Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

^ Yes and it's just like their relationship right now IMO. Hopefully it all works out for the both of them either way.

Agreed.

Yesterday Ben retweeted about having to watch a UCLA-Oregon game last night, so it's possible he stayed home/hung out with the guys while the girls were drinking wine and dancing silly.

Back in the Fall. Ben had mentioned he stayed home to watch a game while Lauren went to church on a Sunday night. They've obviously spent a lot of time doing their own things the past few weeks and we've speculated to death what that implies, but I get the impression at this point that they probably don't have a panic attack if the other chooses a different activity for the night. Choosing to do only what your partner is doing isn't healthy. As a fan, I want BenLo to be hanging out together but I see it as very normal to hang with those girls when she missed out on last weekend's opportunity to celebrate one of the girls bday. She should be hanging with Ben but not declining every invite elsewhere because of him, IMO.

I absolutely agree that each of them should do their own thing. I do think given what their past couple of months has been like for them, that perhaps they should focus more on being together, but that's their thing and their choice too. Maybe that's what they plan on doing within the next couple of months. Time will tell.

I'm not surprised that people noted, however, that they were together during the day while they were filming something, and then IMO she went out without Ben (or at least no proof of it from what I've seen on SM) to see friends. Again, that's their thing. Whatever works for them.

The guy who was visible on both IG and Snap of Lauren was "allystrum's" boyfriend or husband (not sure but they're a couple)

Luckily Ben and Lauren aren't asking for our advice. IMO. I'm going to trust them to make their own choices for their own relationship. Whatever they choose...I wish them the best.
JMO

No, thankfully they're not asking for our advice since we don't know them, but thankfully, we're allowed to discuss their situation. 

Whatever works for them.

I still think it sounds exactly like Ben in the snap, so I'm assuming he was there. JMO.

Play nice folks.

I must be straight outta Black Mirror because I legit could not care less what in the world happens to their relationship slash fake engagement (IMO) as long as I'm entertained by their high school drama  Hope they drag this breakup out as long as possible personally.

Seabear wrote:Luckily Ben and Lauren aren't asking for our advice. IMO. I'm going to trust them to make their own choices for their own relationship. Whatever they choose...I wish them the best.
JMO

Can't stress this enough

The "Scared to be lonely" song, Lauren's fave song at the moment. A song which some of us assume is the representation of B&L's current status. IMO, that's putting too much writing into it. The song is newly released and it's on top music charts. Per my observation, Lauren is trendy and enjoy listening to new songs. Maybe she just really like that song and that's the only reason why she's singing it. JMHO

Just watched a video for Lauren's b-day from Scarlett (Lauren's friend), it was posted on Scarlett's IG. Compilation of photos and videos. One of the photo was captured a week before Lauren's birthday. I think they're having a dinner after watching basketball. Ben was kissing Lauren on the forehead and they seem unaware that Scarlett was taking a pic.