Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #11

sosleepy wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@mbl Serious question.  How do you think Tyler should've handled Tuesday on? Should he have decline Hannah on tv? Should he have said yes to Hannah but declined her invitation to her place?  Should he have left her place in the middle of the night, instead, or whenever they finished talking? Or do you honestly think he should've cancelled his date with Gigi that has probably been planned for a while given her schedule?

Ofc I don’t see how he leaves that stage declining Hannah’s invite. However. He could have either:

1. Made it clear to her, and us the audience in podcasts and such that it was just a friends thing and he’s moved on. I don’t think anyone, including Hannah would fault him.

2. Meet with Hannah, but give her closure she needs on that “date.” In public IG or whatever, make it clear where you are at with Hannah. Supportive friend, the end.

3. Alternatively, don’t go out with Gigi this week.

What he is doing? This half in/half out $hit? It’s a terrible, terrible look. As he stands, he’s ruined his entire brand of respecting women and blah, blah, he’s so “woke.” He’s trying to have it both ways! Date Gigi while keeping Hannah kind of half out there as a maybe backup. It’s awful and I’m losing so much respect so fast. Pick one or the other, but trying to have both is so off brand it’s jarring and disgusting. I feel duped, honestly. And this doesn’t even touch on his gross friend’s disrespectful IG stories. Everything about this is in poor taste. Like incredibly so.

Summerfun1980 wrote:@SarahD The show tried to use Tyler and Gigi is currently using him.  But he has more to gain being used by Gigi and let likely to get his heart broken because he's not falling for Gigi.  Hannah could do more damage IMO

mbl wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@SarahD The show tried to use Tyler and Gigi is currently using him.  But he has more to gain being used by Gigi and let likely to get his heart broken because he's not falling for Gigi.  Hannah could do more damage IMO

How do we know he’s not falling for Gigi?

Summerfun1980 wrote:

sosleepy wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@mbl Serious question.  How do you think Tyler should've handled Tuesday on? Should he have decline Hannah on tv? Should he have said yes to Hannah but declined her invitation to her place?  Should he have left her place in the middle of the night, instead, or whenever they finished talking? Or do you honestly think he should've cancelled his date with Gigi that has probably been planned for a while given her schedule?

Ofc I don’t see how he leaves that stage declining Hannah’s invite. However. He could have either:

1. Made it clear to her, and us the audience in podcasts and such that it was just a friends thing and he’s moved on. I don’t think anyone, including Hannah would fault him.

2. Meet with Hannah, but give her closure she needs on that “date.” In public IG or whatever, make it clear where you are at with Hannah. Supportive friend, the end.

3. Alternatively, don’t go out with Gigi this week.

What he is doing? This half in/half out $hit? It’s a terrible, terrible look. As he stands, he’s ruined his entire brand of respecting women and blah, blah, he’s so “woke.” He’s trying to have it both ways! Date Gigi while keeping Hannah kind of half out there as a maybe backup. It’s awful and I’m losing so much respect so fast. Pick one or the other, but trying to have both is so off brand it’s jarring and disgusting. I feel duped, honestly. And this doesn’t even touch on his gross friend’s disrespectful IG stories. Everything about this is in poor taste. Like incredibly so.

1. I think he did this.

2. We don't really know what he told Hannah.  But I'm guessing that he wants to take it a day at a time AND he told her about Gigi because of the ig video yesterday.  Should he have cut her off completely?  Hannah can cut ties with him if friendship isn't good enough.  I would feel differently if Hannah wasn't well aware of Gigi. We all are. Hannah can tell Tyler she doesn't want to be friends anymore.

3. I'm 100% the date with Gigi was on the books. Regular dudes with no job commitment really don't have a good reason to reschedule a date with an A lister.  And I'm not sure why he should prioritize his relationship with Hannah over his with Gigi's.  She a friend but also an ex.

If casually dating is disgusting to you, I really don't know what to say. Do you believe he should just commit to Gigi (a woman he barely knows) or Hannah (a woman who broke up with him two months ago) I'm not sure why he can't be friends with and get to know them both in the real world. It's hard for me to see the problem with his actions. He is so clearly single and behaving as such.  JMO

mbl wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@SarahD The show tried to use Tyler and Gigi is currently using him.  But he has more to gain being used by Gigi and let likely to get his heart broken because he's not falling for Gigi.  Hannah could do more damage IMO

How do we know he’s not falling for Gigi?