Rachel Lindsay - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2
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Re: Rachel Lindsay - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2
I love Rachel. She seems awesome. Educated, articulate, magnetic personality. And it's about damn time this show casts someone of color in the lead role. Yay diversity!
But....
I can't get past my opinion that I think she was the ring leader, the Queen Bee, in a house full of catty biotches. I would be waaaaaaay more excited for her if it weren't for this little nagging feeling. It kinda reminds me of the last lawyer we had in the lead role.
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That is just me though I like inclusive people (that means everyone is welcome into the club). You are not alone, I would like to support someone who is kind to all and not just kind to those she likes (which is everyone except for one.)
Need to do something productive and stop hanging out in this forum (after Nick's season)
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But you know ringleader or whatever. ***IMO***
The words and actions of other girls, even the ones she's close with, are their own. I'm a big sister, I don't police my younger siblings actions, I'll give them my thoughts on things, try to give them advice, and then be there for them whether they choose to take it or not. All JMO
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reason wrote:[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] you are not here alone. I dont know all the circmstances and I am not blaming anyone about what happen, we all have different spirit and we all dont get along. Personalites are gonna clash within a house full of women. I let it go and looking forward to her season.
The thing is she isn't letting it go...and neither is her posse. That is what I don't understand. It was months ago. You are the Bette. Be happy. Let bygones be bygones. You don't have to be friends or even ever see each other again, but no need to go blabbering about not liking someone. You are supposedly a very smart lawyer. You know how to use words to their best effect. If you have nothing nice to say, just zip it.
I will be interested in seeing how she handles it when criticism starts coming her way....and I have no doubt it will. Buckle up!
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GuardianAngel wrote:It doesn't matter to me. You can be the most wonderful person on earth, but when you bad mouth someone on social media, yes I'm going to have a nagging feeling, among other reasons. I don't care if it was Vanessa CH MF Brittany Jorge or anyone else. That tells me that maybe you aren't what everyone thinks you are IMHO.
It means she isn't perfect IMO (I never thought she was), not some she devil who's rallied all the girls on her side for her ulterior motive of a [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] and [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] campaign IMO.
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She mentioned somewhere in an article/interview that was discussed here that she thought she was going to "win". Nobody else was preventing that but Vanessa, and shockingly...not...that is the person she is still having issues with. Her own words...don't like her. Nothing wrong with feeling like that, but totally unnecessary to say...particularly in those circumstances where she didn't have to answer that question.
As I wrote previously, I will be interested to see how she will handle the criticism that will come her way.
You could be the juiciest, most ripe peach, but there is still going to be someone who doesn't like peaches.
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SourceIn all cliques there exists one primary person, the alpha. This person is usually viewed as charismatic, attractive, and powerful. He or she has the power to strengthen or break up friendships. People usually follow this person’s lead because they feel a connection to them and in essence desire to be like them. They can be just as powerful in both positive and negative ways.
All JMO.
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CH himself said that she can "impose her will" on anybody -- a quality that works for a lawyer sure, but I find unappealing in any relationship (friendship or romantic relationship) that should have a partnership and someone who doesn't see themselves as all that and doesn't see others as lucky for THEM to have her in their life. Let them say that, not her say that about herself. IMO anyone that says that about themselves especially on a platform like this it's just straight up ego and very immature.
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ReneeM wrote:GuardianAngel wrote:It doesn't matter to me. You can be the most wonderful person on earth, but when you bad mouth someone on social media, yes I'm going to have a nagging feeling, among other reasons. I don't care if it was Vanessa CH MF Brittany Jorge or anyone else. That tells me that maybe you aren't what everyone thinks you are IMHO.
It means she isn't perfect IMO (I never thought she was), not some she devil who's rallied all the girls on her side for her ulterior motive of a [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] and [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] campaign IMO.
I don't think anyone has said she is a devil who rallied all the girls. What they do is on them, but many of them are very young and clearly immature and can be influenced, particularly by someone they look up to.
We are just having a discussion like we do every season about our observations of the people on this show. Some like one person, some like another, while some are neutral. I am generally neutral and I like to question edits. I particularly like to see how the edit lines up with what I see of the person off the show. If I see a discrepancy, I question it and it makes me go . Doesn't mean that I think the person is a horrible human being, just that I see things that give me pause and will be things I will look out for in the future. This is just one of those things. It is what keeps me from being bored silly by this stupid show that gives me a Corinne and her dumb antics.
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Sprite wrote:[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] My only reply to your post is that I don't think she was threatened by any of the other women so she could be nice and magnanimous.
She mentioned somewhere in an article/interview that was discussed here that she thought she was going to "win". Nobody else was preventing that but Vanessa, and shockingly...not...that is the person she is still having issues with. Her own words...don't like her. Nothing wrong with feeling like that, but totally unnecessary to say...particularly in those circumstances where she didn't have to answer that question.
As I wrote previously, I will be interested to see how she will handle the criticism that will come her way.
If it's all about competition, Raven made it to F2 ahead of her & yet Raven was and still is one of her closest friends. There wasn't an article about her saying she thought she was going to win, Christen said it on after buzz and that could have been paraphrasing, or using it the same way a lot of people call the show a competition for sometimes lack of a better word. In her glamour interview [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] there were actually two sections that stood out to me that it wasn't just a 'competition' for her IMO.
Glamour: Will we see your dad on The Bachelorette? We are dying to meet Mr. Lindsay.
Rachel: [Laughs] Did you know Nick met my dad? He met my dad off camera.
Glamour: Really?!
Rachel: Yeah, which is what I loved because it was a real-life experience. It wasn’t, "Hey, we’re doing this for TV," it was, "Hey, I really want to talk to you about a future with your daughter." So, yeah, Nick met my dad off-camera.
Glamour: Looking back, are you glad Nick wasn’t end game for you?
Rachel: No, [because] in the moment if Nick had gotten down on one knee and put a ring on my finger, I would have said yes. I wanted it,
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