JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion - #3

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That was Saturday night when they were all having fun together before whatever happened on Sunday. I actually think his caption might be pointing at how silly they acted.. laughing uncontrollably at themselves. Crap happens. Couples get into fights and act inappropriately at times. JoJo shouldn't have blocked him if that's what happened. It made it public and made matters worse.

Ultimately it's these two in the relationship. They've built a pretty good one from what I've seen, but as always, they need continuous work.. It would be a waste to throw it away over something like this. Hopefully they continue working on themselves. It's their first red flag for me in this whole year. We'll keep an eye out for sure. All JMO

I also think that Jordan's latest post is cryptic i.e. references to "mess" then "laugh". So as mentioned above, at least from Jordan's perspective (if I'm not reading too much into this post) is that whatever happened was messy but it was also silly since they can laugh at it now. Ah well, you live and you learn. This is by no means their first fight. It's the first that we've seen go public and hopefully it's the last. Like someone needs to write an etiquette book on how to handle relationships on SM - do's and dont's.

stuckinsc wrote:@sosleepy, if Ben would move to Dallas. But seriously, Ben is not nearly as hot as Jordan. Ben got those dad abs after his season, Jordan has the six pack. Bye bye Ben, Jordan looks better in the swimsuit photos.

Just kidding, I hope they work out. But this is as bad a look for JoJo as for
Jordan to me. JMO.

I'm not gonna lie, if this were last year I'd say for sure Jordan because he had the six pack abs, was tan and hot af. But as of today he has the total dad bod and more times than not he's looking so greasy. Just my opinion and observations.

I hope JoJo thinks twice before making their personal struggles so public again. Jordan will take a load of SM crap because JoJo made the fight public and that is a lot of added pressure on their relationship. I am not excusing Jordan's behavior and I can understand JoJo being upset...but she should have handled her feelings with Jordan directly and privately IMO. They can fill in the cracks caused by this drama but ultimately unless they sort out their trust issues they are not going to last IMO.
JMO

That's provided that the fight was about the posted video in the first place though.

Whatever the fight was about, Jojo was simply stupid making it public. I'm also not so sure it was accidental, tbh. As in, I think she's well aware that the fans follow their every move, and obviously were going to notice her not following Jordan. In hindsight, she most likely realised it was stupid and regretted it, but if they had a fight, he ignored her, and spent the day with other people, in the hight of her melt down, she may have thought, that a few trolls on his case will teach him. Jmo, and I might be completely wrong.

Well based on baddy's past . Hopefully that is the only time he acted when he is or was with his friends . I mean let's face it there is no follow/refollow in the first place if he was being careful. I mean sure that video just nothing between him and that woman but him being a public figure can be taken videos about him by random people . Good thing he knows how to make up with his gal and seems he is doing it prior to his latest post and to stop the public commenting about his actions this weekend . Jmo

I am happy if they are, but seriously, if Jordan can't spend a day with his old coach and then hang out with the guys, that sucks. Yeah, he got drunk and flirted, but those things are not cheating. JoJo needs to stop making Jordan pay for his past or she will eventually push him to repeat it. I said it before, he will eventually either live up or down to her expectations whatever they may be. JMO.

Cocoasneeze wrote:Whatever the fight was about, Jojo was simply stupid making it public. I'm also not so sure it was accidental, tbh. As in, I think she's well aware that the fans follow their every move, and obviously were going to notice her not following Jordan. In hindsight, she most likely realised it was stupid and regretted it, but if they had a fight, he ignored her, and spent the day with other people, in the hight of her melt down, she may have thought, that a few trolls on his case will teach him. Jmo, and I might be completely wrong.

I do think it was accidental because even though she still seems mad at him, she refollowed him immediately in the middle of the night. I don't think she knew blocking would make it public. Stupid and childish and immature all the way around though imo. Whatever they fought about was probably very petty (Jo and attention I'm guessing) and then he handled it in the worst possible way and really triggered her (abandonment and flirting with others). Idiots

We don't know what the fight was about. It's all speculation. Him being flirty at the bar with his buddies standing next to him might have just been the cherry on top. It's pretty clear to me something happened before that at some point Sunday morning or afternoon and we don't know what that was. JMO

A.j wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:@sosleepy, if Ben would move to Dallas. But seriously, Ben is not nearly as hot as Jordan. Ben got those dad abs after his season, Jordan has the six pack. Bye bye Ben, Jordan looks better in the swimsuit photos.

Just kidding, I hope they work out. But this is as bad a look for JoJo as for
Jordan to me. JMO.

I'm not gonna lie, if this were last year I'd say for sure Jordan because he had the six pack abs, was tan and hot af. But as of today he has the total dad bod and more times than not he's looking so greasy. Just my opinion and observations.

Jordan looked pretty good last week at Universal. Ben on the other hand looks pasty and like "sloppy seconds". JMO.

stuckinsc wrote:

A.j wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:@sosleepy, if Ben would move to Dallas. But seriously, Ben is not nearly as hot as Jordan. Ben got those dad abs after his season, Jordan has the six pack. Bye bye Ben, Jordan looks better in the swimsuit photos.

Just kidding, I hope they work out. But this is as bad a look for JoJo as for
Jordan to me. JMO.

I'm not gonna lie, if this were last year I'd say for sure Jordan because he had the six pack abs, was tan and hot af. But as of today he has the total dad bod and more times than not he's looking so greasy. Just my opinion and observations.

Jordan looked pretty good last week at Universal. Ben on the other hand looks pasty and like "sloppy seconds". JMO.

Yeah.. Jordan might not be as ripped as he was a year ago, but the guy appears to still be in good shape and still has abs and muscular arms. That's not a dad bod. Ben might not be my cup of tea, but I wouldn't even necessarily say he has a dad bod - borderline, maybe but that's for another thread. JMO

Jordan reached out to a former NFL player about training at his gym in Dallas on Twitter the other day, so it looks like he's going to get back into it.