Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

Personally I don't really care if they want to go out and get drunk etc. It's a girls trip, they're getting a little wild, understandable IMO. Where it gets me is the SM oversharing. I've always thought that sharing when you're drunk/lit/hungover on SM is super attention seeking and cringeworthy. Idc who does it, I find it extra. These women are grown, they gotta get a grip. All JMO.

Ash2214 wrote:

umngirl wrote:I'm the same age as some of them. The drunken/tipsy antics stopped being entertaining 3 years ago. It's time to be a grownup. Or at the very least not broadcast it on social media.

JMOAA

Exactly this. It's actually kind of sad to me that they have felt the need to go out drinking and getting tipsy/drunk every night that they've been in Nashville. Showing on Snapchat that you can barely get out of the bed the next morning? How classy. JMO

I agree. I will add, I think it's ok for the girls to get together and have a blast no matter what the age "occasionally", whether it be imbibing, dressing silly etc. Why anyone would film it for the masses is beyond me. I would rather no one witness me being an I have a close friend who reunions with her college buddies about 3 times a year to unwind. However, what goes on there--stays there.

Honestly, most of the time I genuinely feel so sorry Lauren, she's damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. I don't understand why there always something to say... she's boring, cold, vain, she's drinking, she dances weird, she's having too much fun without Ben and we can go on for days. Everything she does is looked through a massive magnifying glass and picked apart negatively that sometimes I honestly don't think is fair.. ***IMO*** it's like everyone knows what's best for her and her relationship always. I'm not saying that everyone should be singing her praises all the time (NOT AT ALL - She has her cray moments but don't we all) but IMO I don't think it is all or always bad.

If she wants to go out and have some fun with the girls.. why not. if she wants to post it on SM.. why not. She's not the first person to do this (It's not a big deal ***IMO***) the only difference is tons of people see her SM compared to most. Also she hasn't posted that much compared to the others on SM over this trip.

Calling someone the TIT is not a bad thing, (We use that slang here in England ALL THE TIME), it's not used in a negative sense at all if anything the opposite... just a longwinded way of saying that person or thing is really cool or the 'G'.

@Ash2214 I can only see one snap of Lauren not wanting to wake up from her afternoon nap , that was not the next morning . Is there any other of them having hard time waking up ?? If so can you post it .

Posting drunken antics on social media is only half funny when you're college age. After that just leave the phones put away, have your fun, and not have anything you did live in the internet forever.

And don't get me started on how the only way it seems people from this franchise can have fun on a night out is if they are drinking.

^^ what drunken antics were posted?? I m really confused , when I see those snaps I see girls having fun, they aren't doing anything inappropriate or using shitty language .They are just dancing or using snapchat filters. Am I missing something??

I know Lauren said 3 weeks she was going on a girls trip can anyone guess where , I'm beginning to think this might be it only because no one would guess Nashville. Maybe to throw everyone off. I'm also wondering if Wells and Amanda got cozy in LA for the Shelift event and this is why they picked Nashville ( I mean why Nashville). I just hope Ben and Lauren can make it thru this sowing wild oats stage. I kinda agree. There is so much that goes on behind the scenes I'm sure with them but it seems when Lauren's gone he is the the one posting things because he's missing her not her missing him. I saw Amanda posted on her Instagram last night to walking across the street from behind almost like she was leaving everyone going back to the room. She needs to separate from them for awhile. They're all single, shes engaged(for now) what they are looking for in life should be different from her. Maybe they are splitting up but for now it just hasn't come out. Jk

@Simon21 I'm so confused too??? From Lace and Jen's snaps seems like they're just having some fun. Lauren barely posted on their nights out so I'm not sure...

^ According to Lace and Jen, they went out for breakfast the next morning while Amanda and Lauren couldn't get out of bed:
https://instagram.com/p/BPgVxd_DR7S/

Here's the ridiculously silly one IMO that Lauren herself shared showing Lace ready to go the next morning while Lauren is still in bed pouting:
https://instagram.com/p/BPd7ffODcCp/

While I'm at it, here are a couple of other ridiculous ones IMO
https://instagram.com/p/BPbrp38lv7e/
https://instagram.com/p/BPbTxOHFem7/

Not all of the IG stories are being uploaded to this IG page. Amanda posted one of Lauren just walking into the street and you can see a car stop quick to let her go.

It's the overexposure of showing yourself doing something thats considered "fun" that's annoying, IMO. I don't think people are saying it's wrong to go out and have some fun with your girlfriends. It's just the way these girls do it at times that seems so self absorbed and fake. Just enjoy the moment. The snaps aren't even funny and entertaining. JMO

That damn lighted phone case is so ridiculous. No one needs that. Ever. **IMO** #YoureNotAModel #StopTryingSoHard

I see on Lauren's Snapchat all the suitcases are in the car. Does that mean she's heading home(Colorado) today?