Re: Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Feb 26 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

by Bet2Win Tue Feb 27, 2018 2:59 am

All threads are now open. yes

by Aria Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:08 am

Stone_Hedge wrote:Kendall

Very interesting that kendall actually presents Lauren as someone who's very sweet and the the one who's super ready to start a marriage, whereas she presents Becca as the one who's a strong opiniated woman. I think that along with the promo shows that many of the theories about Arie picking Becca because Lauren leaves (we see that she's at the FRC) or her not ready for an engagement (she tells him she's ready to spend forever with him) don't really make sense, IMO.

On that topic, very interesting interview with Bekah M.
http://www.etonline.com/the-bachelor-standout-bekah-martinez-says-arie-luyendyk-jr-isnt-ready-for-marriage-exclusive-97180?amp&__twitter_impression=true

I don't think Arie knows what he wants, and I don't think he's serious about being with one person for the rest of his life...I think Arie has a conflict between how he wants to present himself, and what kind of woman he thinks he should be with...He talked about how he hasn't been in love with women who are strong and independent... and then all of the sudden, he's on the show [and] he's like, 'I want a strong, independent woman who I'm an equal with. I don't think there's anything wrong with being like, 'Yeah, I want to be the dominant partner in the relationship.' Maybe that's not the popular thing to say, but I wish he would just be honest about that, because I don't really think that he wanted to be with a woman like me or with a woman like Sienne, women like us... who aren't going to let him get away with whatever he wants to get away with

I think she pretty much nails it in terms of Arie wanting to be that guy who wants an equal partner, but in reality, he wants to be the dominant one in the relationship. I can see that being the cause of the breakup, because I don't think Arie had ever been in a relationship with a Becca type before. Seeing how she didn't let her ex manipulate her, I can see Arie bolting when he realizes he picked someone who won't let him get away with his BS. IMO.

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by Guest Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:26 am

Aria wrote:
Stone_Hedge wrote:Kendall

Very interesting that kendall actually presents Lauren as someone who's very sweet and the the one who's super ready to start a marriage, whereas she presents Becca as the one who's a strong opiniated woman. I think that along with the promo shows that many of the theories about Arie picking Becca because Lauren leaves (we see that she's at the FRC) or her not ready for an engagement (she tells him she's ready to spend forever with him) don't really make sense, IMO.

On that topic, very interesting interview with Bekah M.
http://www.etonline.com/the-bachelor-standout-bekah-martinez-says-arie-luyendyk-jr-isnt-ready-for-marriage-exclusive-97180?amp&__twitter_impression=true

I don't think Arie knows what he wants, and I don't think he's serious about being with one person for the rest of his life...I think Arie has a conflict between how he wants to present himself, and what kind of woman he thinks he should be with...He talked about how he hasn't been in love with women who are strong and independent... and then all of the sudden, he's on the show [and] he's like, 'I want a strong, independent woman who I'm an equal with. I don't think there's anything wrong with being like, 'Yeah, I want to be the dominant partner in the relationship.' Maybe that's not the popular thing to say, but I wish he would just be honest about that, because I don't really think that he wanted to be with a woman like me or with a woman like Sienne, women like us... who aren't going to let him get away with whatever he wants to get away with

I think she pretty much nails it in terms of Arie wanting to be that guy who wants an equal partner, but in reality, he wants to be the dominant one in the relationship. I can see that being the cause of the breakup, because I don't think Arie had ever been in a relationship with a Becca type before. Seeing how she didn't let her ex manipulate her, I can see Arie bolting when he realizes he picked someone who won't let him get away with his BS. IMO.

Here’s what messes my thinking . If you’re Becca F1, how can you take it knowing what and how he felt for Lauren. If you’re Lauren , how can you comprehend how and what he felt for Becca like saying, there’s a part of me that wants to propose to her right now. Beks has him figured out more than the rest.
I still think the ily’s were mainly to seduce them for the FRooms. He knows women well and in this case, relaxing them with that statements makes them more susceptible to his advances. Jmo

by Guest Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:29 am

Maddy wrote:
https://twitter.com/KristenGBaldwin

Sister Wives like someone said.

by **Sprite** Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:35 am

Aria wrote:
Stone_Hedge wrote:Kendall

Very interesting that kendall actually presents Lauren as someone who's very sweet and the the one who's super ready to start a marriage, whereas she presents Becca as the one who's a strong opiniated woman. I think that along with the promo shows that many of the theories about Arie picking Becca because Lauren leaves (we see that she's at the FRC) or her not ready for an engagement (she tells him she's ready to spend forever with him) don't really make sense, IMO.

On that topic, very interesting interview with Bekah M.
http://www.etonline.com/the-bachelor-standout-bekah-martinez-says-arie-luyendyk-jr-isnt-ready-for-marriage-exclusive-97180?amp&__twitter_impression=true

I don't think Arie knows what he wants, and I don't think he's serious about being with one person for the rest of his life...I think Arie has a conflict between how he wants to present himself, and what kind of woman he thinks he should be with...He talked about how he hasn't been in love with women who are strong and independent... and then all of the sudden, he's on the show [and] he's like, 'I want a strong, independent woman who I'm an equal with. I don't think there's anything wrong with being like, 'Yeah, I want to be the dominant partner in the relationship.' Maybe that's not the popular thing to say, but I wish he would just be honest about that, because I don't really think that he wanted to be with a woman like me or with a woman like Sienne, women like us... who aren't going to let him get away with whatever he wants to get away with

I think she pretty much nails it in terms of Arie wanting to be that guy who wants an equal partner, but in reality, he wants to be the dominant one in the relationship. I can see that being the cause of the breakup, because I don't think Arie had ever been in a relationship with a Becca type before. Seeing how she didn't let her ex manipulate her, I can see Arie bolting when he realizes he picked someone who won't let him get away with his BS. IMO.

Baby nailed it. I basically said this from the start of this season. He isn't serious about finding someone and has no clue what he wants....other than the grass that is greener on the other side. And he is presenting himself to the audience as he thinks he should be so that he can be the Bachelor.

Numerous women in his past have come out stating that as soon as they start questioning things or confronting him...he dumps them. No way does he want an equal partner because then he wouldn't be able to get away with the sh*t that he does. On the other hand, he gets bored with a doormat so that doesn't make him happy either. Man is a mess. Good luck to anyone who thinks she is the one.

by LeapofFaith Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:52 am

ok after Beccas date i can understand how that rumour that Arie was choosing becca started because he even said he wanted to propose to her then and there....

i just want to say that becca imo would slay as bachette!

i just love her ... ross said something that i believe and probably why i love her - becca has a heart of a saint and doesn't surprise him that he fell for her, that he himself fell for her on there 1st date....actually everything ross said was so sweet..but i think after ross showed up arie changed towards becca...i saw the same look and reaction when he found out krystal called him needle dick...its like he just wants to slowly hurt you back this revenge look.......i saw the change in his heart straight away when becca turned up to apologise to him....imo it was becca until this moment...then the switch is some kind of sick revenge plot..... Suspect

maybe i just need to step away from this whole thing before i loose my mind with conspiracy theory's :crazed

jmo

by Guest Tue Feb 27, 2018 4:02 am

@LeapofFaith And can we talk about the Tent.Molly was in a tent and was switched to . Becca goes in a tent and is switched from .
Cruel Intentions .
I think I’m understanding Lauren but the more I do, the less I want her with Arie. She too deserves so much more. Imo

by Guest Tue Feb 27, 2018 4:19 am

CH Blog

Now, Arie is heading to Cusco, Peru, with two women that he is madly in love with. As you can imagine, things are going to be wild. Next week we are live with a three-hour finale that will change the way you look at The Bachelor forever. I’m serious when I say do not miss it!

http://ew.com/tv/2018/02/26/the-bachelor-chris-harrison-blog-week-9/?utm_campaign=entertainmentweekly&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social

by bluwavz Tue Feb 27, 2018 4:31 am

Uh huh sure. I’m expecting a mediocre finale.

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