Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

This is the price you pay for going on the show. They aren't the first couple that's had a private moment blown up for all to see and they won't be the last.

Cila51290 wrote:I feel bad that's so intrusive. I hope its really nothing but them being quiet so far today on SM must mean they're somewhat mad this is coming out maybe?

I am thinking that maybe they are exploring Portland and having a good day and decided to stay off sm. Maybe they will post a few things later to show us part of their happy fun day especially with the ET thing coming out.

I'm not surprised someone snapped a pic. They're still kinda big and getting recognized everywhere they go. Intimate moment would be someone peering into their house IMO.

umngirl wrote:This is the price you pay for going on the show. They aren't the first couple that's had a private moment blown up for all to see and they won't be the last.

Of course they all know what they're getting into yes, but if you're inside a car thinking no one is watching having a private moment and they capture whatever is happening is way more invasive than a couple vacationing pics, eating at a restaurant, airport pics, etc where you definitely know someone might be watching anyway. It's a low blow whoever captured this and made some $$. JMO They should just brush this off cause in a few months no one will bother them anymore.

Cila51290 wrote:

umngirl wrote:This is the price you pay for going on the show. They aren't the first couple that's had a private moment blown up for all to see and they won't be the last.

Of course they all know what they're getting into yes, but if you're inside a car thinking no one is watching having a private moment and they capture whatever is happening is way more invasive than a couple vacationing pics, eating at a restaurant, airport pics, etc where you definitely know someone might be watching anyway. It's a low blow whoever captured this and made some $$. JMO They should just brush this off cause in a few months no one will bother them anymore.

A car in broad daylight isn't the most private place. If you can see them through a windshield that's no different than a store window you can see into.

Now if someone shot the video through the window of their house that's different.

Cila51290 wrote:

umngirl wrote:This is the price you pay for going on the show. They aren't the first couple that's had a private moment blown up for all to see and they won't be the last.

Of course they all know what they're getting into yes, but if you're inside a car thinking no one is watching having a private moment and they capture whatever is happening is way more invasive than a couple vacationing pics, eating at a restaurant, airport pics, etc where you definitely know someone might be watching anyway. It's a low blow whoever captured this and made some $$. JMO They should just brush this off cause in a few months no one will bother them anymore.

Yes, IMO it's way different to have a private moment exploited while you are in your personal car vs. on a reality show labeled Marriage Boot Camp, for example.

Regardless, I hope they aren't/don't let this bother them too much. Brush it off, move on.

This could all be very innocent with Ben being upset about Lauren crying about or over something/ someone. When did she start wearing the Cubs cap? There could be a dozen reason for this moment. Only they know and it's none of our business until they share

If they want to be together and they're meant to, none of this stuff will matter. For as inmature as Ben was because of the two "I love you" thing, he's gotten off pretty easy. Des & Chris, Kaitlyn & Shawn, Catherine & Sean, etc. had to deal with a whole lot of nastiness from tabloids. If Lauren and Ben are secure with themselves and their relationship, they will work through it and not let it bother them that much. If not, oh well, they'll move on as most of these couples do that don't end up together.

Did anyone see the video, was it actually that bad

I like this couple. No, I am not a "fan" and I have not followed what they are up to post show, other than what I read here.
With that being said and JMOAA:
If photos of myself had been in magazines(rags or whatever) prior to the FRC multiple times, I think I would continue to think that kind of papp behavior might continue to follow me post show being part of the couple.
So anytime time I would be out and about, and yes even in a car, I think I would not be surprised to see photos of me popping up.
Is it fair, is it nice, is it intrusive, blah blah blah. It makes no difference. It is.
We live in a world where there are cameras everywhere. There are microphones, drones and satellites everywhere catching all kinds of stuff.
This is not the same Lauren who asked last Nov or Dec if she would be able to continue her job on the tail of the show. I guess she has her answer. It's up to her.

Well what ever happened it looks like they are fine now and that is what matters.

Maybe they came back from the cooking date and she was cutting onions LOLLOLLL...you never know they seem fine so they good.... they learned the hard way i guess