Re: The Bachelorette 10 - Videos- Youtube - *Spoilers* - Discussion - Thread #2

[Piper61]

Good to know!   

[Cecilia]

Just as an example, I just went through my favorites and had favorited 5 things unintentionally that I would never, ever favorite! Lucky for me, no one is paying attention to my twitter.

[emad0722]

Just as an example, I just went through my favorites and had favorited 5 things unintentionally that I would never, ever favorite! Lucky for me, no one is paying attention to my twitter.

Exactly me too  it's a lesson in that we should give everyone the benefit of the doubt  

[stuckinsc]

Wow, this has been a crazy day that I am glad that I missed.  Maybe the moral of this day should be for everyone to take a deep breath and relax.  

Thank you IAM4UGA for being calm even before the explanation.  

I am shocked how everyone wants to hate on things so fast.  No one is perfect, no one.  My dad used to tell me there was one perfect person and we hung him on a cross, the rest of us just try the best we can.

I know tensions are high, but none of these people are bad people, even Andi who I do not love is not a bad person.  In our desire and hope for the outcome we want do we have to make villians of others to make that outcome better?  It is just sad.

If Nick is F2, remember Andi who you love was pretty darn fond of Nick or maybe even loved him a little bit, so thinking he is a bad person and she cared for him, wouldn't that make her a bad person or at least a really poor judge of character.  Same goes if Josh is F2.  Again, I am not a huge Andi fan and I give her more respect and credit than this.

Andi had really strong feelings for both her final 2, they are both good guys as most of the other guys have stated, even Marcus who doesn't care for Nick didn't say he was a bad guy.  A major chill out is in order.  Not everything is evil, and often times things are not what they seem.

[GuardianAngel]

About twitter. I know I often go through to see who's following me because I couldn't figure out why all these strange people with hundred's of thousands of followers were following me. Until I researched and discovered people pay to have automatic follow, hoping that they would follow them back, only so they can tweet out products for sale/spammers. If you look at the number of followers, and see hundred's of thousands, you think, wow, I'll follow them too without checking.

I have no idea if Nick was following that person or not, but it's very easy for people to check who's following them, and thinking "as common courtesy" just click the follow back when in reality we shouldn't. I always check out their tweets to see who they are, if I don't like them, I block.

[SueSt]

Wow, this has been a crazy day that I am glad that I missed.  Maybe the moral of this day should be for everyone to take a deep breath and relax.  

Thank you IloveUGA for being calm even before the explanation.  

I am shocked how everyone wants to hate on things so fast.  No one is perfect, no one.  My dad used to tell me there was one perfect person and we hung him on a cross, the rest of us just try the best we can.

I know tensions are high, but none of these people are bad people, even Andi who I do not love is not a bad person.  In our desire and hope for the outcome we want do we have to make villians of others to make that outcome better?  It is just sad.

If Nick is F2, remember Andi who you love was pretty darn fond of Nick or maybe even loved him a little bit, so thinking he is a bad person and she cared for him, wouldn't that make her a bad person or at least a really poor judge of character.  Same goes if Josh is F2.  Again, I am not a huge Andi fan and I give her more respect and credit than that.

Andi had really strong feelings for both her final 2, they are both good guys as most of the other guys have stated, even Marcus who doesn't care for Nick didn't say he was a bad guy.  A major chill out is in order.  Not everything is evil, and often times things are not what they seem.

This whole site erupted after one bad tweet; I honestly didn't know what to think!!!
Thanks for being the voice of reason stuckinsc.
All is well...

[Beagle]

To me, its not just about the one bad tweet. The issue I was concern with is the fact that if the media picked up that Nick favored that particular offensive tweet they will run with it and make a whole story up, when in fact it was just a mistake. If you think he is hated now, I can just imagine after being falsely accused of something else.

[beader]

Unfortunately, there are probably people who have already informed RS about the tweet and retweet. Very, very sad to see how quickly a judgement can form and travel.

[emad0722]

 To me, its not just about the one bad tweet. The issue I was concern with is the fact that if the media picked up that Nick favored that particular offensive tweet they will run with it and make a whole story up, when in fact it was just a mistake.  If you think he is hated now, I can just imagine after being falsely accused of something else.

Agreed - so thank goodness he rectified it as soon as he realized and I know he is thankful that we got it sorted. I think this is a lesson for all that no one is perfect but this was a genuine mistake. Nothing more.

Let's remember that for next time

[sbolduc]

Just seeing all this right now no idea what Nick favourited or retweeted but I can tell u I favourite things by accident on a daily basis it happens when I am scrolling through things and I hit that damn star by accident. Happened three times today.... If he admitted he was wrong which it appears he did I don't believe he would admit that if meant it actually retweet or favourite the tweet. Because honestly if u do that intentionally u know that people are going to see it.

Maybe I am naive.

[cindebugg]

For a guy who's supposed to be so intelligent and mature he sure does make a lot of social media "mistakes".  How flimsy do his excuses have to be before people start seeing through them?   He's a mean girl.  He mocked Cody in the house and preyed on the guys whose relationships with Ande he saw as inferior to his.  More and more I believe his edit was closer to the truth than I thought.

FTR, I've never retweeted or favorited anything by mistake.  That's kind of hard to do since the favorite star turns orange when you click on it.  It's kind of hard to miss.

[atem]

I agree about the being 'so called intellectual' on this stupid show isn't saying much to me.

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