Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

Yep, sounds like drunk convo you have as a 21 yr old. Well maybe today's mid-late 20's is yesterday's 21.

All I can say is YUK! Lol I hope Lauren wasn't talking about Nick's package. I'm slowly losing respect for her. She has changed her behavior quite a bit.jmo. She might even lose Ben if she doesn't look for better avenues to follow. Again jmo

Good for them for having fun . Vacations are where you can be silly and act weird and even get drunk occasionally . IMO They can be sober once they go back to their respective lives .As far as you are talking about Lauren's video about not wanting to wake up, that was during the day after they went to their hotels to take a nap after having daytime tour. She was joking in snap imo

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It's not so much that they're acting like 21 year olds, it's moreso the fact that they're choosing to air it online that's like..

I think they all want to come off as RELATABLE but it all just looks try hard. Less is more with these Bach alums, IMO.

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I really liked Ben as the Bachelor but his luster is losing its shine for me post-show. I feel like he is enjoying a delayed young adulthood - one you usually have with a girlfriend, not a fiancé. I think both he and Lauren are sowing some wild oats. That old saying "Rebellion denied = rebellion delayed seems to sum up their behavior.. Good on them for doing it now, should they marry and have a family. I tell my sons to get it all out before they settle down!

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I'm the same age as some of them. The drunken/tipsy antics stopped being entertaining 3 years ago. It's time to be a grownup. Or at the very least not broadcast it on social media.

JMOAA

umngirl wrote:I'm the same age as some of them. The drunken/tipsy antics stopped being entertaining 3 years ago. It's time to be a grownup. Or at the very least not broadcast it on social media.

JMOAA

Exactly this. It's actually kind of sad to me that they have felt the need to go out drinking and getting tipsy/drunk every night that they've been in Nashville. Showing on Snapchat that you can barely get out of the bed the next morning? How classy. JMO

@amandastantonnn: Final verdict: Blondes & Brunettes have equal amounts of fun but brunettes are better at pacing themselves @jennifersaviano @LaceMorris

Yeah, Amanda, you and Lauren clearly don't know how to pace yourselves thanks to what you shared on social media isn't she going on another girls trip next week without Ben? Man, how can the next one top this one?