It appears that Nick S and Nick V have hung out post filming. If Nick V is F1, wouldn't that put their friendship on rocky ground? Even if Nick V hasn't told Nick S directly, I would think Nick S has some sense of what happened. JMO.

I thought this.  ATFR is going to be interesting....

Me too. I think Nick is a nice guy but his sm and general demeanor on it post show make me think he's really bitter. I wouldn't be surprised if he brings up stuff like the fs if they got intimate and other awkward, uncomfortable topics to put her on the spot. We'll see.

I don't know .. we'll see alright., but we all know that Josh is VERY protective of the people he loves plus he swings a mean bat   ,not to mention this Chick carries a GUN.      

Alanna wrote:

Cecilia wrote:

Litta123 wrote:Does anyone find it odd/interesting that Nick S was somewhat disparaging to Andi? It appears that Nick S and Nick V have hung out post filming. If Nick V is F1, wouldn't that put their friendship on rocky ground? Even if Nick V hasn't told Nick S directly, I would think Nick S has some sense of what happened. JMO.

I thought this.  ATFR is going to be interesting....

Me too. I think Nick is a nice guy but his sm and general demeanor on it post show make me think he's really bitter. I wouldn't be surprised if he brings up stuff like the fs if they got intimate and other awkward, uncomfortable topics to put her on the spot. We'll see.

I think, if he is bitter, he has good reason to be. Will have to see on Monday.

I agree that I can't imagine Nick being rude to Andi but will do the normal questions just to get it over with. At least I'm hoping so.

Kashathediva wrote:I can not see Nick saying anything that would make him less than a gentleman during the ATFR. JMOAA, but the way he treats female family members speaks volumes.

Remember Reid?   

pander3575 wrote:I agree that I can't imagine Nick being rude to  Andi but will do the normal questions just to get it over with.  At least I'm hoping so.

I don't think he will be rude. I just think we will be able to tell what stage he is in - still hung up, or hurt (and therefore possibly bitter/upset at being led on).

nutty1 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I can not see Nick saying anything that would make him less than a gentleman during the ATFR. JMOAA, but the way he treats female family members speaks volumes.

Remember Reid?   

absolutely! and he was charming doing it.

eirekay wrote:

Alanna wrote:Me too. I think Nick is a nice guy but his sm and general demeanor on it post show make me think he's really bitter. I wouldn't be surprised if he brings up stuff like the fs if they got intimate and other awkward, uncomfortable topics to put her on the spot. We'll see.

I respectfully disagree.  Beyond the Plane Video, which really could have been MUCH worse, I really haven't seen Nick as being bitter.  I expect he will be PC and ask the standard "When did you know?" question, wish Andi well and move on.  Nick is in sales and aware enough that he has nothing to gain by expressing anything negative.

IMO, what he said on the plane was quite enough negative. And since he knows that video is public and out there, I'm sure it will be even more awkward and uncomfortable, how could it not?

Cecilia wrote:

nutty1 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I can not see Nick saying anything that would make him less than a gentleman during the ATFR. JMOAA, but the way he treats female family members speaks volumes.

Remember Reid?   

absolutely!  and he was charming doing it.

This is EXACTLY the situation I'm thinking of, also another super nice, good guy, but yeah, he wanted Jillian to be uncomfortable and embarrassed.

BachfanNY wrote:IMO, what he said on the plane was quite enough negative. And since he knows that video is public and out there, I'm sure it will be even more awkward and uncomfortable, how could it not?

If I had just been dumped and was venting to a friend, I would have said much worse, just out of hurt and disappointment. Nick's comments weren't flattering but IMO, given their context, they didn't assault anyone's person integrity. I would hope that Andi and Josh would realize how hurt Nick felt in that moment and look beyond that. The video was released more than two months ago - I'm sure bruised egos have had time to heal on all sides and compassion will prevail.

^ITA, eirekay. Nick had that conversation 2 days after he was supposedly dumped and it was a private conversation, never intended for thousands of people to witness.
He's said the show's an incredible experience. He also told his fans to stay positive. This is the first thing he posted after his LA trip: "Nothing I enjoy more than the company of people who challenge the way I view the world #grow" and I don't see bitterness at all.  Sometimes I think we really think too much of his tweets and interpret them to suit our purposes,  IMO.