Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

He dated Tenley? Do tell.

I don't know if "dated" is really the correct term. They seemed to have a mutual attraction and I believe hung out a bit. She seemed sad when he took the Bachelor gig but it worked out for her because she has now been with her boyfriend for over a year and all signs seem to point towards a proposal IMO.

Mommyof2 wrote:He dated Tenley?  Do tell.  

They were hanging out prior to him being offered the show. She was getting her worship on and seemed very sad when he got the gig. She was his right fit imo and he made a mistake, one of many but this was the first imo.

Alanna wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:He dated Tenley?  Do tell.  

They were hanging out prior to him being offered the show. She was getting her worship on and seemed very sad when he got the gig. She was his right fit imo and he made a mistake, one of many but this was the first imo.

Tenley is older though and probably wants marriage and babies yesterday. Ben doesn't anytime soon IMO. What he wants/needs is a girlfriend.

Imo right now no one would be a good fit for Ben, for serious, living in situation. He needs to date a bit, and grow up, IMO.

@sweeti810 The only capacity I can see Lauren going back to the airline business is as a spokesperson type travelogue marketer. I can not possibly see her operating in any fashion as a flight attendant and being engaged in the same duties where time and safety are of an essence.
I can actually see if she puts her mind to it, her operating quite well at doing some type of marketing for the airlines. If she was motivated that is.

Interesting, that Ben and AshleyI are starting a podcast together. I did not see that one coming.

^ Same. I really like Ben's insight on the franchise, but I can't take Ashley I talking in any capacity...

Like we need another podcast. I really can't see Ben being that engaging and Ashley is too OTT.

Maybe Ben will start dating Ashley I!

Doesn't Ashley already have a podcast though?? She's starting another one and with Ben of all people? I can't imagine listening to the two of them together for more than a minute.

I don't care if he is not ready about marriage and able to have a second thoughts while doing their reality show. I just hate that the public seems to make him such a perfect ben here and there during his time on this franchise . He should just stop making Lauren believed that wedding still happening after he cancelled it and stop feeding the public everything is good after the wedding being cancelled . Although I will say these two are just not on the same page after all . She lives with single life while engaged while him not interested the party life side . Seeing right now , I will say better they end up things now . IMO , they seem much happier not being together . Jmo