Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

IDC if there was shade throwing or not, Amanda's caption was weak. If she was throwing shade, that's a lame way to do it, and if she's just trying to be cute, it was still lame JMO

ReneeM wrote:IDC if there was shade throwing or not, Amanda's caption was weak. If she was throwing shade, that's a lame way to do it, and if she's just trying to be cute, it was still lame JMO

That's what I'm tryin to say! She sucks at it! IMO.

IMO Amanda's comment would only make sense if the two of them have decided to give up on men and be together instead.

coolangel wrote:IMO Amanda's comment would only make sense if the two of them have decided to give up on men and be together instead.

Essentially yes. But I think it was moreso "You have me bestie! I'm your Ben!" Her caption just makes no sense, but she wanted to mention Ben and Lauren.. For a reason IMO.

So is Ben still in Honduras working to bring clean water and electricity to impoverished people?

ReneeM wrote:IDC if there was shade throwing or not, Amanda's caption was weak. If she was throwing shade, that's a lame way to do it, and if she's just trying to be cute, it was still lame JMO

Both Lauren and Amanda are lame.

I thought Lauren's hashtags were directed at those who were asking for pics of her & Ben all the time, especially the #picoritdidnthappen.

@albean99 maybe she meant it to have a double meaning, but IMO it has more to do with the paps taking pics of BOR and Duhhh cuddling and kissing the other night than about Ben and herself.  Especially since she used the pizza slice and all.  

JMO

Seabear wrote:I think Lauren's caption was throwing shade at Josh.

I think Amanda's caption was validating both she and Ben love Lauren.

I am still in the wait and see mode with Ben and Lauren.    

All JMO

I'm right there with you!!!

Seabear wrote:I think Lauren's caption was throwing shade at Josh.

I think Amanda's caption was validating both she and Ben love Lauren.

I am still in the wait and see mode with Ben and Lauren.    

All JMO

I'm moving farther and farther past wait and see mode. Where there is smoke, there is fire. 

Cancelling the wedding was such a huge, giant red flag. If they got that far and Ben felt the need to pull back, that's something major to recover from and is indicative of much bigger issues than the "I want our guests to have Ben and Lauren stories" cover.

Also, if they are having this much trouble only a little over a year in, it's probably not worth the trouble. Relationships take work. They need care and attention. But they shouldn't be hard. It should feel easier than that. If you are ten+ years in, with a family and are having a very difficult time and need to try and work hard - by all means! But they are 15 months in with nothing substantial tying them together. Why waste your youth on a relationship that requires so much force and effort ... just to spend 10 days a month together, essentially? Time to be brave and move on. The sooner they do, the sooner they may both get their real HEA.

Birds of a feather flock together.

I gave Lauren the benefit of the doubt with her being BFF with DUHH but I honestly now think Lauren is pretty vapid & vain just like DUHH, the twins, and Lace. Mehhh

I never thought Ben she have pick her, that is why I only watch the first 3 episode and quit.