Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Ash2214 wrote:
He's sending out a ton of relationship red flags? I don't get that? My brother is 27 and up until the age of 25, he didn't really have many serious girlfriends, but he's been dating this one girl for two years and he knows she's it for him. You don't need to have many relationships to know what you want out of a partner or life. Also, don't you think jumping out of one long term relationship and right into another and getting engaged to that person to get over the previous girl from the other relationship is a bit of a red flag? Because that's exactly what Nick did. All people are different, but I sure as heck wouldn't get out of a relationship that lasted over five years, hop right into another relationship and get engaged to someone to just get over my ex, but I guess all people are different.

Kashathediva wrote:The nightmare:
Accidentally Nick and Josh meet up during down time--while MeandI is away with Chris for his FD.
They have a re-match basketball game. Tied, if you can believe it. So they play a couple games of HORSE. Josh wins the first game. Nick wins the second. Josh is wearing his lucky scarf and Nick is wearing his lucky polka dot socks. Of course---that is all either is wearing! (and sunscreen spf +50 of course!)

Tired from the Dominican heat and humidity, they decide to down a few brewskies at the bar. They talk about their past athletic prowess. Then they talk about their jobs, one in finance and the other in sales. They talk about how lame the mime date and interrogation dates were. They talk about how hot Marcus is. They talk about who got see more side boob in Meandi's fashion misses and who got more frowning duck face. They talk about how short Chris Harrison is. They talk about Elan's hair actually being a bad set of extensions.
They realize after a couple months together they have more in common with each other than they ever did with MeandI. 

The next day Josh has his FD. He has so much fun in town playing baseball with the kids and giving Meandi just enough attention to avoid her mean frowning duck face, but realizes how much he misses Nick. 
Meanwhile, Nick is moping in his room alone. He is sad even though he bought himself a brand new pr. of Punta Cana polka dot socks at the gift shop.
Josh and Meandi go to the dinner portion of the date. MeandI offers Josh the FS card. Josh confesses he would love to go to the suite with MeandI, but his heart belongs to another. Meandi makes her famous face and actually quacks, then realizes she laid an egg. 
She goes back to her room alone to think.


She realizes she can't share. It's got to be all MeandI, all the time and sends the guys home.

Meandi goes back to her room. Alone. She cries for an interminable 2 and a half minutes and then calls Chris B and asks him if he still has her roses.

 source photo: http://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/bachelorette-crasher-chris-bukowski-explains-attempt-to-meet-andi-2014205


photo source: 
http://www.sarahtitle.com/2014/05/21/here-we-go-again-bachelorette-episode-1/

momoftrips wrote:So... pretty sure they weren't suppose to do this.   
 

Who do you think deserves @andi_dorfman's heart? Only three more days until the @bacheloretteabc arrives in Paradisus Punta Cana - find out! #TheBachelorette #ParadisusPuntaCana
 
 
 

 
 

mtnlvr55 wrote:

momoftrips wrote:So... pretty sure they weren't suppose to do this.   
 

Who do you think deserves @andi_dorfman's heart? Only three more days until the @bacheloretteabc arrives in Paradisus Punta Cana - find out! #TheBachelorette #ParadisusPuntaCana
 
 
 

 
 

WOW!!! That is a huge slip up!    Now all we need to figure out is who the F1 is with a slipped up picture...

stuckinsc wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:
He's sending out a ton of relationship red flags? I don't get that? My brother is 27 and up until the age of 25, he didn't really have many serious girlfriends, but he's been dating this one girl for two years and he knows she's it for him. You don't need to have many relationships to know what you want out of a partner or life. Also, don't you think jumping out of one long term relationship and right into another and getting engaged to that person to get over the previous girl from the other relationship is a bit of a red flag? Because that's exactly what Nick did. All people are different, but I sure as heck wouldn't get out of a relationship that lasted over five years, hop right into another relationship and get engaged to someone to just get over my ex, but I guess all people are different.

So I have no problem with Josh not having a serious relationship in five years.  I am sure he has gone out on dates, but no one sparked his interest enough to date seriously.  I did the same thing for my own reasons (taking care of my family post car accident and sister suicide).  No one I met was worth the time.  I do find how quickly he was so all into Andi strange, it seemed like he was in love with her straight out of the limo.

But what you are saying about Nick is exactly what Andi did with the bachelor.  She actually called off her relationship with her boyfriend (someone had said he was fiance, but I haven't seen that confirmed) to go on the bachelor.  So if Nick is bad for this reason, so is Andi and maybe no one should want her with their favorite guy.

Why in defending our favorites do we have to criticize the other guys I just don't get it.

momoftrips wrote:So... pretty sure they weren't suppose to do this.   
 

Who do you think deserves @andi_dorfman's heart? Only three more days until the @bacheloretteabc arrives in Paradisus Punta Cana - find out! #TheBachelorette #ParadisusPuntaCana