Ben Patton - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Discussion

maighread wrote:I just loved Tracy. She was pure awesome sauce.

at first i didn't care that much for her but the more i heard her speak, the more she became my favorite of the 3. seemed the most real and the only one who could speak about things from personal experience. maybe it's because she's been through some hard knocks in her own life and learned how to truely overcome adversity. i like her.

I love Tracy, she was my kind of woman....Straight shooter

Angela just responded to questions of their breakup on a pic she posted.


angelazatopek
Hey ladies! we shared an amazing love and journey together and who knows what the future holds... Time and distance was really hard, but it's all going to be okay :) :)

I find the "and who knows what the future holds" interesting.

stg73 wrote:Angela just responded to questions of their breakup on a pic she posted.


angelazatopek
Hey ladies! we shared an amazing love and journey together and who knows what the future holds... Time and distance was really hard, but it's all going to be okay :) :)

I find the "and who knows what the future holds" interesting.

Me too! He sure seemed like a smitten kitten at that finale.

So, does anyone think they are laying low, waiting for the attention to die down? People are asking both of them how long they have been split, and they have yet to reply. I understand that a relationship isn't everyone's business, but when you go on one of these shows people are going to ask questions!

I just noticed he has started following Angela on twitter today. Very interesting that they are broken up, and now he is following her.

Maybe he read Angela's final blog. Angela has been such a lady in handling this whole situation. No derogatory remarks and just made it feel like a share decision on their part. Nicely done.

Maybe watching their proposal stirred up some old feelings. It was really beautiful and they looked very much in love at the time. I wish they would have posted pics of when they were in hiding, but I understand that is probably weird for them. :P

I went back and listened to his huffington interview and he is what he said:
He thought he wanted someone with their own professional life because he felt it would complement his own. After the process he realized what he really wants is someone who can run his household like his mother raised them. So he learn a little more about himself during the process. In answering the "lip slut" question he said that he had not dated in 4 years so he had a lot of making up to do. IMO these maybe the reason why the relationship did not work but I still think that these are not show stoppers. Married the chick and no more "lip slut" and meet in the middle about household. Again, IMO these reasons are not overwhelming that if you are in love cannot be fixed.

Where is Angela's blog that you are speaking of?

It is scheduled to be posted on Cupid today. My thinking is that she let him review first. Waiting to see what she wrote.

iamreal2u wrote:I went back and listened to his huffington interview and he is what he said:
He thought he wanted someone with their own professional life because he felt it would complement his own. After the process he realized what he really wants is someone who can run his household like his mother raised them. So he learn a little more about himself during the process. In answering the "lip slut" question he said that he had not dated in 4 years so he had a lot of making up to do. IMO these maybe the reason why the relationship did not work but I still think that these are not show stoppers. Married the chick and no more "lip slut" and meet in the middle about household. Again, IMO these reasons are not overwhelming that if you are in love cannot be fixed.

I agree! Some members here didn't see it but I have always thought that Ben & Angela seemed to be a great match ever since that vineyard date with both being from Texas and seemingly good families. Angela just screams "wife material" to me with her beauty, poise and kind heart. She got along great with all the women in the house and seems to also be a great guy's gal with her athleticism, ability to shoot a gun and pretty sure she used to be a sports commentator while in college. Obviously there's more to a relationship than just that but we know they had that initial chemistry/spark. I'd say it's worth a go of it in the real world!!

Interested to see what she writes ...