Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

I hope Josh sticks with that statement in the article when she spills even more of her and their dirty laundry. So classy this one.

Wait, so he called her selfish because she wanted to go back to work? Then why hasn't she gone back to work since they broke up? Unless by 'work' she meant literally airing her dirty laundry in her kitchen on Instagram, in which case Josh was probably in the right to call her selfish.

I hate to say I told you so, but I kept insisting that stint at Kleinfeld's was not made up when reported that this couple looked like anything, but a couple in love and planning a wedding. 
It sounds like it was the same time she now reports about as the walk, church episode.  
I find it not surprising at all that the speculation of that FD with 25, did create an insurmountable obstacle in her relationship with 26.  
I find it not surprising at all that 25 was correct about 26's temper.

Only thing I took away from that article

US Weekly wrote:(Murray tells Us in a statement, “It saddens me and is very unfortunate that Andi has chosen to characterize me in such a negative way. I pray she finds peace.”)

Btw, I don't find it hard to believe that he called her those names. Jmo.

She hasn't gone back to work though... Very telling, too.

Jmo.

I wonder what made her think this book was a good idea?

And I was wrong, if she told Josh about Nick before that episode aired. That episode aired the night of the Finale. Not 2 weeks before. Not a lot of time to absorb the information for Josh.

In order for her to find peace, IMO she needs to recognize her faults. One of them being why did she really write this book. AKA to make herself look good.

Every day there are tough relationships, they split, they move on, they learn from it. She needs to continue to get the last word in.

The FD aired two weeks before the finale. We had MTA then the finale.

Such a difference between Des who made sure to confess all to Chris before she let him propose and Andi who lied. A relationship built on lies has a hard time growing. 

These were two people who never should have been more than a hot affair.

And yes Josh has a temper, but so does MeAndi, I just don't see her being calm and rational as he yelled.

There are three sides to everything, in this case, hers his and the truth which is probably somewhere in between. 

If MeAndi wanted to work she would be doing it now, I think that line is her lying to herself and us.

All JMO.

This is crazy. I love it! More please  It's like she's taken inspiration from Luckiest Girl Alive and Gone Girl. We just need a good murder plot now.

I'm not defending anyone because both of them have their issues, just like everyone else, but it probably wasn't best to tell Josh about Nick right before the episode aired. To be lied to by your new fiancé and then to have the guy she slept with share that information on live television must have been a double whammy.

He must have felt like an idiot defending her up and down in all of their immediate post show interviews they had to do knowing she had lied to him. I'm sure they're both at fault for the end of their relationship, but Andi just blows my mind. Andi - it's time to grow up and get some class.

nikikass wrote:I wonder what made her think this book was a good idea?  

And I was wrong, if she told Josh about Nick before that episode aired. That episode aired   the night of the Finale. Not 2 weeks before.  Not a lot of time to absorb the information for Josh.  

Yes, this instance brings up the old saying that there are 3 sides to every story. If I truly wanted to go back to work, it is certainly something I would have done almost 2 yrs later. I am wondering if her idea of work and his idea of work were two totally different things. After all, you can build up quite a sweat hanging your private lingerie in strategic kitchen areas.

I don't find it hard to believe what she said about #26 but I also don't believe she was some innocent victim of him either. Whatever the truth is about their effed up relationship, it shouldn't be everyone's business to know about. This is so much worse than what #25 did at the ATFR. Men of the world, I beg you not to get involved with women like this. I hope any guy who is considering hooking up or dating this psycho bitch reads her tell-all and runs like hell before you get your weenie chopped off.