Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

If the 'love of my life' dumped me, because I wasn't 'good enough' for him, I wouldn't give rats azz how disrespectful toward him my actions were, after he broke up with me. Jmo.

Here's a scenario.. If Ben were the one who jetted off to vegas and was getting drunk, dancing next to models, would people be saying yeah good for Ben..or would they be like this guys a f***boy?

ReneeM wrote:

Diana wrote:I must be the only one but I unapologetically love Lauren and honestly don't like Ben

I'm sure Lauren will get the blame but Ben imo was the selfish one JMO

Not at all. I like Lauren and think Ben sucks and has been a horrible partner.

Ben lost me with his moody, crabby disposition (ALWAYS buried in his phone) in literally every snap he "allowed" Lauren to take of him. I think he sounds like a difficult person to live and be with. Just really moody, very indecisive.

hannah.e. wrote:Here's a scenario.. If Ben were the one who jetted off to vegas and was getting drunk, dancing next to models, would people be saying yeah good for Ben..or would they be like this guys a f***boy?

Imo Actually they would. He gets away with everything. Him pushing Lauren to do HEA, and then pulling out of the wedding on that very show got most fans to hate on Lauren more.

Most of us here are thinking, that they've broken up, but Lauren still has to tip toe around Ben's feelings, just to not disrespect him. Jmo

Cocoasneeze wrote:Im throwing it out there, if Ben and Lauren break up, he'll get back together with his ex within a year. Jmo. Imo there's a weird thing going on, when I read this all from here. Jmo.

Omg... I totally kinda feel the same way and have for a while. She still likes most everything he posts minus the few times he posts about Lauren. She said herself in some interview when he was announced she'd consider taking him back. I think she's the one that got away for him.

From what I know about his ex and the way she dumped him, I certainly wouldn't give her the time of day. If he goes back to her, then IMHO he's totally messed up.

sosleepy wrote:

Cocoasneeze wrote:Im throwing it out there, if Ben and Lauren break up, he'll get back together with his ex within a year. Jmo. Imo there's a weird thing going on, when I read this all from here. Jmo.

Omg... I totally kinda feel the same way and have for a while. She still likes most everything he posts minus the few times he posts about Lauren. She said herself in some interview when he was announced she'd consider taking him back. I think she's the one that got away for him.

If she follows Lauren's ex, IMO it's very shady. But doesn't follow Lauren. Imo very strange from an ex if she's over him. Jmo

Why the heck was she even giving interviews about him?

GuardianAngel wrote:From what I know about his ex and the way she dumped him, I certainly wouldn't give her the time of day. If he goes back to her, then IMHO he's totally messed up.

Interesting, care to share anything?

^ from what I read she moved to Austin to follow her career. Ben offered to move with her and she essentially said no because she didn't want to be tied down? Correct me if I'm wrong. Ty!

From what I remember that was pretty much it. Nothing too overly complicated.

Okay but Ben's ex all of sudden being public with her IG raises eyebrows too No? Maybe she knows....

It's not my business it's Lauren's life but she really does party way too much. Almost every month she's off somewhere to drink and party

I thought that diplo snapchat was pretty tasteless imo. If they are split up, then cut ties and move on. They dont have to make an announcement or anything, but lauren could remove her ring, move out and live her life. But dont go booty dance at a club flashing your ring eberywhere imo. At this point i think they are so different from each other that a breakup is probably best thing for them. I think their biggest issue has just been incompatibility. They dont share similar interests and are probably making each other very miserable trying to make a relationship work that just isn't meant to be imo.