Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

by ReneeM Tue Feb 07, 2017 11:58 pm

I'm tired of people bringing up Jojo in regards to Lauren so I can't imagine how she feels. They don't have sh*t to do with each other. It's been over a year. Jojo's engaged. BEN chose lauren. That comment doesn't even have anything to do with Jojo IMO because as a fan of Jo, I'm happy with how everything turned out, so I wouldn't troll either Lauren or Ben about it. That comment was just someone wanting to be mean to Lauren, and using something that's still IMO a sore spot for her.

by Guest Tue Feb 07, 2017 11:59 pm

She must feel very lonely IMO. Whenever she is bored or alone she posts a lot which I have observed . Her relationship with Ben is on rocks,her only close friend in that area,Megan is like 1and half hour drive away. Even though she has tried to adapt herself in Denver and has been good with Ben's friends, at the end of the day they are still Ben's close friends. She can't go to them to share her worries and problems . She really seems to be missing her family and her close friends back In LA.JMO

by emusha Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:00 am

GuardianAngel wrote:
aydynmurphy15i think Ben made a wrong choice! by the way @joelle_fletcher is better then all you! she amazing and so it @jrodgers11
jaydynmurphy15is*

laurenbushnell@jaydynmurphy15 ok sis go follow them! They both have their own pages! Or you can go write on Ben's page. Problem solved!!

I do not understand the mentality of SM users. IMO This world is so messed up when it comes to SM it isn't even funny.

I feel really badly for Lauren it's really not fair to have ppl refer to one of her deepest fears on such a regular basis yikes...

by Ladybug82 Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:05 am

As much as I'd like to have sympathy for her or any of these people when SM turns on them, most of the time I find it hard to. It'd be really simple to turn off comments or go private. But then you can't have people fawn all over you and praise you. So if you have to have the attention you better grow a thick skin and/or learn to ignore and let go, IMO.

JMO

by sweeti810 Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:09 am

mindless wrote:
Cila51290 wrote:Why did Elan feel the need to say that to Chris? That's a bit weird. Even the producers are so uptight about anything regarding BenLo. chill out Elan!

I think he was just joking, because Chris is always hanging around the Bachelor women at events.

The one thing that I found telling in that FB live is that Ben said one of the hardest things for him was how after two months of being the centre of attention and everyone pumping him up, suddenly everyone was gone after the proposal and it was just him and Lauren. He said it was a weird transition. I would think that most people would be relieved to finally be left alone with the person they supposedly want to spend the rest of their life with. For Ben it was "hard". I think he really does love the attention and is bored when it's just him and Lauren. That's probably why he was dying to do HEA, so he could be the centre of attention again. I think he caught the fame bug and now can't imagine actually settling down like a normal person. JMO.

IMO, when Ben said it was hard for them after the show, it was because they went from being completely surrounded by people whose sole job was to focus on them back to reality. I don't think Ben loves the attention because if he did, I don't think he would have turned down DWTS. IMO, if either of them are fame hungry, it's Lauren. She's the one constantly snapchatting, posting on IG, doing photo shoots, attempting blogging, etc. If Ben really wanted attention he would be more involved with social media, making appearances every weekend, and he wouldn't have gone back to a real job. I think he does want a simple life and Lauren doesn't. All JMO.

by sosleepy Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:10 am

Newt wrote:This is not a fan forum. But can I just say how adorable Lauren's family is? I love the V-Day traditions. Reading her most recent blog, I kinda felt the sadness on her words. Photo (from Sparkle in Her Eye blog) below Ben and Lauren v-day notes last year.

http://sparkleinhereye.com/

This makes me so sad. sad

To see how much their head space has changed in one year. I feel so badly for Lauren.

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:10 am

IMO Lauren has done her share of ignoring. She seldom responds to those types of posts.

Maybe she's heard it for the millionth and one time too much. If I were her, I'd still be in Mexico on a one way ticket.

by Seabear Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:14 am

People are so cruel on SM. I feel so much empathy for Lauren. I hope TPTB let the split happen sooner rather than later. She needs to be able to move back to CA and her supportive friends. IMO.
JMO

by sosleepy Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:23 am

I don't understand why she doesn't just leave...

I mean, maybe they can't announce, but what's stopping her from just getting on a plane indefinitely to either LA or Portland?

by pikake Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:37 am

GuardianAngel wrote:
aydynmurphy15i think Ben made a wrong choice! by the way @joelle_fletcher is better then all you! she amazing and so it @jrodgers11
jaydynmurphy15is*

laurenbushnell@jaydynmurphy15 ok sis go follow them! They both have their own pages! Or you can go write on Ben's page. Problem solved!!

I do not understand the mentality of SM users. IMO This world is so messed up when it comes to SM it isn't even funny.

I couldn't agree more ... Overuse, or reacting emotionally, causes way too many problems! Rolling Eyes

by pikake Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:39 am

sosleepy wrote:I don't understand why she doesn't just leave...

I mean, maybe they can't announce, but what's stopping her from just getting on a plane indefinitely to either LA or Portland?

If it were me, I'd be long gone and also staying off social media :yes:

by Alanna Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:41 am

Yeah if it was me, I'd be hightailing back home and turning off my sm. But then again I don't have the opportunity to be a fameho addicted to the ongoing faming so what the heck do I know or understand?

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