Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion

Ash2214 wrote:

lurker11 wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

That's all I'm trying to say. It's as if she murdered someone

The way the author phrased the whole thing seemed over the top.... but she was that way describing Chris in the coffee shop as well... AND some contestant in this upcoming season flirting with Chris Harrison! Need to find out who that girl is!

^ Yeah, a few of us noticed how over the top the whole article was. It was ridiculous how she kind of blasted Andi on the date choices like Andi planned them herself. The author even acknowledged that Andi doesn't plan them, but she still blamed her for the awful dates. Not to mention, a few of her paragraphs had awful grammar and poor structure of paragraphs and sentences. I was an English major in undergrad so I notice these things

Yes, I noticed that. Andi and Josh will rise above this too.

SueSt wrote:^ Sorry, maybe it's my age, but to me an eye roll is an immature response in ANY circumstances.  But particularly after Nick bore his soul on national television to try and get closure, for Andi to roll her eyes indicates a total lack of compassion and humility.

It not a age thing it is disrespectful response from a immature woman .

SueSt wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

lurker11 wrote:I feel like this is a little bit extreme.. it was just an eye roll, after he'd dropped a major bomb. I know I do this all the time about things way less embarrassing.  My roommate says something about our apartment that annoys me and I roll my eyes... hope that doesn't make me horrible!

That's all I'm trying to say. It's as if she murdered someone

To me Andi's actions were definitely soul-destroying.... the fact that she rolled her eyes at or in reference to Nick indicates an immaturity and lack of compassion and humility that I find distasteful and ugly.

Sue, like I said in my very first comment, you liked Nick during the season and I liked Andi. Neither of us will change our opinions and that's okay. For me, I don't think Andi's actions were "definitely soul-destroying" because unfortunately each and every season the F2 person will be led on and led on hard. In most cases, the lead sleeps with more than one person during the FS. It's the way this stupid, silly show works. For you, you find the eye roll thing (if this author is telling the truth) to be insulting and immature. For me, I find that just about every single person in this world will roll their eyes at someone at some point in their life. I think Nick had the right to be upset and I think Andi had the right to be upset.

It's as simple as that for me. Both Nick and Andi made mistakes. Thankfully, it appears Andi and Josh have moved on and so has Nick. Good for all 3 of them.

Ash, I liked Andi during the season too.  And I didn't have a problem with her choosing Josh.  But the way she treated Nick to me reflected a lack of compassion and humility that I will never understand or condone.  If you feel that this topic has been beaten to a pulp, you can always sit out the discussion.  This was a new article with new information and I choose to comment.

bleuberry wrote:I'm sure she rolled her eyes, but I don't know, how much of the author's words are to make it sound juicy and entertaining to read? Did Andi speak and ask the guys to join her in her eye rolling? Lol sounds odd the way she put it, kinda sensationalized. But otherwise a good read.

Very true. It was written in a dramatic tone throughout IMO - especially before you even read the damn thing and see that horrific picture of CH as an angel

I guess, for me personally, I'll criticize the way she handled the situation up until the second he said the question about the fantasy suite. She was stiff and cold and nervous and I didn't like that. But the second he asked that question he lost any sympathy from me about how she acted. So I just can't work myself up about the eye roll... since IMO it was deserved.

lurker11 wrote:I guess, for me personally, I'll criticize the way she handled the situation up until the second he said the question about the fantasy suite.  She was stiff and cold and nervous and I didn't like that.  But the second he asked that question he lost any sympathy from me about how she acted. So I just can't work myself up about the eye roll... since IMO it was deserved.

If she did not come out as a cold hearted b**ch Nick would of never said the things he said to her . IMO

And I think that's the one question he wanted to ask her for months, and was probably going to ask her anyway...

lurker11 wrote:And I think that's the one question he wanted to ask her for months, and was probably going to ask her anyway...

THANK YOU ...That is the point she could of easily settled this before the AFTR and he would not of needed to ask her on National TV.

Everyone I know wants some type of closure .

for sure everyone wants closure. But is it a little too "real world" to expect them to have settled this prior to the ATFR? No matter how wonderful any of the other leads have been they've all waited to have the conversation on air. No matter how we say what we would do in real life, this isn't real life, it's a television show... Where there will always be someone in between them to facilitate communication.

SueSt wrote:

Sorry, none of us 'know' Josh and Andi. I also believe one of the reasons Andi choose Josh was b/c he was more comfortable with a celebrity lifestyle.  They may be attending charity events, but many 'celebrities' are paid for their attendence at charity functions.  We don't know if they are paid or not, regardless, they seem to enjoy the spotlight.  The fact that she gave up her career in law to hawk another celebrity lifestyle website does not impress me AT ALL. But, really, Andi's entitled to whatever choice she wants to make, no problems, but for me it all comes back to how HEARTLESS she was towards Nick at ATFR.... and as a result of her actions you will never convince me that she's anything but a horrible person.

In regard to the bolded statement above, NOR ME  

^ I didn't say I was trying to convince you of anything. I was simply stating my opinions. Like you don't like Andi, I dislike Nick. His behavior during the show was a real turnoff for me and to see that he follows someone like Selma's teenage sister (who doesn't follow nick back and neither does Selma) who tends to post very revealing pictures of herself on IG is just even more of a turnoff for me. People don't like certain people. It's the way it goes. Differing opinions makes the world go round.