Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

I was thinking about the W accusation. Knowing what we know about Andi during sleuthing and post show, and all the rumours about the ex's brother, I wonder if it had anything to do with that. I wonder if she will go into detail as to when exactly he called her that, and what was the situation at the time.

Ladybug82 wrote:and she calls herself a southern belle or Georgia Peach!    far from it, IMO

Uh yeah. She is more like the pits and a southern ding-dong.

I knew it! Josh put it down in the fantasy suite and Andi got d*ckmatized. It happens.

I'm seriously dead after d*ckmatized....

Beach Lover wrote:I just find it really hard to believe a self proclaimed feminist that wouldn't tolerate "bad behavior" from JP would truly tolerate being emotionally abused by her fiance.  Why would she stay?  Josh apparently tried to end things with her several times. He obviously realized they were toxic together.  So why did Andi still want to hold on to someone and something if it was, as she puts it, “the most volatile and f--ked up relationship of my life” ?  Why wouldn't she have ran when given the chance?  People say terrible things in the heat of an argument and I'm sure the nastiness was slung both ways with those two hotheads.  But emotional abuse? If there was any, I think it probably went both ways.  

Totally agree Beach Lover.  Not to give Josh a pass, but arguments that are volatile enough to throw the W and the B word around are in my experience two sided.  Glad to see that Josh is taking the high road with support from his family and think it stinks that she's selling the dirty laundry for money.  I certainly won't buy the book.  You lose on this one Andie.

Alanna wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:^ All I could see in regards to Nick is that he dropped "cringeworthy f-bombs" while having sex with her and Juan Pablo wasn't sexy in his seduction. My good Lord

It was just one night! How many times did he have the opportunity to drop these f-bombs (plural)?!!

I'll show myself out.

But we already know 25 likes cheesy/smary foreplay "sexy" talk thanks to the boom mics hiding out on Kaitlyn's season.  Good Lord, this show is *this close* to needing a move to HBO, huh? I don't think Network TV can handle this much further. We know way, waaaaaaay too much about how these people do things in the bedroom.

SafronSahara wrote:I knew it! Josh put it down in the fantasy suite and Andi got d*ckmatized. It happens.

Best post! She had no control, so she couldn't break it off, it was all his fault.

#24, #23 and all the rest of them must be thanking themselves for a very lucky escape.  Maybe they have their own dating issues but this tops it all off.

sosleepy wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:^ All I could see in regards to Nick is that he dropped "cringeworthy f-bombs" while having sex with her and Juan Pablo wasn't sexy in his seduction. My good Lord

It was just one night! How many times did he have the opportunity to drop these f-bombs (plural)?!!

I'll show myself out.

But we already know 25 likes cheesy/smary foreplay "sexy" talk thanks to the boom mics hiding out on Kaitlyn's season.  Good Lord, this show is *this close* to needing a move to HBO, huh? I don't think Network TV can handle this much further. We know way, waaaaaaay too much about how these people do things in the bedroom.

Actually I think this show should just become straight up porn now and we should be allowed to watch what goes on in the FS. The show basically hooking up for money anyway. They just add exotic locations and an engagement at the end to make it seem more romantic.

All JMO.

I doubt this will ever happen but someday andi and her mud slinging tell all should appear in one of the specials on the worst lists.

I'll say this: I'm not going to totally discount Andi's emotional abuse claims regarding Josh. Many, many, many women, including very strong women, hesitate to leave bad relationships for a myriad of reasons (including physically abusive relationships); particularly when there are all sorts of feelings and emotions there. And it's pretty clear that Josh has a temper, so I could see him saying things like that, and holding the Nick stuff over her head, etc.

That said: I don't really believe Andi's work claims because she could have gone back after the breakup and decided to move to NYC and pursue "fashion" and then ended up doing all of nothing. I also think Andi should not have lied to Josh about the FS. She should have been entirely upfront about everything.

And gross re: the sex details. Although "he got it up" is kind of the bare minimum needed to get in the "number one slot". (And now I just grossed myself out)

Andi just stays proving some of us right that never liked her from the beginning. She is unclassy, disrespectful and does not want to grow up. She is pushing 30 and she is out there releasing books describing her sex life with her exes and calling them by numbers. The disrespect! The is a time to grow up.