Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 4 - Mon June 2/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

livlafluv1 wrote:Here's my suggestion to tptb- if they really want to pay tribute to Eric Hill, sponsor a "Bachelor Gives Back" event and donate the proceeds to the philanthropic foundation associated with GoWithEric.

Bet2Win wrote:I thought it interesting the CH said in his blog that Andi was already triggered because the guys were having bro'mances and not paying enough attention to her.

I agree, Kasha, the CH/Andi segment was an epic fail.  Comical that CH said the segment was done to honor Eric.  

Eric was a smart guy and he was an instigator. He loved to stir the pot a little bit, and that’s what he did with Andi. When I saw that sly little smile slide across his face while arguing with Andi that night, I just laughed. Even in that moment, he was having fun. At the end of it all, they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye. When does that ever happen on our show?

albean99 wrote:

Bet2Win wrote:I thought it interesting the CH said in his blog that Andi was already triggered because the guys were having bro'mances and not paying enough attention to her.

I agree, Kasha, the CH/Andi segment was an epic fail.  Comical that CH said the segment was done to honor Eric.  

Where did you see that, Bet? I read his blog and it didn't talk about that. I did think this part was interesting.

Eric was a smart guy and he was an instigator. He loved to stir the pot a little bit, and that’s what he did with Andi. When I saw that sly little smile slide across his face while arguing with Andi that night, I just laughed. Even in that moment, he was having fun. At the end of it all, they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye. When does that ever happen on our show?

http://popwatch.ew.com/2014/06/03/chris-harrison-the-bachelorette-episode-4-blog-4/

Andi was tired, she was a little bit upset with the guys because they had been bro-ing out a lot and not paying as much attention to her as they should and it was a perfect storm and a bad situation for Eric.

Kashathediva wrote:CH and his blogs!   
Per this portion: "they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye." (in reference to Andi and Eric)
Seriously, CH?? That was one helluva an angry hug. 

Kashathediva wrote:CH and his blogs!   
Per this portion: "they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye." (in reference to Andi and Eric)
Seriously, CH?? That was one helluva an angry hug. 

Kashathediva wrote:CH and his blogs!   
Per this portion: "they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye." (in reference to Andi and Eric)
Seriously, CH?? That was one helluva an angry hug. 

Isabel123 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:CH and his blogs!   
Per this portion: "they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye." (in reference to Andi and Eric)
Seriously, CH?? That was one helluva an angry hug. 

CH also added that "When does that ever happen on our show?". Well, it happened last season, JPG hugged Andi and accompanied her to the cab after she lambasted him. So the the hug goodbye after a disagreement is not a first on the show. CH should also be ashamed for trivializing Eric's sentiments.

Isabel123 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:CH and his blogs!   
Per this portion: "they ended their disagreement with a hug goodbye." (in reference to Andi and Eric)
Seriously, CH?? That was one helluva an angry hug. 

CH also added that "When does that ever happen on our show?". Well, it happened last season, JPG hugged Andi and accompanied her to the cab after she lambasted him. So the the hug goodbye after a disagreement is not a first on the show. CH should also be ashamed for trivializing Eric's sentiments.

Sprite wrote:

Of course Andi wasn't as polite as JPab and Eric left on his own. She was busy yelling at the rest of those poor guys. Karma is a b*tch...and so is Andi.

Kashathediva wrote:

eusebeia wrote:Dylan's brother just died last November.  Sheesh.  That's really recent.  The show is ruthless for sure.  Gack.

Well, in fairness, Dylan didn't have to go on the show this time, he could have waited. He had to have realized that the show would bring up his siblings' tragedies.
Sometimes talking about things like this, helps process it. If it was handled tastefully and it seems so at this point, he may have even gotten some good out of sharing with Andi.
What keeps loved ones that have passed on "alive" is being able to talk about them. Most people aren't comfortable around that, so it is healing to have a listening ear.

stuckinsc wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

eusebeia wrote:Dylan's brother just died last November.  Sheesh.  That's really recent.  The show is ruthless for sure.  Gack.

Well, in fairness, Dylan didn't have to go on the show this time, he could have waited. He had to have realized that the show would bring up his siblings' tragedies.
Sometimes talking about things like this, helps process it. If it was handled tastefully and it seems so at this point, he may have even gotten some good out of sharing with Andi.
What keeps loved ones that have passed on "alive" is being able to talk about them. Most people aren't comfortable around that, so it is healing to have a listening ear.

I went through something very similar to Dylan and had to be my mom's rock as well.  He may have wanted a chance to get away and not think about it all the time and to be drowning in it all the time.

I wanted to hug him the whole time he was talking.