Re: The Bachelorette 10 - *Final 1-F2* - Speculation * Sleuthing - Spoilers Thread #3

[rosesrREd]

I wonder why she chose to follow Nick on Twitter, and him follow her(Kelly) if there was some kind of dislike for each other. They seems to retweet each other too.

[Cecilia]

She and her future in-laws have been spoiling the whole season since it started airing. And THAT was done on purpose. Nicks spoilers were completely accidental.

But they only started "spoiling" after the Nick video was released!

Actually, that's not the case... like, at all   ... Mama Murray spoiled Josh being a contestant before the M&G even took place(in an interview) and then spoiled how Josh got a HTD("having the whole family reunited again + one special person...")... this was while the show was still filming.   

Nick was filmed without his knowledge!!

[ironcat]

I wonder why she chose to follow Nick on Twitter, and him follow her(Kelly) if there was some kind of dislike for each other.  They seems to retweet each other too.  

That's very good to know. I always suspected that Nick was not taking those comments all that personally, and was less offended by them than some of his supporters.

As I originally stated, until I hear from Andi, Nick and Josh about any animosity they may feel among themselves, I'm not convinced there is any.

[sdmom]

This is my comment to Kelly:
"I think you should delete this tweet. Calling someone pedophile is not funny or classy."
Yes, she didn't specify it's directed at Nick but it's not funny at all to call anyone pedophile, which, to me is extremely offensive. The sad thing is, over 200 people favored it. What is wrong with this world now??
The other Nick fan tweeted this to Andy:
"My friends & I find it sad they U are OK with your friend calling someone who cared about U a pedophile & bipolar. #classless"
So Andi was made aware of the offensive tweet. IMO, for her friend's sake, Andi should have advised to Kelly to remove it, because I think it reflects worse on Kelly than on Nick and other 5 guys appearing on that episode.

eriekay, I am so sorry and admire your courage and honesty. HUGS to you!

[eirekay]

^^ Thanks sdmom! My comment to Kelly was:
"You wouldn't use "rapist" as a adjective. Using "pedophile is the same thing only worse."

I do think our friends behavior reflects on us - both good and bad.

[Jeepers]

But we are not responsible for what friends think or say......

[noobsleuth]

Kelly is a big girl and can do with her Twitter account as she pleases. :vomit:  Maybe she feels that by deleting the tweet she would be admitting she made a bad judgement call when she used those words and she simply doesn't want to. Clearly, she sees nothing wrong with her terminology. She can't see that all it does is make her look bad, and not funny. Even if she would have deleted it, the fact that she even made the comment in the first place shows what kind of a person she is. I agree, that it also says something about Andi and the friends she keeps. This never really shocked me though since I remember how she mocked JP's accent on Twitter last season.

It showed a lot about what kind of person Nick is when someone brought his offensive retweet to his attention and he deleted it. It's the reason why he will have fans even after the show is over... he cares what they think about him and how they see him. Contestants like Kelly are a good reminder to me that there is small fraction of this crowd who I would consider worthy of having "fans".   

[Jeepers]

I agree .. Kelly was/is a twit in her comments.....

[chloep]

Yep. My biggest issue is that she sees nothing wrong with those tweets even after having been made aware of the fact how poor in taste they are(it is sad that she even has to be made aware of this actually.)

[Guest]

It is a reflection of Kelly not Nick but that goes for us sitting on message boards talking about contestants. When I bash someone I don't know it reflects on the kind of person I am. I will own what I say and have been guilty. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

[Bet2Win]

I'm not a fan of Andi. I really enjoyed Kelly's humor during JPG's season. I am surprised, given Kelly's taking offense of JPG's gay comments (which he apologized for) that she would use bipolar and pedophilia as a basis for a joke. Even more surprised that she wouldn't delete the comments. Even more surprised that Andi didn't respond to the tweets that complained about Kelly's comments. They were watching the episodes together, live tweeting. Andi knew what Kelly tweeted, imo.

Having said that, I like snark. But snark can cross a line. As I tell my boys, mental illness is never acceptable as a basis for a joke.

[eirekay]

I'm not a fan of Andi. I really enjoyed Kelly's humor during JPG's season. I am surprised, given Kelly's taking offense of JPG's gay comments (which he apologized for) that she would use bipolar and pedophilia as a basis for a joke. Even more surprised that she wouldn't delete the comments. Even more surprised that Andi didn't respond to the tweets that complained about Kelly's comments. They were watching the episodes together, live tweeting. Andi knew what Kelly tweeted, imo.

Having said that, I like snark. But snark can cross a line. As I tell my boys, mental illness is never acceptable as a basis for a joke.

Excellent Post!  

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