Bachelor Canada - Season 3 - Chris Leroux - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

Aunties_Love wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:IMHO while watching the season again I will have to say if Mik winds up being the F1 she will have had one of the strangest F1 edits in Bach history. She was almost to the point of being a stage five clinger. I kept wondering who she reminds me of and I know now. She reminds me of Alex on Ritchie's season.

She even came out of the limo trying to make sure Chris asked to speak to her first, as if that would show the others he liked her better. Then she couldn't believe it when she didn't get the first GD rose. So far she has been the one to pull him away first and was even sneaky enough to make sure Chris kissed her while Catie watched on.( wonder how Chris felt watching that play back) This don't make me think of confidence. It makes me think of someone that's sneaky enough to use whatever underhanded move she has to use to make sure she gets her way..

I didn't care for her watching the season the first time and I'm liking her even less the second time and I'm only on episode 3 lololol I wonder if some of these insecurities was caused by her being overweight on the past? ; (

IMHO...

@LoeDovez I agree, Mikaela seemed to be all in it for the win.  So much of her and their "connection" seems forced.  She instigates about 95% of their contact and like you say, she seems to want to control that as well.

Now with the "love letter" that Lyndsey posted on her IG:  IMO what we read in that letter, a lot of it happened or was talked about on the FD. IMO, she was giving us a glimpse of what she was feeling throughout the season and we as viewers saw that on the  date as well.  NOW, IMO as of the time that she wrote that letter, we as the viewers didn't see her meet the parents so it's true, she hadn't met them yet.  I am wondering if this is maybe an excerpt out of her journal while filming.  I saw quite a few of the girls have journal books.  This would make more sense if this was actually an excerpt from them.  Therefore it is in the present in her mind and NOTHING to do with any type of love after the show.

BlackHalo wrote:I also want to point out that Catie just awkwardly stood there then Chris leaned in to kiss Mik.
What was she supposed to do in that situation? I think mik just successfully did what 18 others failed to do, she established a connection with Chris even if it was a bit desperate at times (promise rings). JMO.

northernviewer wrote:I found Miks “love letter” to be along the same lines as Caties soul mate journal.

LoveDovez wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:IMHO while watching the season again I will have to say if Mik winds up being the F1 she will have had one of the strangest F1 edits in Bach history. She was almost to the point of being a stage five clinger. I kept wondering who she reminds me of and I know now. She reminds me of Alex on Ritchie's season.

She even came out of the limo trying to make sure Chris asked to speak to her first, as if that would show the others he liked her better. Then she couldn't believe it when she didn't get the first GD rose. So far she has been the one to pull him away first and was even sneaky enough to make sure Chris kissed her while Catie watched on.( wonder how Chris felt watching that play back) This don't make me think of confidence. It makes me think of someone that's sneaky enough to use whatever underhanded move she has to use to make sure she gets her way..

I didn't care for her watching the season the first time and I'm liking her even less the second time and I'm only on episode 3 lololol I wonder if some of these insecurities was caused by her being overweight on the past? ; (

IMHO...

@LoeDovez I agree, Mikaela seemed to be all in it for the win.  So much of her and their "connection" seems forced.  She instigates about 95% of their contact and like you say, she seems to want to control that as well.

Now with the "love letter" that Lyndsey posted on her IG:  IMO what we read in that letter, a lot of it happened or was talked about on the FD. IMO, she was giving us a glimpse of what she was feeling throughout the season and we as viewers saw that on the  date as well.  NOW, IMO as of the time that she wrote that letter, we as the viewers didn't see her meet the parents so it's true, she hadn't met them yet.  I am wondering if this is maybe an excerpt out of her journal while filming.  I saw quite a few of the girls have journal books.  This would make more sense if this was actually an excerpt from them.  Therefore it is in the present in her mind and NOTHING to do with any type of love after the show.

Yes, Mik was the aggressor between them. She chased him and chased him hard..So unlike how a F1 acts. IMO. It was like she got out of the limo already in love with Chris and had already planned their wedding and was on to what was they naming the kids.

How much time was left in filming when it showed Chris saying that there was something missing  between he and Mik? That would be a hard pill for me to swallow esp knowing how he readily spoke of having stupid, crazy love for Lindsey. Wasn't it about two weeks top? That may not bother a lot of women, but it sure would be. Heck, he knew Mik the same length of time as he did Lindsey even if Lindsey wasn't as in his face as Mil was about it. When was the first time Mik spoke to him about falling in love with him?  Thanks..

I'm at a loss here as I don't know what the love letter is. Was it on her IG or something? Other than what's posted here I don't see it as I don't follow any of them on social media. Is it posted on the forum? If so, where is it posted at.. Thanks!

lyndseygavin
The first time I saw you, I had to do a double take. It started with that.

You are flawless.

Then we talked. I tried to be funny, witty and charming. You were effortlessly all of those things.

I want to get to know you better… not just who you want to be or who you say you are or even what others might perceive you to be. I want to know you.

I want to know what makes you laugh uncontrollably. I want to hear about the time when you cried so hard you couldn’t breathe.
I want to hear all of your stories. The mundane and the great. I want to hear them all.

What keeps you up at night? What are you truly terrified of?

I want to know about your childhood. What were your parents like. Where did they take you in the Summer? What did they do to create such a remarkable human?

Who was your crush in high school? Were you a nerd? I bet you were, even though you’ll tell me you were cool. No one is cool in high school.

I want to know it all. Every detail from the beginning to now.

The moment everything changed, I’m sure you remember it too, it was a trice of euphoria. When we looked at each other it was no longer just a playful lust. The electricity between your eyes and mine created a physical spark.

From that moment on, I’ve been hooked. I catch myself in rapture with thoughts of you and I.

When you talk I can’t help but smile. The simple sound of your voice makes me giddy.

I’m infatuated by your smile; I want to be the reason for it. And those little dimples that form right before you’re about to laugh… I want to be the reason for that too.

Ah, to be falling.

LoveDovez wrote:

northernviewer wrote:I found Miks “love letter” to be along the same lines as Caties soul mate journal.

As the old saying goes, I'm a day late and a dollar short so will somebody post the links to these love letters or post the love letters so I can read them?  Thanks..lolol

LoveDovez wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I also want to point out that Catie just awkwardly stood there then Chris leaned in to kiss Mik.
What was she supposed to do in that situation? I think mik just successfully did what 18 others failed to do, she established a connection with Chris even if it was a bit desperate at times (promise rings). JMO.

What I was talking about was Mik knew Catie had walked up there and instead of acting like somebody decent and letting Chris know she was standing back there and letting Chris decide if he still wanted to kiss her, she underhanded let him sit there unaware. Young girls may think this is a good way to get a man, but this ole lady don't and it's not a good way to keep one either. Karma will always win out in the end...All, my opinion only....

I question the connection ( all Bach has these ) between Chris and Mik until he tells her it's her he chooses her.. It was a lot one sided IMHO plus he always had to have somebody to take to F2..

BlackHalo wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I also want to point out that Catie just awkwardly stood there then Chris leaned in to kiss Mik.
What was she supposed to do in that situation? I think mik just successfully did what 18 others failed to do, she established a connection with Chris even if it was a bit desperate at times (promise rings). JMO.

What I was talking about was Mik knew Catie had walked up there and instead of acting like somebody decent and letting Chris know she was standing back there and letting Chris decide if he still wanted to kiss her, she underhanded let him sit there unaware. Young girls may think this is a good way to get a man, but this ole lady don't and it's not a good way to keep one either. Karma will always win out in the end...All, my opinion only....

I question the connection ( all Bach has these ) between Chris and Mik until he tells her it's her he chooses her.. It was a lot one sided IMHO plus he always had to have somebody to take to F2..

Weren't Chris and Katie kissing in the photoshoot... right in front of the other girls on the gd? They are there to connect with Chris. Not respect the other girls feelings. JMO.

northernviewer wrote:I found Miks “love letter” to be along the same lines as Caties soul mate journal.

LoveDovez wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:


What I was talking about was Mik knew Catie had walked up there and instead of acting like somebody decent and letting Chris know she was standing back there and letting Chris decide if he still wanted to kiss her, she underhanded let him sit there unaware. Young girls may think this is a good way to get a man, but this ole lady don't and it's not a good way to keep one either. Karma will always win out in the end...All, my opinion only....

I question the connection ( all Bach has these ) between Chris and Mik until he tells her it's her he chooses her.. It was a lot one sided IMHO plus he always had to have somebody to take to F2..

Weren't Chris and Katie kissing in the photoshoot... right in front of the other girls on the gd? They are there to connect with Chris. Not respect the other girls feelings. JMO.

We will agree to disagree since it's plain we don't see the situation the same way. It's all good.. Oh and Catie's kiss you're talking about was at a photo shoot, where they all try to do something so they will receive the group date rose and make great photo's   IMO...