*No Spoilers* The Bachelor Episode 9 FD Discussions

murasaki1393 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:Andi basically told him she was not into him and he told her that's ok, I accept that. Why wasn't that the end of it? Does she think he is supposed to talk her out of her feelings? I don't think she was being honest there. If she genuinely didn't think it was a fit why not just accept the way he choose to handle her rejection? I don't disagree with some of the things she was saying about him, but you don't normally start tearing someone apart that you are breaking up with.

That whole argument was about her figuring out that she was not the F1 and was along for the ride IMO. Perhaps JP didn't hide it as well as some of the other past bachelors, but I'm sure it happens every season. This is what they sign up for and an unfortunate part of the show. It's Ok for her to be mad that he used the word default or spoke about Clare, but mainly she seemed to want him to care that she was leaving. What's he supposed to do? Pretend some more? She was mad he was pretending than mad he wasn't pretending.  

as ive read somewhere, and also pointed out by nd..it was a total producer set up. They gearing up much-needed buzz for her gig and need peeps to be invested in her (and her journey to find wuv.LOL).  Hence, tuning in her season up next.  Its too funny for me, that Andi, as upset/mad as she is `now`, will be jumping right back into Fleission bubble soon enough.

grace8136 wrote:Andi basically told him she was not into him and he told her that's ok, I accept that. Why wasn't that the end of it? Does she think he is supposed to talk her out of her feelings? I don't think she was being honest there. If she genuinely didn't think it was a fit why not just accept the way he choose to handle her rejection? I don't disagree with some of the things she was saying about him, but you don't normally start tearing someone apart that you are breaking up with.

murasaki1393 wrote:as ive read somewhere, and also pointed out by nd..it was a total producer set up. They gearing up much-needed buzz for her gig and need peeps to be invested in her (and her journey to find wuv.LOL).  Hence, tuning in her season up next.  Its too funny for me, that Andi, as upset/mad as she is `now`, will be jumping right back into Fleission bubble soon enough.

JBF wrote:

grace8136 wrote:Andi basically told him she was not into him and he told her that's ok, I accept that. Why wasn't that the end of it? Does she think he is supposed to talk her out of her feelings? I don't think she was being honest there. If she genuinely didn't think it was a fit why not just accept the way he choose to handle her rejection? I don't disagree with some of the things she was saying about him, but you don't normally start tearing someone apart that you are breaking up with.

This is exactly where I lost her argument. Yes, Juan is using faulty English and, no, it isn't just a language barrier since even Clare was struggling his "it is OK" repetition in Vietnam. However, was Andi expecting him to be blubbering to her that he was "saving my heart for you"? Maybe she expected the full Antigua Boo-Hoo out of him like Brooks received.

murasaki1393 wrote:as ive read somewhere, and also pointed out by nd..it was a total producer set up. They gearing up much-needed buzz for her gig and need peeps to be invested in her (and her journey to find wuv.LOL).  Hence, tuning in her season up next.  Its too funny for me, that Andi, as upset/mad as she is `now`, will be jumping right back into Fleission bubble soon enough.

Does anybody here honestly think there will be a long line of men eager to woo Andi the Bachelorette? Maybe before she attempted to castrate Juan, but she was a little TOO forceful as a prosecutor tonight. Also these guys have to get past Daddy Hy too, who has ZERO confidence in this silly show.

Jeepers wrote:Well .. If filming has started .. Those 25 guys have not seen Andi in action .. And won't know what to expect

JBF wrote:I guess I got carried away with my terminology above. After all, Juan got me thinking in that direction when he mentioned his pain on Nikki's mechanical bull, per his blog.

Jeepers wrote:Well .. If filming has started .. Those 25 guys have not seen Andi in action .. And won't know what to expect

Hey! You may be right if that is the case. Although she would have to take time out to attend WTA.

nascar48tvlgirl ‏@nascar48tvlgirl  Feb 24
I think @JuanPaGalavis needs to run from Clare and her crazy sister as fast as he can!  #Bachelor

Rodolfo Soules ‏@rodolfoelchamo  4h
"Loving Falling in love with you" ... Clare.    WAIT what???  #TheBachelor

iamreal2u wrote:Talking about animals/critters did you notice that they were two horses mom and baby and two ducks before he met up with Nikki.

Also if Clare is F1 something happened after because his cousin is not her friend right now.  He favored this tweet:

nascar48tvlgirl ‏@nascar48tvlgirl  Feb 24
I think @JuanPaGalavis needs to run from Clare and her crazy sister as fast as he can!  #Bachelor

and said this tonight

Rodolfo Soules ‏@rodolfoelchamo  4h
"Loving Falling in love with you" ... Clare.    WAIT what???  #TheBachelor

Jeepers wrote:Well .. If filming has started .. Those 25 guys have not seen Andi in action .. And won't know what to expect