Re: Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 Contestant - Spoilers - Discussion - Thread #2

by Ash2214 Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:35 pm

Rolly wrote:
Piper61 wrote:
Ash2214 wrote:Silliness is totally welcome here but it is kind of silly that people are saying Josh has a temper because he was upset that he lost a basketball game and he did say at some point too that he was upset because he wanted to spend time with Andi and that's why he was there. Drama has to be created every season. Production probably pushed JJ to confront Andrew and I'm sure they told him to bring some of the other guys into it too.

To say someone has a bad temper or anger issues over this is a bit much. We don't know him.

And then for people to say Marcus seems like a great, calm guy? Well apparently he's a great, calm guy that likes to cheat on his girlfriends.
Oh yikes. Where does this come from??

We don't have this information from any credible source and I wouldn't believe everything you read.....JMO.

It wasn't something I read. It came straight from the woman's mouth. Actually, it came from another guy's mouth too who said he was specifically told Marcus likes to get around in the Dallas area. You can actually watch the full video of it on the radio stations website. All I'm saying is you don't need to believe everything you see on a reality TV show either.

by laurentx Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:48 pm

When JP was named Bachelor I immediately decided to take last season off, so glad I didn't waste my time. Downside is I don't know much about Andi - I did catch the part of the F3 episode where she confronted JP and left.

I've only read the last few pages here, but I have no problem with Josh's temperament so far. He's had very limited time with Andi - no 1-on-1 dates to this point and is likely growing impatient. You have to think Andi was saving his 1-on-1 for overseas. She stated she hasn't traveled much, so maybe she wanted to wait to share those first experiences with him specifically. He seems to get along well with the other guys and I'm sure Andi is picking up on how the guys interact with each other.

To me Marcus seems to be coming on too strong too soon...

by pbmax Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:51 pm

nannymargie wrote:
pbmax wrote:
Ash2214 wrote:Silliness is totally welcome here but it is kind of silly that people are saying Josh has a temper because he was upset that he lost a basketball game and he did say at some point too that he was upset because he wanted to spend time with Andi and that's why he was there. Drama has to be created every season. Production probably pushed JJ to confront Andrew and I'm sure they told him to bring some of the other guys into it too.

To say someone has a bad temper or anger issues over this is a bit much. We don't know him.

And then for people to say Marcus seems like a great, calm guy? Well apparently he's a great, calm guy that likes to cheat on his girlfriends.

Andi even questioned the competition, was it about himself or her. I think she is observing him right now, not falling head over heels in love. Also trying to see if Marcus is real.

That statement left me Wasn't the competition to get to spend more time with her.

Let me try to explain it better. She was discussing with one of the other women player was it about time with her or him just wanting to win for himself cause he doesn't like losing. He wasn't thinking about Andi during that game.

by Piper61 Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:55 pm

While he might not have been thinking about Andi during the game, I disagree that he was just wanting to win for himself above all else. A win for himself and his team meant spending time with Andi that evening, time he said he wanted. He has said he wants to see her every day, kiss her every day, and that wasn't going to happen that day if his team lost.

Think Brian wanted to win the game because that's part of his actual livelihood?

by soccermom333 Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:58 pm

Kashathediva wrote:
Ash2214 wrote:^ A woman who works for a Dallas radio station, I forget the name of it, but it's a really well known one and if I remember correctly it's the same one Kidd Kraddick used to be on before he passed away, was on live while looking at the bios and pictures of the men and she remembered Marcus as a guy she hooked up with in a bar. She was pissed because she eventually found out he had a girlfriend at the time she hooked up with him. Considering she said it on live radio, I highly doubt she would lie about something like that because that could easily be used as defamation of character. RS was also in studio that day too and he's made it seem like on his blogs that Marcus has gotten around. He's only 25, so I understand he plays the field, but cheating isn't a good thing - especially considering he and Andi talked about it last night on the episode.

I just find it funny that people are saying Josh has anger issues and a bad temperament when we only see little scenes of him being "fired up" about losing a basketball game and another guy getting a girls number during filming, but yet they think Marcus deserves someone better than Andi because he seems like a calm guy, but yet he cheated on his girlfriend.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but in my opinion, I just think it's crazy.

One of the things I like so far about Marcus is he is soft-spoken and at least IRL has chosen not to address the above.(that I am aware)
A couple things stand out to me about the bolded.
a) really??--this woman who is so worried about Marcus's morality chose to air her dirty laundry on a live radio show and discuss hooking up with a random guy for a one nighter?? Really? Pot meet kettle. Pot meet poor taste, at least kettle isn't whistling. Why should this radio personality be pissed? You reap what you sow. She had a one night stand and she is judging the guy??
b) Pot does not know the details and reality of the status of what she thinks was a gf. No details have emerged. Thankfully. Shows some respect on the part of kettle by not addressing such and kettle's ex.
c) As far as what RS' opinion is--he is a 37(or did he just turn 38) who is jealous of anyone who has any dating relationship. The closest RS comes to dating is feeding Maddy her meals daily. Maybe they share a bed, but not going there.

As far as Josh's real temperment. Not going there. I have no idea.

The "radio personality," I actually know her name but won't post it, is NOT upset or "pisseds" at all. Hugesmile

by notarose Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:04 pm

Josh admits he has never had his heart broken

http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelorette/video/PL5556208/VDKA0_428dan0a

by eme92 Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:08 pm

I can't wait for their date..and I can't see the video since I'm abroad. What does he say more specifically? Smiley

by pbmax Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:43 pm

Piper61 wrote:While he might not have been thinking about Andi during the game, I disagree that he was just wanting to win for himself above all else. A win for himself and his team meant spending time with Andi that evening, time he said he wanted. He has said he wants to see her every day, kiss her every day, and that wasn't going to happen that day if his team lost.

Think Brian wanted to win the game because that's part of his actual livelihood?

Brian wasn't playing aggressive and with atittude. He just played the game.

by Piper61 Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:53 pm

pbmax wrote:
Piper61 wrote:While he might not have been thinking about Andi during the game, I disagree that he was just wanting to win for himself above all else. A win for himself and his team meant spending time with Andi that evening, time he said he wanted. He has said he wants to see her every day, kiss her every day, and that wasn't going to happen that day if his team lost.

Think Brian wanted to win the game because that's part of his actual livelihood?

Brian wasn't playing aggressive and with atittude. He just played the game.

Since we only saw what they wanted us to see, I can't confirm nor deny that. Brian (and it makes sense) took many of the shots for basket that we saw and I think he wanted to win as much as anyone. I think everyone wanted to win for boasting rights and for the extra date time. Everyone certainly has their individual playing style and it was not unlike any random pickup BBall game I've seen, other than some may not have had as much playing experience as others.

by Rolly Tue Jun 03, 2014 4:38 pm

Ash2214 wrote:
Rolly wrote:
Piper61 wrote:
Ash2214 wrote:Silliness is totally welcome here but it is kind of silly that people are saying Josh has a temper because he was upset that he lost a basketball game and he did say at some point too that he was upset because he wanted to spend time with Andi and that's why he was there. Drama has to be created every season. Production probably pushed JJ to confront Andrew and I'm sure they told him to bring some of the other guys into it too.

To say someone has a bad temper or anger issues over this is a bit much. We don't know him.

And then for people to say Marcus seems like a great, calm guy? Well apparently he's a great, calm guy that likes to cheat on his girlfriends.
Oh yikes. Where does this come from??

We don't have this information from any credible source and I wouldn't believe everything you read.....JMO.

It wasn't something I read. It came straight from the woman's mouth. Actually, it came from another guy's mouth too who said he was specifically told Marcus likes to get around in the Dallas area. You can actually watch the full video of it on the radio stations website. All I'm saying is you don't need to believe everything you see on a reality TV show either.

I agree with that. We should probably take everything with a grain of salt. With what I see of Marcus from the show I like him. (Probably better to post that in the Marcus fan thread). How each of the people on this show responds to situations they are put in and the way they treat each other tells me something about them. Maybe what was said by the woman on the show was true, I think it's totally possible it's not too. We each come to our own conclusions....that's what makes the world go round! :yes:

by janeh810 Tue Jun 03, 2014 4:48 pm

Marcus sounded "full of himself" in episode #3. He said he assumed he'd get the rose after the singing event. He also assumed that his connection to Andi was greater than Josh's connection with Andi. Boy, does Marcus have a big surprise in store for himself.... Josh hoped he'd get the rose, but, he articulated that he didn't know who would get it.

by Bet2Win Tue Jun 03, 2014 4:53 pm

janeh810 wrote:Marcus sounded "full of himself" in episode #3. He said he assumed he'd get the rose after the singing event. He also assumed that his connection to Andi was greater than Josh's connection with Andi. Boy, does Marcus have a big surprise in store for himself.... Josh hoped he'd get the rose, but, he articulated that he didn't know who would get it.

To be fair, his comments about his and Andi's connection were in a voice over. We don't know at what point he actually spoke those words.

After last night, run, bach's run is my mantra.

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