Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

Cila51290 wrote:Am I the only one that finds "drunk Lauren" a bit cray cray? She really does a 180 when she's drinking.

Completely I always envision her tanning while drinking by the pool Lauren is living her best life when she's drinking! IMO.

ReneeM wrote:I just know if my SO was out partying without me, and I get a snap where some next girl is using her face to move his before taking a drink from the same glass, the first question I'm gonna ask is, what were YOU doing that made that person feel comfortable enough to do that? Some people might not care, but if it was me? It's gonna be some problems, because I'm gonna have some questions, and you better have some answers.

I just don't think Ben is that type of man and pretty much doesn't care what the eff she's up to as long as his coddling needs are being met somewhere.

From what I saw, Lauren took a sip out of Lace's drink that she offered, then Chase came in of his own accord for a sip as well. Lauren got kind of a wtf look.**edited**

That being said, partying with Bach peeps is not my favorite look on Lauren (or anyone, really). But blaming her for Chase taking a sip of a drink after her is just like huh? Kinda like blaming the victim to me.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

maniluh wrote:just saw the snap of lauren partying with some bach people on IG. imo, if lauren and ben breaks up, i can see her having a rebound hook up with chase.

I think Lauren and Chase would like that  

https://instagram.com/p/BQq523_F_ti/

Btw, bad boy Chase for drinking from Lauren's glass (though really Lace's)! A bit intentionally flirty he was being... Or something?

All IMO.

Is that Ben in the background?

Tone it down, Lolo!

Mommyof2 wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

maniluh wrote:just saw the snap of lauren partying with some bach people on IG. imo, if lauren and ben breaks up, i can see her having a rebound hook up with chase.

I think Lauren and Chase would like that  

https://instagram.com/p/BQq523_F_ti/

Btw, bad boy Chase for drinking from Lauren's glass (though really Lace's)! A bit intentionally flirty he was being... Or something?

All IMO.

Is that Ben in the background?  

No, it's BOR and Duh, so much for not talking to each other...

Ah, thanks. All I saw was dark hair and thought it was Ben. Some more time apart? Not good. Their relationship is a ticking time bomb, imho. Boom.

I'm not understanding where anyone is blaming Lauren about whatever Chase did. People are just commenting on her drinking/partying, imo. JMO

blueblues wrote:So Chase does something (slightly) inappropriate towards Lauren IMO. Lauren does nothing. Yet she is criticized for not looking offended enough in the split second afterwards, or for just being there. I just find that a bit problematic.
JMO.

Missed this! Totally agree. Said better than myself.

@Cila51290 I was responding in a general sense to a few different posts that had the tone that Lauren did something wrong and/or Ben should be upset about that activity. Again, not every post (and not even most). But there were a few, and I just wanted to state my opinion on that, generally speaking.

ETA: I agree the excessive hang outs and drinking with Bach nation folks isn't a great look for a F1. These meet ups and drinking antics have increased quite significantly for Lauren in recent months. There used to be almost none of this from her. It's probably as simple as she's having issues in her relationship, so this is how she is dealing. As many people in their 20s do when a relationship is imploding. 

That being said, given Chase's recent dating history, I'm guessing Lauren is his "look." If she gets with Chase though, I'm done defending her.  I just can't with Chase, Robby, Luke, any of them... haha.

Cila51290 wrote:I'm not understanding where anyone is blaming Lauren about whatever Chase did. People are just commenting on her drinking/partying, imo. JMO

For me this has nothing to do with Chase.

Lately Lauren seems to be partying and drinking a lot...without Ben. Not that I think couples need to be together 24/7, it is in fact a deal breaker for me...I don't want to feel smothered by the other person...but, they have not been together much of late. When they are together, neither exactly looks over the moon. Now he is on a charity trip and she is getting sloshed with a whole bunch of other Bachelor/celebrity wannabes. Not a good look and not boding well for the state of their relationship.

ReneeM wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:^ I think they'd both like that

https://instagram.com/p/BQq523_F_ti/

Lauren is lit af (IMO). That drink share with Chase though. Girl ...


Source: http://giphy.com/

I know she didn't technically do anything but that is just not a good look IMO, especially when you're having problems with your man.

No need to worry about Lauren curled up in the fetal position, heartbroken and alone while Ben is serving others in Honduras. IMO.

To be fair, there's an IG of Ben surrounded by women in Honduras.   Oh yeah - it was taken in a church and they are part of Hope and Humanity United.

Any idea where Lauren is? I haven't heard/seen anything from/about her since yesterday during the day, when she was hanging out with those group of girls.