Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

umngirl wrote:Hey Arie, maybe don’t keep reaching out to exes. #NeverChanging

https://twitter.com/whats_ur_sign_/status/970882299012067328?s=21

And there you go ! Arie exposed

Bekah M basically summing it all up for me

Sprite wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:Lots of F1s deal with leads talking about stuff to them post-show I am sure. Many of them have said as much. No way did Becca think Arie was going to dump her imo. I've barely seen any emotion from him to ANY of the women this season, including Lauren. This is not a guy who is ready for a monogamous relationship at all and I'd tell any girl to run. jmo  

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Says Kufrin: “He had told me, ‘I still have feelings for her, I’m trying to work through them.’ He said it was hard for him to always talk about it in interviews with the press, to relive that relationship. He said he couldn’t close that chapter until everything was said and done and the finale aired. That whole time we were just looking at the end goal of this week to finally be done with that and move on and be together and work through it as a team.”


So she felt he had emotions left over from filming, but they were working through them.

"he lied or hid his true feelings and emotions for weeks and weeks and weeks,” she says. “The number one thing that I value in a relationship is honesty and loyalty, and I feel like I wasn’t given that.”

And then there is this...the pattern continues...when things start getting tough...the weaselly needle d*ck gets going.

“I never thought for a million years that once the going started to get tough that he would throw in the towel and jump ship and say, ‘Oh sorry, I changed my mind.’ I didn’t think we were at that point whatsoever,” says Kufrin.

So I guess she just thought he would just stay with her anyway even though he had feelings for Lauren. Why would she want to stay in a relationship like that.

Stone_Hedge wrote:I’m so happy Lauren is with Ardy now

I think Airy and Lauren are perfect together.

umngirl wrote:Hey Arie, maybe don’t keep reaching out to exes. #NeverChanging

https://twitter.com/whats_ur_sign_/status/970882299012067328?s=21

oh geeze. Lauren take his phone away! She really needs to keep an eye on him every time he's on his phone. Fun.

pbmax wrote:

Sprite wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:Lots of F1s deal with leads talking about stuff to them post-show I am sure. Many of them have said as much. No way did Becca think Arie was going to dump her imo. I've barely seen any emotion from him to ANY of the women this season, including Lauren. This is not a guy who is ready for a monogamous relationship at all and I'd tell any girl to run. jmo  

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Says Kufrin: “He had told me, ‘I still have feelings for her, I’m trying to work through them.’ He said it was hard for him to always talk about it in interviews with the press, to relive that relationship. He said he couldn’t close that chapter until everything was said and done and the finale aired. That whole time we were just looking at the end goal of this week to finally be done with that and move on and be together and work through it as a team.”


So she felt he had emotions left over from filming, but they were working through them.

"he lied or hid his true feelings and emotions for weeks and weeks and weeks,” she says. “The number one thing that I value in a relationship is honesty and loyalty, and I feel like I wasn’t given that.”

And then there is this...the pattern continues...when things start getting tough...the weaselly needle d*ck gets going.

“I never thought for a million years that once the going started to get tough that he would throw in the towel and jump ship and say, ‘Oh sorry, I changed my mind.’ I didn’t think we were at that point whatsoever,” says Kufrin.

So I guess she just thought he would just stay with her anyway even though he had feelings for Lauren. Why would she want to stay in a relationship like that.

Exact same thing can be said for Lauren. Except she looks even more pathetic.

There's a reason Arie is single at 36. Or lots of reasons probably. Probably be single at 40 too.

And the ATFR is just now airing in my time zone. Becca is rocking the crap outta that Randi Rahm dress. #YouGoGirl

pbmax wrote:

BKay wrote:Arie has the emotional maturity of a 14 yo boy. He couldn't leave the girl some dignity and let her cry in peace? Run Lauren. But Becca, wth? Why didn't she take her mic pack off as soon as he said he's breaking up, go get her bags and hop in that suv?? She left that mic on her all that time. Almost like it was planned...

I'm still wondering how she had the ring on when she arrived. Are they keeping the ring now and wearing it around.

If I were to guess, they let her wear it to perpetuate the deception that this was a filming of the happy couple. They probably said they would show it ATFR.

Linds911 wrote:

umngirl wrote:Hey Arie, maybe don’t keep reaching out to exes. #NeverChanging

https://twitter.com/whats_ur_sign_/status/970882299012067328?s=21

oh geeze. Lauren take his phone away! She really needs to keep an eye on him every time he's on his phone. Fun.

Just remember Lauren it was two months ago he was reaching out to you, shortly after proposing to Becca. Now he is reaching out to Bekah M after proposing to you. My new hope for tomorrow, Lauren sees the crap he is pulling tonight and throws his ring in his face.

If not, and she stays with him, then go ahead and do an AFTR wedding. Just make sure to outlaw computers and cell phones in your lives and get that land line installed and buy Arie a beeper. And still good luck, he will pick up burner phones.

OMG, I am friends and keep in contact with all of my ex's...my husband joins us sometimes but not all times.  Is that bad?  

I don't regret one relationship, there was a reason I loved them, why would I not continue to care for them and about them just because we weren't meant for the long haul.  

I really am starting to feel like the female version of Arie.

mslat92 wrote:Bekah M basically summing it all up for me

Lauren is a fool! Like I said early on, a snake can say touch me, I won’t bite and when he does bite and you say, I thought you weren’t going to bite. His answer will be, you knew I was a snake