JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion - #3

@Ash2214 My post was not directed at you at all. It has been indicated several times over the last day, that the trolls are being truly horrible. My point is, it's no different for them as it is for some of the other couples or former contestants.

There is no way to stop them IMHO. I read a post yesterday that asked the IG username be deleted from the post so the IG story didn't get out there. I had to leave and by the time I got back the post was buried and I didn't deal with it, otherwise, I would have responded, that we are all entitled to post as we see fit. I apologize if you think it was directed at you personally, it wasn't.

@GuardianAngel no worries! I just didn't want you or anyone else to think I wasn't okay with sharing different opinions.

We (the general public) don't even know what caused the fight and/or the flirting in the first place. Nor do we (again the general public) know where they both were earlier in the day/or all day yesterday. Everything that is being said is just speculation and guessing. The only things that can be deemed as facts: Jordan was talking to some girl at a bar, JoJo/Jordan refollowed each other on IG. That's it IMO.

Were people going after him crazy? He turned off all of his comments

@A.j it was bad. It's their crazy stalker from another country or it's the psycho Ben and Lauren fan. He would delete the comments, and they would come back for more. The comments were a wide range.

Some commented were calling him a waste of human space, some comments were saying JoJo was going to buy a plane ticket to Denver to hop into Ben's bed, some comments were about how another man will appreciate JoJo's body, etc. and those are just the comments I've seen from checking every few hours since yesterday.The comments have also made their way to his brother Luke and Airelle as well as his best friend Brandon.

^ What Ash said.

But he only turned off the comments on three pics. The whole top row.

The comments were pretty bad. Not happening for the first time everyone gets bashed here and there. But some of them were real disgusting tbh. Yes he made a mistake and hopefully regrets it but to see comments like "Robby did a much better job in the fantasy suite" and stuff like that hmm not exactly what he wants to hear so good for him for tuning the comments off.

Well maybe Jordan should be careful next time when he is in a public bar about his actions . Yeah I don't think there was something between him and that girl at the bar but still the way the video taken you can't expect everyone to say the same opinions . Especially baddy's past. Of course negativity is coming out. I don't know how these two relationship is. I do think the unfollow /refollow is just too much and childish . Hopefully jojo can keep trusting him since that was an issue since then . Jmo.

He actually wasn't deleting the comments directed to him as quickly. The second comments started popping up JoJo being with Ben or Robby and that JoJo's body was a temple and she'll find another man who will respect her body, yeah, that struck a chord with him it appears.

I second what Ash said. I think some comments were even left overnight and I wondered how they were still there. And some were in CAPS too - drawing even further attention. I can't imagine being in his shoes. But he's doing his best to clean up a messy situation and to protect his relationship, IMO.

I personally, do not think Jordan did anything objectionable in that video. However, I do understand how JoJo might feel, especially if I had any kind of trust issue. It would, then rub me in a sensitive place. Hopefully, they will get some kind of counseling which I always think is a good thing for any couple. She can learn how to deal with her sensitivity and he can learn to deal with being more sensitive to it.
I think counseling is great for anyone.

Kashathediva wrote:I personally, do not think Jordan did anything objectionable in that video. However, I do understand how JoJo might feel, especially if I had any kind of trust issue. It would, then rub me in a sensitive place. Hopefully, they will get some kind of counseling which I always think is a good thing for any couple. She can learn how to deal with her sensitivity and he can learn to deal with being more sensitive to it.  
I think counseling is great for anyone.

I agree. I don't think it was the video necessarily but probably a fight that stirred up all her insecurities at once and then her worst fears got confirmed and she catastrophized what she saw: if things become rocky, he runs to cheat on me. IA they can benefit from counseling.