Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

@Boshem yes that could be the case. That could have been his motive so he would not end up being the bad guy.JMO

Simon21 wrote:Is Ben even capable of breaking off with anyone ?? As far as we have heard,he was the one who has always been dumped .IMO Ben must have waited for Lauren to be the one to pull off the plug . I don't see him be like the one who could end it . JMO

I agree. Ben probably kept being evasive about the wedding issue and said he needed time, so Lauren decided to give him that and in the meantime realised it not gonna change anything. If it is over, then I really hope they won't have to wait until May or something. It would just be cruel since Lauren would have to stay in Denver or be on holiday 24/7 for the next few months. Maybe that's why she keeps planning trips just hours after being home?

^ makes sense. what do you think GMA is about tomorrow? surely they'll ask ben about lauren

Pulling the plug on the wedding was his damage control.Am I the only one that feels like Ben thinks Lauren wants to marry him because he's "The Bachelor". It's like he's testing her in a way. The whole let's get to know eachother more and have more experiences together. If he really felt that way he would've never said he'd marry her tomorrow only to second guess it a few months later. Jmo

I bet Ben will act like eveyrthing is okay tomorrow about his rel coz that it should be and this appearance is tptb related jmo.

Cila51290 wrote:Pulling the plug on the wedding was his damage control.Am I the only one that feels like Ben thinks Lauren wants to marry him because he's "The Bachelor". It's like he's testing her in a way. The whole let's get to know eachother more and have more experiences together. If he really felt that way he would've never said he'd marry her tomorrow only to second guess it a few months later. Jmo

Yes because he is Ben the perfect Ben jmo.

IMO Ben must be on his way to New York for the GMA tomorrow . He will obviously say everything is fine . All the previous bachelors are there for Nick and I am sure Ben won't be allowed to say anything about his breakup or else the spotlight will be take away from the Current bachelor .JMO

I'm baffled he's even going there to give advice or whatever it is after his turn of events with Lauren this past year.

One thing I keep remembering is Ben's advice to Nick before his season filmed...Nick said that Ben's advice to him was that if he didn't think any of the women were "the one" to not be afraid to choose no one. I thought that was a bit strange and sounded more like advice that Brad 1.0 would be giving rather than Ben. I wonder if Ben saying that may have something to do with him pulling the plug on the wedding because I don't see what the point of delaying a wedding is if you believe you have found "the one" and are already living with them. Now if you are unsure they are "the one"... well, calling off a wedding makes a bit more sense in that light, IMO.

If they want to announce something soon they should hope some Bachelor couple announces some baby news. Lol. And then drop the bomb via a prepared statement on a Friday afternoon so the tabs are already out for the week.

I still want to know why those particular group of guys will be on GMA tomorrow? I wonder what's going to be the point of conversation? Anything?

I feel so bad for Lauren .I , too , can see a sadness in her eyes even in the snap she posted today . IMO she looked very happy and relaxed when she was in Mexico, I don't know why but i just feel like something major happened after her return from Mexico . Maybe they got into major fight and that might have been the final nail in the box to end this relationship completely. JMO