Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

IMO, Ben does not care about SM numbers whatsoever . It's just a funny picture. NBD.

Still treating the situation like a big joke, I see.

JMO.

Did papz take pics of him? Where did he get that photo? It kind of looks intentional with the whiskey and the ice cream and his melancholy face. His IG post is supposed to be funny, I'm assuming. Weird IMO.

Hahaha he needs to go hang out with Jojo and help her flip some houses...take out his anger with a sledge hammer to a house oh god that was a bad joke sorry....but would make funny TV..the bachelorette,the fiance and the ex ex bach flip out...jj

Corny Ben strikes again

mamahamme wrote:Ok I just saw the picture on Ben's Instagram "oh poor me", ,.  Imo This is the first picture of him looking a little sad but it also looks staged.  Imo. I'm sure he is very aware of his numbers going down so now he has to do damage control. Imo. He's one tricky guy not the one everyone fell in love with on the show.  Jmo. I'm thinking he realizes he made big mistakes
this past week with all the interviews. I'm thinking Lauren was probably asked to give interviews but I bet she turned them down. Jmo. If so that alone shows who the more mature one was in this relationship. But I already figured that one out. Jmo

IMO, Lauren wasn't asked for interviews or she didn't do them because Ben dumped her. IMO, she wouldn't be afraid to talk if she was the one who ended it

^^ Lauren may not have been the lead, but IMO I am sure she must have been asked for the interview or her take on the breakup. IMO, if she was interested in talking about her breakup left and right, she sure has many mediums as well, she hasn't DONT that yet. She is definitely being private about it and hasn't talked poop unlike Ben .JMO

Didn't she talk briefly to People. They had her and Amanda and the "modeling" photos. Otherwise, she has been quiet. JMO.

Seeing as Ben was the one faking and pretending that they were okay right up until the breakup, while Lauren was the one admitting that it wasn't easy and was practically avoiding him in those last few months, I'm almost positive that she was the one who dumped him, not the other way around. IMO he would've been fine to continue faking for as long as possible.

And I'm sure there have been plenty of interview offers for her, since she was one half of Bachelor Nation's 'golden couple'. The fact that she's only done one interview, which was a joint interview with Amanda that focused more on their modelling than on her breakup, speaks volumes. I've never been Lauren's number 1 fan but she's handled this breakup with far more grace and maturity than Ben has. JMO.

I think Lauren wanted to break up with him for months and he didn't want to. Then maybe recently he realized he doesn't love her as much as he used to and accepted the relationship ending. And maybe she's hurt by that because it was either he did what she wanted or she was going to leave. But he didn't want to be with her anymore. Just a theory I'm throwing out there....all JMO.

I might get annoyed with how Lauren acts sometimes because it's just not my cup of tea, but I always thought she was in the relationship, wanted it to work, and really got hurt with how this all came to be.

When it comes to Ben, and I'm not saying he didn't care about her or love her, but man, looking back to his ATFR, and literally seeing him turn away as his new fiancé was about to kiss him on live television knowing there are cameras watching their every move just screams azz to me. I don't think he was ever in this relationship in terms of wanting it to eventually lead to a marriage, but all of this is just my opinion.