Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

by Kashathediva Sat Feb 04, 2017 11:47 pm

Cila51290 wrote:To me they are DONE because

1. He came back from Warsaw after she already left to go on her trip with her mom and sister(too convenient )
2. Birthday shoutout was cold and vague.
3. Didn't even send her roses, a card, present etc I'm assuming (we all know if he had done that or anything else for her bday Lauren would snap that right away )
4. Special dates that only happen once a year without your significant other is a RED FLAG

All just my opinion of course.

Playing devil's advocate:
How would we know 2 and 3? They may not publicize this. That is an option.
My opinion is a special occasion is sometimes not celebrated on that date. We have done this as a family many times.

by sosleepy Sat Feb 04, 2017 11:51 pm

She does seem happy... but I wonder if it's like overcompensated happiness? Like try hard happy. I think that can also be common after a breakup. Or they aren't totally broken up yet and she's sending Ben a message with her SM happiness.

I can't even believe in an alternate universe we were supposed to see their wedding on tv this month. I don't think it's a coincidence at all they are imploding same month as the cancelled wedding.

by Cila51290 Sat Feb 04, 2017 11:53 pm

Kashathediva wrote:
Cila51290 wrote:To me they are DONE because

1. He came back from Warsaw after she already left to go on her trip with her mom and sister(too convenient )
2. Birthday shoutout was cold and vague.
3. Didn't even send her roses, a card, present etc I'm assuming (we all know if he had done that or anything else for her bday Lauren would snap that right away )
4. Special dates that only happen once a year without your significant other is a RED FLAG

All just my opinion of course.

Playing devil's advocate:
How would we know 2 and 3? They may not publicize this. That is an option.
My opinion is a special occasion is sometimes not celebrated on that date. We have done this as a family many times.

I think Ben likes his perfect image to be intact with the public and since he isn't really trying that hard, doing the bare minimum, I find it unusual. Lauren likes to show off, IMO. I honestly think she would've shown what Ben had done for her. I think a lot of women like to do that especially if it's your birthday. JMO

by Lennoxcolinrolland Sat Feb 04, 2017 11:55 pm

It's not uncommon to be happy when you're spending time with loved ones. In Lauren's case her family and friends, which she's essentially been doing all month, as she's been with them a lot recently. IMO.

by Seabear Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:12 am

@Lennoxcolinrolland No description of why they will be on GMA. The four guys are listed as guests on Tues show. 2/03

by **GuardianAngel** Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:13 am

I would think she would be very upset. At least at some point in the last couple of months her SM would reflect that, but what I've read here I don't think that was the case. IMO she's too happy.

@Lennoxcolinrolland SPOILERS MEDIA THREAD

by Guest Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:18 am

Someone just commented on Lauren pic that she and her husband passed Ben and Lauren on walk today .Apparently they all live in same neighbourhood.

by Lennoxcolinrolland Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:22 am

^ Thank you for the info!

Yeah, Lauren appears to be in Denver, just as Simron said.

by sosleepy Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:23 am

Yeah... I think she's in Denver. Pretty sure this is the cat cafe she was at today:

http://www.denvercatco.com/home

Portland also has a cat cafe, but the pictures and decore in Lauren's snap match Denver's version more. IMO.

by Lennoxcolinrolland Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:31 am

I don't necessarily believe if she were upset, that would show in her SM, because a lot of ppl try to put up a facade when that's the case IMO. And a lot of ppl seem to convince not only others that they're fine in their relationship, etc... but themselves too IMO.

by Boshem Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:34 am

So they were spotted today.. I'm still confused.. Do we think they're in a rough patch in their relationship?

by bleuberry Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:43 am

Boshem wrote:So they were spotted today.. I'm still confused.. Do we think they're in a rough patch in their relationship?

This is exactly what I think. ie not completely over, nor great.

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