Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

Is that ring where her engagement ring was? If so, maybe the engagement ring is being put away until Ben is "ready" and Ben gave her a "promise ring" instead. Sorry but I would not accept it. JMO

Ash2214 wrote:I'm sorry, but Ben posting a picture he's now shared three times to his IG does nothing for me.

Not only that but I love the irony of the message being by her side when he's not with her for her birthday and hasn't seen the girl in however long and appears to have made zero effort to do anything to truly help this relationship IMO.

I personally feel zero % sorry for these yahoos. They could have tried real therapy, not shooting a reality show and tried to like, actually have a relationship. IMO.

ETA: my gawd what nonsense with the B ring snap. Is that the new engagement ring? Sadness. IMO.

Alanna wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:I'm sorry, but Ben posting a picture he's now shared three times to his IG does nothing for me.

Not only that but I love the irony of the message being by her side when he's not with her for her birthday and hasn't seen the girl in however long and appears to have made zero effort to do anything to truly help this relationship IMO.

I personally feel zero % sorry for these yahoos. They could have tried real therapy, not shooting a reality show and tried to like, actually have a relationship. IMO.

That made me laugh. Oh, by her side Ben for her birthday week? Please, you haven't been alone with her for more than one day in like a month it seems

I don't think Ben and Lauren are officially over yet....BUT....IMO Ben's lack of support and commitment to Lauren over the duration of their relationship is most likely a death knell. IMO it was painfully obvious how broken they are watching them on the when is the wedding interview...at the Nick premier event. I have a hard time believing that the pain inflicted on Lauren is something she can overcome....or something she should have to compromise on. I believe they are trying to make it work but some things are hard hurtles to overcome. Luckily for Lauren she has lots of strong devoted women friends and an amazing family to support her.
JMO

I don't know, call me crazy.  I have no investment in this couple at all.

I think they will be fine in time.  They are still really getting to know each other without all the cameras and I believe they feel overwhelmed.  

I think they are going through a rough patch figuring out where they go from here.  

I also think they love each other and they need to  work out what they need to be to each other and to themselves.  

In the end I think they will work it out. (hopefully away from the cameras)  

all my opinion of course.

Guys ... They're so in love, and she just can't wait to get home to him, and start planning their wedding! And be by his side! and spend their lives together!


Holaaaaa! You can find me here the rest of the week... maybe longer. At this point I'm worried I might never leave! by @laurenbushnell

.... Or not .

But @ReneeM, she's wearing a B ring. Does that mean nothing to you?

Yeah to me either. IMO.

Cila51290 wrote:Is that ring where her engagement ring was? If so, maybe the engagement ring is being put away until Ben is "ready" and Ben gave her a "promise ring" instead. Sorry but I would not accept it. JMO

She's had that ring for months. Since summer. I think a company made it for her.

Im so confused. Yesterday Lauren was ridiculed for not wearing a cheap replacement ring while she was on vacation. Today, now that we have a close up of the ring she was wearing, the cheap replacement is not good enough? How dare Lauren go to Mexico with just her sister and not bring her 100k diamond ring with her, especially when there is tumoil brewing between Mexico and the US. The girl just cant win IMO.

Lauren always appears happier on vacation and with her friends than she ever does with Ben. JMo

So who fed untrue rumors to Us? I was under the impression that that is a respectable outlet for all celebrity info (along with People.)

Well I'm just speculating since I've never seen that ring before. JMO