Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

IMO, for some people these milestones are not big of a deal as everyone makes it.Its a celebration whether it's done pre/post/the day .To each their own. At the end of the day , they are the two people in this relationship who knows what's the best for them . We can speculate and scratch our head as much as we want,but only they know the truth . IMO Just because one person lives a life certain way doesn't mean that is the only right way and that kind of relationship is the only one that is full of love,passion and intimacy . I have seen so many couples who are very hands on and seem very much passionate and in love ending up badly , there are those who seem less into but they have lasted lifetime . So it's all about personal preference because no one can know for sure by just looking from outside .JMO

Of course no one knows what is going on in anyone's relationship. But I wonder if Christmas and birthdays aren't important, what is? What are their priorities if not each other? I don't see this ending well.

The math of her birthday not being a big deal, yet her having some kind of getaway for it doesn't add up IMO.

sparkler wrote:Of course no one knows what is going on in anyone's relationship. But I wonder if Christmas and birthdays aren't important, what is? What are their priorities if not each other? I don't see this ending well.

Yeah birthdays aren't important, Christmas isn't important, a wedding isn't important, seeing each other isn't important, being together isn't important, apparently texting her isn't important, but shilling and getting wasted with friends is important? All IMO.

Alanna wrote:

sparkler wrote:Of course no one knows what is going on in anyone's relationship. But I wonder if Christmas and birthdays aren't important, what is? What are their priorities if not each other? I don't see this ending well.

Yeah birthdays aren't important, Christmas isn't important, a wedding isn't important, seeing each other isn't important, being together isn't important, apparently texting her isn't important, but shilling and getting wasted with friends is important? All IMO.

Lmao. Loveyyyy you silly gal! Always bringing the laughs IMO.

1, 2, 3. People already freaking out cause she's not wearing her ring

https://instagram.com/p/BP80XyQlwxy/

^Hahaha. I mean, I get it if she didn't feel safe wearing it, but a cheap replacement could have been wore too. JMO

IMO, shilling is something every bachelor franchise people has done. There is not a single one who has kept themselves away from opportunities they get after being in this franchise . So throwing shilling as a accusation seems odd. As far as getting drunk , thank god she is not lying on the public bathroom floor puking or getting excited after being drunk and kissing the exes she dumped as other girl from this franchise has done

My question is why is Lauren always needing friends & family near for the past few weeks instead of just ALONE time with Ben or just herself? She seems miserable to me and wanting to get out of Denver anyway possible. JMO

Even the Ben and Lauren fans are freaking out in the comments of that pic. It seems ppl are starting to worry. Not just the doubters IMO!

IMO it's a bit weird they're not spending her birthday together. Ben has been with his family and returned after Lauren left town? For the first time I'm thinking there's big troubles with them. And the lack of ring makes me go hmmm. JMO.

This is Ben's second time in Indiana (without Lauren, not like that matters) in the last month right? I remember him being there a few weeks ago...but my mind if cloudy, I don't really remember Anyone?