Nick Viall - Bachelorette 10 Contestant - Plane Vid - Discussion - *Spoilers*

albean99 wrote:I'm not so sure that Nick's not right about Andi changing her mind at the last minute. Sharleen's blog posted a pic of Andi looking at Nick that rivaled her looking at Josh. She knows Andi and thinks she's really feeling it for Nick. Perhaps Andi was leaning towards picking Nick at the FD and hinted at it in the FS or even LCD. It's possible that her family swayed her towards Josh. I guess what I'm trying to say is that knowing Josh is the spoiled f1 tends to make people think he was always "it" but maybe he wasn't. I'm not even 100% he's the f1 because of the visit to Cancun which I'm not buying is a SH visit. It seems coincidental that he's all of a sudden twitter buddies with Marcus. Maybe they got closer while on BIP?

albean99 wrote:I'm not so sure that Nick's not right about Andi changing her mind at the last minute. Sharleen's blog posted a pic of Andi looking at Nick that rivaled her looking at Josh. She knows Andi and thinks she's really feeling it for Nick. Perhaps Andi was leaning towards picking Nick at the FD and hinted at it in the FS or even LCD. It's possible that her family swayed her towards Josh. I guess what I'm trying to say is that knowing Josh is the spoiled f1 tends to make people think he was always "it" but maybe he wasn't. I'm not even 100% he's the f1 because of the visit to Cancun which I'm not buying is a SH visit. It seems coincidental that he's all of a sudden twitter buddies with Marcus. Maybe they got closer while on BIP?

sophienette wrote:You might not believe me but I hope Josh isnt F1! I think he would be a great bachelor!   

I like Chris, but he doesnt make me react in the way a bachelor should...then again neither did JuanPa or Ben!

SueSt wrote:

sophienette wrote:You might not believe me but I hope Josh isnt F1! I think he would be a great bachelor!   

I like Chris, but he doesnt make me react in the way a bachelor should...then again neither did JuanPa or Ben!

Yes to this; I think Josh would be a great bachelor.

pander3575 wrote:Nick sounded like he got along great with Andi's parents and I'm sure Josh did too.  What was there not to like.  What I doubt would be her parents putting pressure on her to chose Josh over Nick if they felt she loved Nick more than Josh.  It seems to me as a parent you'd want your child to have who they loved and come to a decision on their own.

SueSt wrote:

sophienette wrote:You might not believe me but I hope Josh isnt F1! I think he would be a great bachelor!   

I like Chris, but he doesnt make me react in the way a bachelor should...then again neither did JuanPa or Ben!

Yes to this; I think Josh would be a great bachelor.

pander3575 wrote:Nick sounded like he got along great with Andi's parents and I'm sure Josh did too.  What was there not to like.  What I doubt would be her parents putting pressure on her to chose Josh over Nick if they felt she loved Nick more than Josh. It seems to me as a parent you'd want your child to have who they loved and come to a decision on their own.

Alanna wrote:

pander3575 wrote:Nick sounded like he got along great with Andi's parents and I'm sure Josh did too.  What was there not to like.  What I doubt would be her parents putting pressure on her to chose Josh over Nick if they felt she loved Nick more than Josh.  It seems to me as a parent you'd want your child to have who they loved and come to a decision on their own.

Plus how funny would it be if Hy doesn't prefer Josh and starts in with "her ex was an athlete..." It would be completely opposite of what we're thinking now. Of course, Josh might start signaling the coast guard to come rescue him at that point.

Kashathediva wrote:

pander3575 wrote:Nick sounded like he got along great with Andi's parents and I'm sure Josh did too.  What was there not to like.  What I doubt would be her parents putting pressure on her to chose Josh over Nick if they felt she loved Nick more than Josh. It seems to me as a parent you'd want your child to have who they loved and come to a decision on their own.

I agree with the bolded.
Sometimes the best thing you can do as a parent is keep your big mouth shut. Let your kid and his/her spouse/significant other have their life.
I have a friend who just does not get it. She and her hubby are constantly giving their unsolicited 2 cents to their son about how he should "handle" his wife. Consequently, the son and daughter-in-law keep their comfortable distance.