JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion - #3

Catherine and Sean did it before marriage and they appear to be happy. No shame in it.

I think everyone has made good points on this thread. As a fan, I hope she has her HEA with no ?mark at the end.
I will add that last I saw they were flipping a house together, and while I'm sure it comes from a good place, maybe the stress is a bit much for a relationship. If that's her thing, she maybe shouldn't expect him to work his butt off w/o some "work hard, play hard" consequences. Just my opinion, but I know from experience my husband expects "rewards" for extra work. If that's a night out with his friends so be it.

It's just my opinion, but I think all signs point to them getting into some sort of disagreement Sunday, he went out with the guys and she stayed back, he got drunk and was being flirty. All of the people that witnessed him at the bar said he was drunk and being flirty while talking to people with his friends, but that's it.

It's up to them and however they want to handle it. JMO

Jordan can only learn from this. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb Joelle. I do wish them well though.

Cila51290 wrote:Jordan can only learn from this. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb Joelle. I do wish them well though.

I just do not understand what Jordan needs to learn from this. I have no clue what or if they had a fight he went out with his guy friends and got drunk and put his hand on the back of some lady. I guess I am not the jealous type so it is hard for me to understand. My husband frequently visits a bar after work with his friends and girls hit on him all the time. It does not matter to me because I trust him and yes he was a big player before we met. I would worry more about Jo and her insecurities if she is not able to let him go out and have fun with his friends then he will get tired of it. JMO

whit90 wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:Jordan can only learn from this. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb Joelle. I do wish them well though.

I just do not understand what Jordan needs to learn from this. I have no clue what or if they had a fight he went out with his guy friends and got drunk and put his hand on the back of some lady. I guess I am not the jealous type so it is hard for me to understand. My husband frequently visits a bar after work with his friends and girls hit on him all the time. It does not matter to me because I trust him and yes he was a big player before we met. I would worry more about Jo and her insecurities if she is not able to let him go out and have fun with his friends then he will get tired of it. JMO

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I don't have a problem with my husband going out with his friends having fun. I'm not crazy about him getting drunk and flirting and letting other women touch him and him touching them.

whit90 wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:Jordan can only learn from this. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb Joelle. I do wish them well though.

I just do not understand what Jordan needs to learn from this. I have no clue what or if they had a fight he went out with his guy friends and got drunk and put his hand on the back of some lady. I guess I am not the jealous type so it is hard for me to understand. My husband frequently visits a bar after work with his friends and girls hit on him all the time. It does not matter to me because I trust him and yes he was a big player before we met. I would worry more about Jo and her insecurities if she is not able to let him go out and have fun with his friends then he will get tired of it. JMO

First this made me laugh and second I *think* (emphasis mine) that the issue wasn't the hand on some lady but how the whole thing was handled- they were probably arguing, and then he ditched her for a day, afternoon and night to go get wasted with buddies and staying out til 3am and then came hand on lady . I'd be pissed too. I wouldn't act like I was 12 and block him for the whole freaking world to see and enjoy though but I'd be livid as well.

This reminds me of me somewhat. I would be upset with my husband but he is carrying on as if nothing happened and he's going about things like normal. Meanwhile I'm boiling up and don't know why he isn't showing as much concern as I am, . They are young, they'd get over it.

What I think is this: why did Jordan feel the need to go out and party and do what looks like is 'flirting' but could honestly be harmless? Is he getting the attention he needs from Jojo? Was it because of their fight prior? Was it because their relationship didn't seem like it was going to make it? Did Jojo do something behind his back? Is he tired of putting in all this effort for not that much in return? Or was it just that - HARMLESS. We will never know, but I do hope he finds out why he felt the need to party and do what he did if he knew it would upset Jojo. Either way, I personally am not a jealous person and a touchy person even having a BF. I don't emotionally cheat or physically cheat, I'm a bit of a flirt personally but I still love my BF at the end of the day and wouldn't even think of cheating on him. I personally think he likes attention & maybe not getting it from her. He seems like the one who puts in all the effort IMO

@Boshem I am guessing (just my own speculation) that she was being a handful because she wasn't getting enough attention already since he was with his friends and instead of catering to her like she wanted, he said screw it and partied it up. So both probs handled it horribly but I don't think/know if it's indicative of larger issues that are irreparable or if this was just a stupid fight that was going to be resolved just fine in private before Jo decided to genius-ly let everyone know via her sm.

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whit90 wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:Jordan can only learn from this. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb Joelle. I do wish them well though.

I just do not understand what Jordan needs to learn from this. I have no clue what or if they had a fight he went out with his guy friends and got drunk and put his hand on the back of some lady. I guess I am not the jealous type so it is hard for me to understand. My husband frequently visits a bar after work with his friends and girls hit on him all the time. It does not matter to me because I trust him and yes he was a big player before we met. I would worry more about Jo and her insecurities if she is not able to let him go out and have fun with his friends then he will get tired of it. JMO

First this made me laugh and second I *think* (emphasis mine) that the issue wasn't the hand on some lady but how the whole thing was handled- they were probably arguing, and then he ditched her for a day, afternoon and night to go get wasted with buddies and staying out til 3am and then came hand on lady . I'd be pissed too. I wouldn't act like I was 12 and block him for the whole freaking world to see and enjoy though but I'd be livid as well.

I am glad I gave you a good laugh and I stated this was my opinion. We have no clue what went on that day you are just making assumptions. If you have a strong relationship then him going out with his friends and getting drunk even if there was a fight should not be a issue in my opinion. Sorry but the whole freakin world did not see this. JMO