Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

We'll see if she does bip . I mean come on! Producers of this crazy show has a way to get these formers to join bip . Heck they also recycle their leads . I do think if Lauren will do bip , she will enjoy it! Hey, she loves this kind of stuff like beaches , Mexico , having fun, vacation, just saying . Imo of course .

I don't think she will do BIP. It's too soon. Don't they start filming pretty soon?

But what better way to get over a break up and move on that to party it up and drink your cares away in Mexico.  IMO, it's something she likes to do anyway, why not get paid for it.  

Plus, am I the only one that thinks she wouldn't mind sticking it to Ben a little moving on and finding someone quickly within the franchise that will do everything with her that she nuts and that he wouldn't?  And I basically think the same about him.  But maybe it's just me and getting used to them all handling break ups like Josh does.

JMOAA

IMO I don't think her fam would want her to do it. And if Duh isn't going then I doubt it

bluwavz wrote:

mindless wrote:What makes Ben such a catch? Sure, he seems like a nice guy (hopefully not a "nice guy") and his interest in charity work is commendable, but I'm not sure he's that great at being a boyfriend, let alone a fiancé. I'm thinking there's a reason he feels unlovable. Hopefully he'll mature at some point, probably in his 30's, but he'll still be PC (aka boring). JMO.

Yeah I agree. I do think he is for the most part a nice likable guy but I also think he's probably exhausting to be in a relationship with.

He's an introvert and strikes me as the type of person who overthinks everything and doesn't really like to be pushed out of his comfort zone. So I can definitely see how it could be exhausting. The unlovable thing strikes me as fear and insecurity, but there's also something to it that you have to be willing to give and compromise to make a relationship work, and I get the sense that's Ben's failing. Not that I necessarily think he's trying to be selfish on purpose of anything like that -- it's just his personality type. I do think he'll get out of his own way eventually, but I can still see a "Ben 2.0" season happening before that does (which will end up exactly the way "Brad 2.0" did).

Lauren has her own immaturity and issues, but those are obvious. That said, she'll likely get out of her own way eventually as well.

mindless wrote:What makes Ben such a catch? Sure, he seems like a nice guy (hopefully not a "nice guy") and his interest in charity work is commendable, but I'm not sure he's that great at being a boyfriend, let alone a fiancé. I'm thinking there's a reason he feels unlovable. Hopefully he'll mature at some point, probably in his 30's, but he'll still be PC (aka boring). JMO.

He drives people (who love him) nuts with his constant need for attention and his immature ways so they stop loving him IMO. #unlovable

JMSnarkyO

Mama Higgins is in town
https://instagram.com/p/BUH7z9ql9UI/

I would love it if she went on, as well as Josh, to see their interaction.

I wonder why Ben's ex Shaelin Adams instagram is back to private setting??

simon1781 wrote:I wonder why Ben's ex Shaelin Adams instagram is back to private setting??

It was mentioned here, so I bet she got a bit of unwanted attention. Imo. It was also said on here, when it was still public, that she never followed Lauren on ig, but she followed Lauren's ex. THAT, IMO, is weird, and a bit creepy. Jmo.

Lauren needs a guy based in LA. And I don't think she'll be going to BIP. She, IMO loves the bts lifestyle the Bach gigs give, but I don't think she likes being on camera that much. Ben Imo LOVES being on camera. He'll do something on this show again, IMO. But as for a woman, I don't think he's looking in the right places. He had a chance with Tenley, but passed her for the lead role. If he doesn't get back with his ex, he might just do a Ben 2.0. Jmo

Of course Mama Higgins is there to coddle her boy.

Well they look happy! I'd rather her visit him than go on SM and defend him/stalk non fans.