Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Idlemess wrote:This could all be very innocent with Ben being upset about Lauren crying about or over something/ someone. When did she start wearing the Cubs cap? There could be a dozen reason for this moment. Only they know and it's none of our business until they share

As far as we know, we have pics of her wearing the Cubs hat on Saturday during the cooking date, and yesterday while they were traveling. So I suppose this could have happened either day.

She's not entitled to get upset? They aren't entitled to have an argument from time to time? Ben's not entitled to get frustrated? Silly. I do feel badly for them. Glad they are with family, and hoping they can brush this off.

Also: are people seeing something I'm not seeing? So far all I've seen is that snap on the other page of Lauren maybe looking a little teary eyed in a car. Is that still all we are working with?

The price you pay for fame.....right? Well from the smiles at the cooking show to crying in a car.... Fair to say these couples are one way when they are aware of cameras and their real selves and genuine emotions are behind close doors. Again sm postings don't tell the full picture

Hopefully whatever it was they have put it behind them.

mysthelma wrote:The price you pay for fame.....right? Well from the smiles at the cooking show to crying in a car.... Fair to say these couples are one way when they are aware of cameras and their real selves and genuine emotions are behind close doors. Again sm postings don't tell the full picture

Hopefully whatever it was they have put it behind them.

It could have easily been from yesterday too, day of travel. That can be stressful. Lauren was seen wearing the Cubs hat both times. The quotes from the cooking instuctor from the People article said they were a joy and very attentive with one and other.

And as far as social media vs. real life, that's how MOST people operate. I post cute pics of my kids to Facebook and IG or whatever. Not usually the tantrums or my disaster house, etc. The cute pics are still a reality though. They happened. You can have a couple bad moments, and that doesn't negate the good moments you choose to share.

http://www.etonline.com/news/186096_inside_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_sweet_life_denver/

Yeah we non famous people don't have the kind of pap and fan intrusion following our every move like the celebs and these new crop of d-list reality tv folks.

Sure, they're entitled to get upset, have arguments, disagreements, show emotion, etc., in public or private anytime they want.  But they know they were watched closely while the show was airing and have been in the time after.  They are still news.  Would I find it invasive to be watched and followed?  Yes!  But I didn't choose to go on a show and open my life up to the public.  If they've paid attention to anything that's happened to past couples or gotten advice from them, they had to know this could happen.  So while I wouldn't want it to happen to me and I want to feel sympathy for them, I have a hard time finding any.  

If they want things to work, are willing to put in the time and effort and are meant to be, things will work out.  If they're not and things like this become more frequent and a problem for them to handle, then, they weren't meant to last forever.  It is what it is.  JMO.

michelle1 wrote:http://www.etonline.com/news/186096_inside_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_sweet_life_denver/

They actually look to be bothered that the paps are around JMO. So this is what I was fussing about? Phew! They seem fine!

michelle1 wrote:http://www.etonline.com/news/186096_inside_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_sweet_life_denver/

Wait. This is the story? Lmao. They are fine. Next.

that was so anticlimactic

It could have been as simple as Ben pushing back or not thinking and being a guy and saying something stupid when she was suggesting too many changes to his house (Since they were at HD and we know she redid the dresser). She is trying to make it hers and he might still be getting used to the idea of sharing it. It could have been anything, who knows, couples fight, they make up (best part ). No one knows what goes on in a relationship but overall at this point they seem fine and happy overall.

The ET piece is actually a positive story. Whatever the discussion in the Home Depot parking lot was about....they supported each other on moved on.  Maybe it was hard to choose white paint over the previous brown color or they couldn't agree on which knobs to buy.